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leavesandwaves

@leavesandwaves

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Posted: 12 years ago

anandi talked, not lectured.

It is a well needed talk from own experience. Whether sanchi listens or not is her wish.

It is like an elder sister talking to younger sister.

Placement for sanchi. She should accept it and move on.

Anandi prepared some favourite dish of Shiv which brought back the past for Ira and meenu. Maybe shiv likes what his father used to like?

Nice to see someone trying to adopt an injured infant and the entire family participating.

Ganga, the pretty nurse. Hope Jagya and ganga concentrate on their work than on eyelocks.
There is a place and time for everything.

Sumitra proved to be a careless babysitter. Leaving the child and no one near the toddler. What is the use of shouting at the servants? When you take some responsibility, do it properly.

This incident should be like a warning bell to both ganga and Jagya.

Ready for the bashing.😆

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BeingMahiway

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Posted: 12 years ago

u r rite wat anandi said to saachi was a advice... was d only n best explanation she could gve... but saachi a self lover did nt evn try to connect wid it...

wen anandi said she prepared sumthng best dish for shiv I thught its halwa... bt a dish dat connects lot of thngs...

yes dere is tme for everything bt den jagan r newly Wed tho romance to banta hai...

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tinoo

@tinoo

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Posted: 12 years ago

The issue here is not the content of the talk... but rather who delivers the talk.

The talk will have more value if it came from shiv ...or someone saanchi feels comfortable with... and not anandi.

Saanchi has nothing but contempt for anandi, so it is pointless.

even the right thing said by the wrong person will rub people the wrong way.

It is human nature.

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tinoo

@tinoo

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

Sumitra proved to be a careless babysitter. Leaving the child and no one near the toddler. What is the use of shouting at the servants? When you take some responsibility, do it properly.

well, servants WERE at fault, and deserved to be yelled at for carelessness.

But only reason Manu went to the phenyl was because he was hungry -- he said "duddhu" and he was going to the bottle thinking it was food/drink and not because he felt curious about the bottle. This part is sumitra's fault. If he was well fed he would not have been attracted by the bottle of white stuff.

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leavesandwaves

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Posted: 12 years ago

But anandi had similar experience with Jagya. so it is more meaningul that she talks whether sanchi likes it or not. Shiv could not have expressed those things. and sanchi does not care for even Shiv.

Maybe ankita should tell her over some drinks. Sanchi may listen to ankita.

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charminggenie

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Posted: 12 years ago

@Leaves

There is nothing wrong with what she said, but I have a problem with its timing. At a time when Sanchi has not fully understood the impact of her actions, is emotionally unstable and has pretty skewed opinion about Anandi. I don't know how this talk would have aided in her recovery. Sanchi needs space from Anandi for some time and the only person talking to her should either be her mom or her brother. Someone who she can related to. Psychologically she is stuck at Anandi and anything she says won't be appreciated.

I feel Sanchi has some serious issues and insecurities , if not medically , they need to addressed by her family and not Anandi. By talking now to her, Anandi is alienating her further from her family and is undervaluing the seriousness of Sanchi's action.

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leavesandwaves

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: charminggenie
@Leaves
There is nothing wrong with what she said, but I have a problem with its timing. At a time when Sanchi has not fully understood the impact of her actions, is emotionally unstable and has pretty skewed opinion about Anandi. I don't know how this talk would have aided in her recovery. Sanchi needs space from Anandi for some time and the only person talking to her should either be her mom or her brother. Someone who she can related to. Psychologically she is stuck at Anandi and anything she says won't be appreciated.

I feel Sanchi has some serious issues and insecurities , if not medically , they need to addressed by her family and not Anandi. By talking now to her, Anandi is alienating her further from her family and is undervaluing the seriousness of Sanchi's action.

sanchi has shut off her own mother. and she is ready to listen only to friends like ankita.

anandi keeps on trying and what she is doing is right. Sanchi listened and showed her anger only at the end. That means it is working.

Edited by leavesandwaves - 12 years ago

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leavesandwaves

@leavesandwaves

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Posted: 12 years ago

and anandi even convinced sanchi to accompany them.

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731627

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Posted: 12 years ago

anandi many time give long good speech to sanchi but sanchi never liked anandi speech so if still anandi giving speech then anandi is doing mistake.when sanchi herself is not asking anandi advice then there is no need for anandi giving advice to sanchi.

Edited by surabhi01 - 12 years ago

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charminggenie

@charminggenie

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Posted: 12 years ago

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@Leaves-

Lets think away from the script, is it possible in real life that a person like Sanchi would ever listen to Anandi even with all her recent anger and not an inch of regret. The contrast of people she is listening further illustrates her Ankita a frn who is enabling her hate and Anandi , the so called cause of her hate. How damaging is that.

Even if she has shut down Ira or Shiv does that mean they should stop trying and ignore it. She has been snapping and shutting at Anandi for months now, but has A ever stopped trying.

I think there is nothing wrong with Anandi's intention but her approach is both wrong and unrealistic.

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