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rajnid68

@rajnid68

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Posted: 11 years ago

#31

A much needed heart to heart talk is needed.

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NainaAlex

@NainaAlex

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Posted: 11 years ago

#32

Oh yes a heart to heart convo between them is very much needed... and preferably before the song... and also one between Zoya and Dillu

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penfriend28

@penfriend28

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Posted: 11 years ago

#33

very nice post...

and very much true...

i am waiting for such a scene since long...its hightime and more than romance i want to watch this scene...

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Ranee Bhattacharya

@raneeb

Dazzler

+ 2

Posted: 11 years ago

#34

4 Lions just skims over the important dialogues! I wish they do show them communicating verbally and not leave it to our imagination! They could have showed us the drive back from SM to KV! That would have been the icing on the cake! Same way after an intense scene at the airport they just showed them entering the house! Asad- Zoya dialogues are so left to our imagination! Why? If we can have detailed and extended dialogues of Tanveer and Razia which are so not necessary why not ASad- Zoya?

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Niharika17

@Niharika17

Voyager

Posted: 11 years ago

#35

Originally posted by: ranz
4 Lions just skims over the important dialogues! I wish they do show them communicating verbally and not leave it to our imagination! They could have showed us the drive back from SM to KV! That would have been the icing on the cake! Same way after an intense scene at the airport they just showed them entering the house! Asad- Zoya dialogues are so left to our imagination! Why? If we can have detailed and extended dialogues of Tanveer and Razia which are so not necessary why not ASad- Zoya?

Word...I have been waiting for their drive scenes in both the scenes u mentioned...and agree completely..they waste so much time in the expressions of Tanveer/Razia/Badi bee crap..why cant they create a scene with just plain words...we are not expectign every AsYa scene to be full of romance/hugs/nok jhok...we want to see them normal also sometimes

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...MonaCo...

@...MonaCo...

Dazzler

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Posted: 11 years ago

#36

Absolutely, word !!! I think they had more heart to hearts when they just started becoming friends (Coffee, Blueberry Cheesecake, etc.) than now, when they merely indulge in over used hugs and cheesy romance. I am kind of sick of the hugs and the dances, though I do find them romantic and hot. I want to see more - and there are too many things that need to happen - like Zoya mentioning to Asad and introspecting on what she herself did on her Nikaah day. She not only broke her promise, but also let Dilshaad down. She was making talks about how she can not disrepute a family - but she has let down her own family (aapi-jiju) and Khan family several times. Is this inconsistent writing, or character growth, time will tell.

Originally posted by: me2you
Hello all Forum fellows 😊

Nope, I am not your regular topic maker. For some it might be weird, for some it might be new and for me its kinda rare.

ATTENTION: My intentions are NOT to ruin the upcoming good moments between AsYa

Let me share with you all the following:

After the spoiler there were, and still are, different kind of reactions:
- some are on cloud nine (like AsYa themselves)
- some are hanging in between heaven and earth
- and some refuse to move an inch

So, where do I belong? Category 2; still hanging somewhere in between...
Before I continue, let me confess first: After watching the spoiler even I had a very cute smile on my face (if I may say so). I like them as a jodi, so obviously it made me happy. But here comes the twist (like any other story): as much as I love to see some romance between AsYa, they need to take their relationship to the next level. My heart really really needs to feel more than just the love and romance. My eyes want to see more than just hugging and being all cute. My ears needs to hear some other words than 'I love you', I missed you' etc etc.

What is the next level? Perhaps for some that is the physical part but no, sorry, that is absolutely not the kind of next level I am referring to.
Love, trust and communication, probably three of most important factors in any kind of relation (ship): boyfriend-girlfriend, brother-sister, parent-child (to name a few).
We have seen the love, we have seen the trust issues but what happened to communication?

Unfortunately, that is exactly that is been missing in AsYa's relationship.
I am not talking about some small talk, casual talk like 'How are you', 'Where are you going', etc etc. What I want to see them is having a long and good heart to heart conversation, like any other couple would do.
Most preferably, I would like them to start talking about their first encounter. Their first impression of each other, the moment they felt something for the other, when and how all the love happened and then move on to the recent issues they had to face. But, maybe that is asking for way too much now, so let's just stick to the current track.

My wish is, and perhaps some of you share the same, can we please have a heart to heart chat between AsYa? They should talk about how all of this has changed them. Let them express their feelings and emotions. Make each other understand what they have been through. What they have learned from this and how they will try to fight against it (together), in the future. It is very normal for couples to 'review'' particular major issues, circumstances and situations in their lives.
By doing so, they will bring more depth into their relationship and that will help them a lot in their future.

When all of this should happen? Please, let that be before the song sequence takes place. To be very honest, personally, I would enjoy the romance a bit more then.

Feel free to express yourself. Healthy discussion will be appreciated 😊

P.S. I could be wrong about the key factors of a relationship. Its totally based on my personal thinking. Feel free to correct me!

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livelytanu

@livelytanu

Trailblazer

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Posted: 11 years ago

#37

I agree with you. Same here even I am in the category 2. 😊

Yeah I want 2 c something more that just dance.

But I don't think CVs have planned something like that in the near future. But I am ready to wait, I hope do incorporate it somewhere in the story.

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@metoyou

Sparkler

Posted: 11 years ago

#38

Originally posted by: anushreemishra
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Rabbit meri jaan you made a post 😃 ...pehle to aa jhappi pa 🤗
Great post rabbit...
I have never doubted asya's love for each other but they have major communication issues which need to resolved ASAP
As i have said before i don't care a hoot about asya reunion until I see asya having a heart to heart and no I don't mean about their good memories they have their entire life to do that...
I want them to talk about the whole trading fiasco...I want zoya to realize her mistake,I want asad to realize that it wasn't his decision to take what he did...I want some tension and awkwardness...I want rhem not to brush this thing under the rug coz this wasn't some stupid silly fight what happened was huge and to just forget it would be unrealistic IMO...asya relation was damaged IMO and yesterday's episode May have been the beginning of them walking on the path to mend it but it was just beginning...I need them to mature now talk work on their relationship move from the awkwardness to a level of comfort they have seen never before..
I am all for cheesy romance but honestly their dance is so out of place...no couple which has been through so much would just start dancing like that...some hugs,looks shouldn't be able toend relationships talks are very important and i want to see that...
As I told sangeeta di that the moment asya decide to have a mature convo I may just watch QH again but otherwise they are done for me without a good heartfelt convo their relation will seem a little shallow to me
Nd not to sound very pessimistic but i don't see them having a heart to heart Convo lol coz apparently who needs to talk when you can dance right 😆
P.S.-I am in 3rd category😆I refuse to watch QH and acknowledge asad and zoya as asya until i see a satisfactory heart to heart between them😆

Tamatar, my dear! You know I am not a frequent TM, but this was bothering me for a long time, so I thought why not share it. 🤗 Its quite rare 😆

I know how and what you think about the current situations in the show. Agree, a mature convo is very much needed.They really need to sort out some very important issues.

That's why, I also said its better to have that before the song and dance or actually any other romantic scene. Of course, I love to the romance but that is not the only thing a relationship is about...

I knew you would be in the 3rd category 😉 Its all good Tamatar...no worries 😊

Thank you!!! 🤗

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annanya

@annanyaksgian

Rocker

+ 2

Posted: 11 years ago

#39

if they sit and talk in whole episode,then everybody will say boring episode

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@metoyou

Sparkler

Posted: 11 years ago

#40

Originally posted by: mochhug
Can I hug you? 🤗
In class. But I'll be back

Yes! Thank you! I actually wanted this to happen after Ajmer itself. But sadly it didn't really happen. I mean the wishes were a way of communication. But they never really talked about trust, about trusting each other, about what it meant for their relationship.

This is why I really want them to do it now. When he told her to tell him everything in future, and she still didn't listen and went off to find Imraan with Tanveer, it showed that Zoya still doesn't trust him with the truth 100%. But now she's learned. Secrets, and trying to cover up things, does no one any good. Honesty and trust are the two most important pillars of a relationship. Without them, it won't function.

And I want her to tell him, calmly, and directly, how she felt when he dragged her to SM. And how he felt after. I want them to pour their hearts out.

I really, really, really hope Gul doesn't disappoint this time. 😳

Lovely post!

Meri Chikni! 😊

Communication can do wonders to any relationship. Its sad that sometimes, well actually most of the times, CVs tend to forget to show us the viewers such moments between the couple.

Its the most normal thing to do. Like I said, it would be the best to have it before the song and dance, I would enjoy it much more then.

@bold 👏

P.S. Thanks for coming back. Meri tarah ghayab nahin ho gayi 😆

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