Adoption or social service?

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Posted: 12 years ago
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The thing i have noticed since this adoption track is that AnSh are putting this adoption more like a part of their social work than them entering into parenthood...i mean once they were not shown to be happy about becoming parents to orphan child but more that they were happy to lend their services to the child...now that's the reason i am not much happy about this sudden fast track...they are taking everything so lightly...is Anandi even ready to handle all the responsibilities of a mother because she looks too busy to me to be in her dreamland of social service?...Is Shiv ready to do his part as father or just fulfilling one of his wife's wish?...I wish they show such scenes where they are preparing themselves for the coming baby because till now this adoption thing is looking very dull to me because what i imagine and what they show is very different...i would be more happy with this adoption even if with first child if they show some parenting type talks b/w AnSh ...i know many of you must be thinking i am being too much demanding even though it's such nice track...but the thing with BV is even with such strong tracks due to lack of proper scenes and direction the tracks lose their appeal...like transfer track which could focus more on Anandi's adjustment in new city but they were more bothered over creating memories for flashback

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Posted: 12 years ago
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We should accept that BV is a fairy tale now..
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: libsrocks

The thing i have noticed since this adoption track is that AnSh are putting this adoption more like a part of their social work than them entering into parenthood...i mean once they were not shown to be happy about becoming parents to orphan child but more that they were happy to lend their services to the child...now that's the reason i am not much happy about this sudden fast track...they are taking everything so lightly...is Anandi even ready to handle all the responsibilities of a mother because she looks too busy to me to be in her dreamland of social service?...Is Shiv ready to do his part as father or just fulfilling one of his wife's wish?...I wish they show such scenes where they are preparing themselves for the coming baby because till now this adoption thing is looking very dull to me because what i imagine and what they show is very different...i would be more happy with this adoption even if with first child if they show some parenting type talks b/w AnSh ...i know many of you must be thinking i am being too much demanding even though it's such nice track...but the thing with BV is even with such strong tracks due to lack of proper scenes and direction the tracks lose their appeal...like transfer track which could focus more on Anandi's adjustment in new city but they were more bothered over creating memories for flashback

Don't expect that BV will show even ansh really adopting the kid. They will register and then drama about shiv past will over power the adoption track. This sudden ansh adoption is only to show shiv past. Cvs will give message that shiv not being Ira alok son is still fine. Ira blabbering about mera khoon will make her realize her thinking is so wrong. Shiv not being her khoon but she gave her love and raised her. So there us nothing like mera vansh nonsense. There is no wrong in adopting a kid.
Cvs will show saanchi being the real daughter f Ira never cared about her or family but shiv not her khoon gave the love, care and respect to alok Ira.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sheetsden

Don't expect that BV will show even ansh really adopting the kid. They will register and then drama about shiv past will over power the adoption track. This sudden ansh adoption is only to show shiv past. Cvs will give message that shiv not being Ira alok son is still fine. Ira blabbering about mera khoon will make her realize her thinking is so wrong. Shiv not being her khoon but she gave her love and raised her. So there us nothing like mera vansh nonsense. There is no wrong in adopting a kid.
Cvs will show saanchi being the real daughter f Ira never cared about her or family but shiv not her khoon gave the love, care and respect to alok Ira.

and you really think Anandi will forget about adoption?...i don't think so...Adoption is pakka and they are just making the drama, to convince Ira for adoption, a bit more masaledar with Shiv's past
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Very true

the Great A just want to give message to society . or say that to show off that yes we are adopting child you also should do that.
so I am not in favor of this adoption track and esp when you see vamp is playing tantrums in your home what child will learn or how that child s emotions will be shaped seeing this tantrums.


today sumi scolded makhan that don't put things like phenyl in homes where children are there.

here toh vamp is roaming khulle aam . how come she will not harm baby? such a irresponsible couple đŸ„±

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Posted: 12 years ago
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I think CVs are completely messing up this adoption by trying to tell that Anandi and Shiv are doing it as a part of their duty towards the society.
Adoption is part duty towards society and partly you are doing it to fulfil your needs to be a parent.I wish they would bring out this point too.

We all agree and accept that AnSh are Mr and Mrs Mahaan 😛but adopting a baby should come out of a need to be a parent not just out of a need to do social service.

Only difference is that Mahaan couples do not discriminate between biological children and adopted children unlike non Mahaan people


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Posted: 12 years ago
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I really loved today's episode. There was some happiness in both families after a long time.
A child brings lot of happiness too in addition to some minor problems. Makhan kaka's carelessness
In leaving the harmful disinfectant was a lesson. Loved Sumi today. We got our good old sweet
Caring Sumi back. 👏. As i wanted Sanchi had a mini dose of Anandi's pravachan which was
Much needed. It did have some positive effect on her. A should not give up. I liked that orphanage
Trip also with the whole Shekhar family. Daddu,Ira and Meenu were genuinely happy.
I liked the way the adoption idea was brought up by Ansh. Some times it is a good impulse that
Works out great. I can understand Ira's reservations. But she will come around. I dont think
Adopting a child and having obe's own are mutually exclusive. In some cases where a couple
Has not conceived for years,after adopting they conceive because of the psychological
Feeling of fullfillment and lack of stress.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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adoption is too fast... even here n discussion it brought shiv impotent/infertile... the same will affect in societey .. societey is u and me... if they're adopting 2nd kid thats not gng 2 bring any chng...cv's wat they r trying 2 say... adopting 1st kid only will bring awareness n the world????????? i think ira s right...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I really thnk its d fault of d cv's or writter... who r gvng such dailogues... wen yesterday dey shwd anandi wanna be a mom n her emotions for d child n also y she wants to adopt... n after shiv said yes her happiness for d same her excitement... today dey were completly diff... i still believe writter r at fault...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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the track reeks of self-proclaimed mahaanness.. the adoption does seem more like a few hours of community service rather than welcoming an innocent child into their lives..there is no discussion of the major change their life will have with the child, no excitement at being parents and no expression of pure joy at haivng a baby.. this is hardly how parents behave..AnSh are acting as if its an extension of shiv's collector's job and anandi's mahila seva..

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