AsYa - next level: communication

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@metoyou

Sparkler

Posted: 12 years ago

Hello all Forum fellows 😊

Nope, I am not your regular topic maker. For some it might be weird, for some it might be new and for me its kinda rare.

ATTENTION: My intentions are NOT to ruin the upcoming good moments between AsYa

Let me share with you all the following:

After the spoiler there were, and still are, different kind of reactions:

- some are on cloud nine (like AsYa themselves)

- some are hanging in between heaven and earth

- and some refuse to move an inch

So, where do I belong? Category 2; still hanging somewhere in between...

Before I continue, let me confess first: After watching the spoiler even I had a very cute smile on my face (if I may say so). I like them as a jodi, so obviously it made me happy. But here comes the twist (like any other story): as much as I love to see some romance between AsYa, they need to take their relationship to the next level. My heart really really needs to feel more than just the love and romance. My eyes want to see more than just hugging and being all cute. My ears needs to hear some other words than 'I love you', I missed you' etc etc.

What is the next level? Perhaps for some that is the physical part but no, sorry, that is absolutely not the kind of next level I am referring to.

Love, trust and communication, probably three of most important factors in any kind of relation (ship): boyfriend-girlfriend, brother-sister, parent-child (to name a few).

We have seen the love, we have seen the trust issues but what happened to communication?

Unfortunately, that is exactly that is been missing in AsYa's relationship.

I am not talking about some small talk, casual talk like 'How are you', 'Where are you going', etc etc. What I want to see them is having a long and good heart to heart conversation, like any other couple would do.

Most preferably, I would like them to start talking about their first encounter. Their first impression of each other, the moment they felt something for the other, when and how all the love happened and then move on to the recent issues they had to face. But, maybe that is asking for way too much now, so let's just stick to the current track.

My wish is, and perhaps some of you share the same, can we please have a heart to heart chat between AsYa? They should talk about how all of this has changed them. Let them express their feelings and emotions. Make each other understand what they have been through. What they have learned from this and how they will try to fight against it (together), in the future. It is very normal for couples to 'review'' particular major issues, circumstances and situations in their lives.

By doing so, they will bring more depth into their relationship and that will help them a lot in their future.

When all of this should happen? Please, let that be before the song sequence takes place. To be very honest, personally, I would enjoy the romance a bit more then.

Feel free to express yourself. Healthy discussion will be appreciated 😊

P.S. I could be wrong about the key factors of a relationship. Its totally based on my personal thinking. Feel free to correct me!

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anushreemishra

@anushreemishra

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Rabbit meri jaan you made a post 😃 ...pehle to aa jhappi pa 🤗
Great post rabbit...
I have never doubted asya's love for each other but they have major communication issues which need to resolved ASAP
As i have said before i don't care a hoot about asya reunion until I see asya having a heart to heart and no I don't mean about their good memories they have their entire life to do that...
I want them to talk about the whole trading fiasco...I want zoya to realize her mistake,I want asad to realize that it wasn't his decision to take what he did...I want some tension and awkwardness...I want rhem not to brush this thing under the rug coz this wasn't some stupid silly fight what happened was huge and to just forget it would be unrealistic IMO...asya relation was damaged IMO and yesterday's episode May have been the beginning of them walking on the path to mend it but it was just beginning...I need them to mature now talk work on their relationship move from the awkwardness to a level of comfort they have seen never before..
I am all for cheesy romance but honestly their dance is so out of place...no couple which has been through so much would just start dancing like that...some hugs,looks shouldn't be able toend relationships talks are very important and i want to see that...
As I told sangeeta di that the moment asya decide to have a mature convo I may just watch QH again but otherwise they are done for me without a good heartfelt convo their relation will seem a little shallow to me
Nd not to sound very pessimistic but i don't see them having a heart to heart Convo lol coz apparently who needs to talk when you can dance right 😆

P.S.-I am in 3rd category😆I refuse to watch QH and acknowledge asad and zoya as asya until i see a satisfactory heart to heart between them😆

Edited by anushreemishra - 12 years ago

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Tanvi

@KulfiBai

Rocker

+ 2

Posted: 12 years ago

I completely agree with you! Though I belong in the first category, I've always maintained that I'd like if they showed a genuine heart-to-heart between AsYa in which they highlight all the issues, everything they've just been through, and yes most importantly learn to communicate henceforth. Not one chat and that it's, but many, many heart-to-hearts.

I honestly wasn't expecting the song sequence to come so soon, but now that it has, like you, I can only hope Asad and Zoya have a proper, mature conversation before they break into song and dance 😆

How strange and unrealistic would it be if they just started romancing the second Dilshad leaves for Mrs. Sharma's place (my assumption lol).

Great post! :)

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@ChaiTeaWali

Sparkler

+ 3

Posted: 12 years ago

that's exactly what I wanna see too! whenever I think about AsYa's conversations, I can never think of an example of one good heart-to-heart conversation ... sometimes I wonder how they actually fell in love because tbh there's not that many proper AsYa (just them two, no one else) conversation scenes ... I would love to see them talk about their first meet too and how at one point they couldnt stand each other 😆

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@metoyou

Sparkler

Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: KulfiBai
I completely agree with you! Though I belong in the first category, I've always maintained that I'd like if they showed a genuine heart-to-heart between AsYa in which they highlight all the issues, everything they've just been through, and yes most importantly learn to communicate henceforth. Not one chat and that it's, but many, many heart-to-hearts.

I honestly wasn't expecting the song sequence to come so soon, but now that it has, like you, I can only hope Asad and Zoya have a proper, mature conversation before they break into song and dance 😆

How strange and unrealistic would it be if they just started romancing the second Dilshad leaves for Mrs. Sharma's place (my assumption lol).

Great post! :)

Thanks Kulfi 😊

Indeed, a mature convo is very much needed. It would make the whole picture complete of reunion, communication aur uske baad jitna romance woh karna chahte hain, they can do 😆

But for now, words are very much important...

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@metoyou

Sparkler

Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: MannieXO
that's exactly what I wanna see too! whenever I think about AsYa's conversations, I can never think of an example of one good heart-to-heart conversation ... sometimes I wonder how they actually fell in love because tbh there's not that many proper AsYa (just them two, no one else) conversation scenes ... I would love to see them talk about their first meet too and how at one point they couldnt stand each other 😆

Yes Mannie, you are right. There have been very small convo's like the hospital scene (recent track) and perhaps a few more but the lengthy ones are really missing.

Not sure, if they can give us a heart to heart about their initial days but they really have to talk about the current situation...

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Monica

@mochhug

Rocker

+ 5

Posted: 12 years ago

Can I hug you? 🤗

In class. But I'll be back

Yes! Thank you! I actually wanted this to happen after Ajmer itself. But sadly it didn't really happen. I mean the wishes were a way of communication. But they never really talked about trust, about trusting each other, about what it meant for their relationship.

This is why I really want them to do it now. When he told her to tell him everything in future, and she still didn't listen and went off to find Imraan with Tanveer, it showed that Zoya still doesn't trust him with the truth 100%. But now she's learned. Secrets, and trying to cover up things, does no one any good. Honesty and trust are the two most important pillars of a relationship. Without them, it won't function.

And I want her to tell him, calmly, and directly, how she felt when he dragged her to SM. And how he felt after. I want them to pour their hearts out.

I really, really, really hope Gul doesn't disappoint this time. 😳

Lovely post!

Edited by mochhug - 12 years ago

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Kanika

@kankabhor

Sparkler

+ 3

Posted: 12 years ago

GREAT GREAT POST!!

I so want to see some conversation session between AsYa now.. Not only about this particular issue but in general they should talk more now..

Everything, their first meeting, Akram fiasco and Mangalpur😳.. Yeah I said mangalpur, I want Asad to tell Zoya that when she was burried , he went manic and what he felt for her😳.. I want Asad to tell Zoya that in one month of Ajmer separation , he suffered so much.. I want him to tell her that he saw her in dargah first time.. All issues also some romantic talk about their would be children.😳

I want Zoya to tell Asad about her life in New York..

And to bring some change, they can show Zoya going to office with Asad and working.. And talking in office, office roamnce would be great change.. Also, my fellow feminist freinds would love to watch Zoya working😃