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groucho

@groucho

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Posted: 12 years ago

#81

Sanchi may need professional help. But even for that there must be some one in the house to

Convince her to take it. She is not in the extreme case where the institution people can come and

Forcibly take her. She just needs counselling. That is possible only with her cooperation. Genearally

Such people dont listen to their immediate nearest and dearest. They will manipulate them. So the

Immediate dearest like Ira,Daddu and Shiv should give her the cold treatment while Anandi talks

Sense to her. Another thing the family should do is take her cell phone away. So that she does

not contact Ankita.

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👏 Excellent...this is what I have been saying...for once the cv's are trying to go the right way.

Anandi can be kept on the sidelines as the cvs are hell bent on showing that only she can handle any situation that comes up but the storyline has to show reality...and that is leave situations to be handled by professionals. ...Anandi cannot solve ALL the problems.

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MaxMayfield

@MaxMayfield

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Posted: 12 years ago

#82

@TM - good one😊

Appy - 😛😉

I was told by someone once - that be inspired by people who are superior than you by words and by action. Real life, havent found any, but on Indian TV, Anandi is definitely an inspiring character. She is the same person who cried because she was not able to forgive the person who had wronged her - to the extent that she called herself stone hearted - she is the same person who forgave innumerable mistakes of people around her - she is the same person who wants to tend to the person who hates her - that is Anandi!

Innate goodness is something that as a human nature, not digestible - and not being sarcastic - as a human being, we are channeled to think negatively - leave urself alone for one minute with a blank mind, and the first thot that hits would be a negative one - as per a particular survey conducted. we are channelled to look out for a black spot on a white paper - and if it doesnt exist - we create one. thats the thing with her...her underlying goodness will be questioned - will be looked at with a microscope - to find that black spot.

the funda is simple - "being good is unrealistic and being "realistic" (read grey shaded) is good"

there are times when I wonder, do we really need realistic response (read like how we would react to a particular situation) in telly dramas - whats new to learn in that - we already know how we would react?? idealistic approach mayb unrealistic, but per me, thats the way it should be??

A may look irritating talking to Saanchi, trying to mend her - but IMO thats not because she is deliberately being mahaan or has a big chip of her shoulder, but its because she shouldnt be wasting her time or energy on a person as ungrateful and disgusting as Sa - her time, her thoughts are too precious to be wasted on someone like Saanchi🤢

thats just my POV...

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Awfulggt

@Awfulggt

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Posted: 12 years ago

#83

The CV's are obsessed with Anandi. They think this story/serial won't move if they make her less important or less involved . So ,as her story is over, they keep involving her in things not at all related to her. This had been happening since the time her marriage and the one month long rasams happened.

Else why did she have to cry and make a big issue out of it by postponing some rasam when J left to some other village after her marriage? She had NO business in going to J at that time and giving him a loong lecture about how "irresponsible" he was to have left his home😳! And then when Ganga entered, anandi's comparisons with Ganga's problems .etc etc were equally annoying(at that time gagna character had more expectations😔). And next the cV's didn't know where else to put her...so they made it her job to marry J🤢. And so it went on. The worst of all was Sanchi's drama. Except making milk shakes for Sanchi ,making her eat and telling her how to behave and what to do with her life , Anandi serves no purpose. This is too much of an intrusion into Sanchi's private space. And Anandi doesn't even understand that. She acts like as if she is doing some favour to Sanchi. Though Sanchi is an annoying character, there is some truth in what she says! Anyone would feel annoyed if they have a bhabhi who has no work but to design your life and tell you every minute how you should be!

Now the next job , this jobless character has is to think think and think how Shiv would feel when he comes to know the truth🥱!Go get a life Anandi!

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731627

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Posted: 12 years ago

#84

btw did sanchi drink alcohol or apple juice because shekhars did not scold sanchi for this

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groucho

@groucho

Rocker

Posted: 12 years ago

#85

Originally posted by: surabhi01
btw did sanchi drink alcohol or apple juice because shekhars did not scold sanchi for this

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Ohhh the cv's😡...never will they think of the obvious...good point

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@Spring-Dew

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Posted: 12 years ago

#86

Originally posted by: Firstpref

Yes there is definitely something weird about them!

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Firstpref

@Firstpref

Beginner

Posted: 12 years ago

#87

Originally posted by: The_Alchemist.
The CV's are obsessed with Anandi. They think this story/serial won't move if they make her less important or less involved . So ,as her story is over, they keep involving her in things not at all related to her. This had been happening since the time her marriage and the one month long rasams happened.
Else why did she have to cry and make a big issue out of it by postponing some rasam when J left to some other village after her marriage? She had NO business in going to J at that time and giving him a loong lecture about how "irresponsible" he was to have left his home😳! And then when Ganga entered, anandi's comparisons with Ganga's problems .etc etc were equally annoying(at that time gagna character had more expectations😔). And next the cV's didn't know where else to put her...so they made it her job to marry J🤢. And so it went on. The worst of all was Sanchi's drama. Except making milk shakes for Sanchi ,making her eat and telling her how to behave and what to do with her life , Anandi serves no purpose. This is too much of an intrusion into Sanchi's private space. And Anandi doesn't even understand that. She acts like as if she is doing some favour to Sanchi. Though Sanchi is an annoying character, there is some truth in what she says! Anyone would feel annoyed if they have a bhabhi who has no work but to design your life and tell you every minute how you should be!

Now the next job , this jobless character has is to think think and think how Shiv would feel when he comes to know the truth🥱!Go get a life Anandi!

One really needs to think what is the actual purpose of A's character. What has she done after her marriage? Yes she helped the dhobi's wife and other women but what else? What about her own life? Has she incorporated any of her values and ideals into her own life? What has she done apart from being a tray server and a general dogsbody and worst of all taking all the rubbish dished out to her by the Shekhers, not just by Ira and Sanchi, but also by Alok and Daddu who are just spineless men who may notice what is happening in the house, but don't have the guts to say anything. A expects other women to stick up for themselves and to say or do something, but what has she done?

Re: Sanchi, who is nasty, viscious and devious, a fact now revealed not only to the whole family, but also to outsiders - in relation to her, what is A achieving by her actions by constantly being in her face, by making special food for her, and constantly advising her on what to do and what not to do. A appears to be utterly stupid - she just cannot get it through her head that S is NOT her friend or her younger sister; that S does NOT want to see her face, let alone talk / listen to her. Whatever S may be and however she needs to be dealt with, is for her parents and immediate family like siblings / daddu to decide, right or wrong. If they don't know what to do, they can go to a professionsl. But A just keeps butting in and dishing out advice - I don't blame S for getting angry with A; S needs her space and A just keeps going to her room on some pretext or the other! A needs to do something more meaningful with her life than butting into other people's business.

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Firstpref

@Firstpref

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Posted: 12 years ago

#88

Originally posted by: groucho

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Ohhh the cv's😡...never will they think of the obvious...good point

excellent point! I never thought of that...its like the fact that she drank alcohol and made a spectacle of herself has just gone over the Shekhers heads!!

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