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Posted: 12 years ago
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By forgiving , Singhs stood tall. Shekhars had to stoop and bow in front of Singhs. If you looked
At the face of Shiv,Daddu,Alok,CM and evn Ira you would know how embarassed and ashamed
They were. It was like they want the earth to split so that hey can bury themselves in
Front of Singhs. I think that is enough punishment and losing face in front of Singhs.
The court also did not spare hem. Judge strongly condemned their wasting court's time and also
The PP for not advising Shekhars properly to avoid a case.Shekhars have to pay fine to court as
well as bear the Expense of defence lawyer Kabra.
Today I felt very bad for Shiv for the humiliation he had to face because of Sanchi.
All this is enough punishment. From now on Senior Shekhars specially Ira will treat singhs and
Anandi with respect.
Edited by Jan50 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: aparnauma

Dadisa has not forgotten her past. The wisdom we see in her is a result of the lessons she learnt in past. I remember a scene where she cried for Anandi's parents and feeling terrible for the way she treated them in the past. Now she can't undo her past. So the least she could do is give lectures to those people who ill treat their bahus and behave arrogantly because they are ladkewale. If Anandi's parents have been able to stand up and tell her off she may not have been so arrogant. So I do feel she has learnt her lessons.

I agree with you. Daadi saa has learned her lessons hard way. She changed so much so that she stood by Anandi during whole Jagiya, Gauri chaos. She could have easily send Anandi to her mayka but she did not do that. She only supported the truth and she did cry for Anandi's parents as well as Gehna's family. If you remember she helped Anandi stand up for herself after Jagiya left her. She supported her education, being the surpanch and she provided her endless support. I highly doubt that Era or any other shekhars would ever be able to do so for their daughter-in-law. So whatever dadisa did in the past she has been severly punished for her sins and she has learned from her mistakes. I can only hope that Ira will ever be able to redeem herself as dadisaa has done it.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I think forgiveness is indeed being easy and quick.

I still hope Singhs stand firm in Monday's episode instead of stopping Shekhars when they start speaking their apology speech or behaving like nothing happened. Head held high, stoic and one "it's okay". That's it.

Singhs had to suffer humiliation for what they did. Unlike Shekhars who only got rap from judge.

I would like to see Collector babu's colleagues or peon in his office gossiping about his family and throwng hissy fits. Plus Ira's social circle taunting her. Sanchi must face taunts and difficulties everywhere be it friend circle or trouble in her own marriage (would be great if she got rejected).

Singhs need to be normal now instead of acting as if Shekhars did a great favour to them by accepting Anandi as bahu. They were going overboard in bootlicking of Shekhars, sending gifts or men from their family every now and then and doing Ira ji/Sanchi beti jaap.

Bhairon has done nothing.

I remember how Khajaan used to blast DS. I so wish he had learnt of this or seen this drama of Ira threatening Anandi and blasted away Shekhars.

Singhs shouldn't call or meet Shekhars much nor take their help. They have Shyam and Jagya. And Bhairon is capable enough till date. Shiv beta can handle his own family woh bhi bahut bada ehsaan hoga sab par considering what crazy people he has there.

I wish apart from other stuff that DS said, she should have added that Anandi is not alone or told Anandi never to think of herself alone. Dadi aur Bapusa abhi zinda hain.

That said, they need not act as crap as Ira also. Forgive and let them get lost.

CVs can manage it in any way but I CLEARLY DO NOT want everyone behaving like nothing happened. No eating, merry-making and exchanging roses between Kaddu soon. 😡
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Posted: 12 years ago
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"I wish apart from other stuff that DS said, she should have added that Anandi is not alone or told Anandi never to think of herself alone. Dadi aur Bapusa abhi zinda hain.

That said, they need not act as crap as Ira also. Forgive and let them get lost.

CVs can manage it in any way but I CLEARLY DO NOT want everyone behaving like nothing happened. No eating, merry-making and exchanging roses between Kaddu soon". 😡

(quoted from above post)


Truely agree. There should have been something about - They are still alive for Anandi and she can go back to her house any time - Shekars should know that they have not given her hand to Shiv because she was a "burden" for them

Edited by santhisaj - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I think 2 wrongs do not make one right.

Singhs past behaviour does not justify shekhars present behaviour. In this way, everyone will get away easily.

I like to live in the present and the present is that shekhars behaviour inspite of their education and high life is contempt worthy and they got away too easily. Sanchi did not even get one slap.

Atleast in singhs case and rattan case their educational levels, cultural backgrounds can be cited as an excuse.

shekhars are educated high life. Their wrong is more cringeworthy.


Edited by leavesandwaves - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

I think 2 wrongs do not make one right.

Singhs past behaviour does not justify shekhars present behaviour. In this way, everyone will get away easily.

I like to live in the present and the present is that shekhars behaviour inspite of their education and high life is contempt worthy and they got away too easily. Sanchi did not even get one slap.

Atleast in singhs case and rattan case their educational levels, cultural backgrounds can be cited as an excuse.

shekhars are educated high life. Their wrong is more cringeworthy.



Two wrongs will never make one right. Perhaps the reactions would have been different had Shakhers behaved like this with someone else or Singhs were not like tyrants themselves (in past). So Shakhers getting away so easily does look 'normal' considering how things were in this serial from the beginning. Singhs are paying for their karma and Shakhers will pay more for their own karma. The cycle can be stopped when some people behave maturely and stop treating others badly.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I agree with Leaves.

I don't know why diference in background, education and exposure are igored and Singhs and Shekhars are compared!

Singhs are from such a backward place where child marriage was still prevalent and which became a district recently.

Whereas Shekhars are all educated, widely travelled, boy educated in London, modern, cosmopolitan and all. How can their pedestrian behaviour be ignored or compared to Singhs and rationalised? Rather it is WORSE when such a family behaves like this.

They went public in their tamasha. They deserve humiliation and not merry-making as if nothing happened.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Why Singh's are forgiving Shekhar's so easily?
Answer : Anandi is in that family. Their heera is now with Shekhar's family and they can't hurt her. If Anandi is hurt neither Jagya can be happy nor Singh's.So they all will try to patch up and Singh's will be more happy to get their daughter back.

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