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Last few days many topics on Anandi, questioning her and blaming her - whatever.
I wonder why aren't other characters questioned?
- DS & Sumitra used to claim Anandi changed them. Then why do they still get scared of "Anandi's sasra"? Beg? Or bear their insults silently?
Why do they insult Ganga despite Anandi and Jagya and even Bhairon trying to drive sense in them?
- Anandi's biological father Khajaan used to fly in rage and counter those who tortured or bashed Anandi or crossed limits insulting Bhago. He still defends her strongly when he is around. Then why Bhairon and DS, who are supposed to be maika now, remain silent when Ira or Sanchi openly insult Anandi?
Anandi is called thankless and mannerless and whatnot if she does not speak to defend them but apologises in private. I want to know what is their role as "parents"? Why do they tolerate this insult of their daughter for even serving water to them? What's the use of lamenting or thinking to themselves later?
Anandi at least phoned them to apologise. Did they ever call her to let her know they felt bad for her? Only Sumitra called her and that too, to rant against Ganga!
Are they all okay? Shouldn't they "go and die"? (Punning on topics made on Anandi, no abuse intended)
- Ganga's life was Mannu. Yet how come she leaves him alone readily and gets busy serving Singhs or doing something for Doctor sa? How does she silently tolerate anger and insult of the poor kid at Sumitra's hands? What kind of a mother is she? What's the use of giving love later or apologising to him later when she is free? (Didn't she scold him only to appease Sumitra after Gehna's godhbharai incident?)
How much does she think of Mannu? Why didn't she think of his and his safety when she left with him at midnight after Sumitra barked? On road also she was walking in thoughts of Singhs and doctor sa, not careful enough to notice that a truck was coming. Why? No concern for toddler who depends entirely on her?
- Ganga is strong and more clear na? Now she is educated and self reliant too. Yet why does she tolerate worst abuse and character assassination hurled at her? And her kid? Why she cries and bears curses even after she has been duly married to Jagya and has blessings of Bapusa?
- Shekhars were educated and progressive. They were against SaJa alliance initially. Why did they go ahead with it? Why did they wash off their responsibility and instead put pressure on Anandi to coach Sanchi?
Why they ignored Anandi when she expressed reservations against this alliance? Why no one heard her or consulted her?
Did they talk to her before they started blasting Jagya when he broke the alliance? Then why did they expect her to talk to Jagya to make up for Sanchi's blunder?
- Shiv is educated collector who has received psychology training na? Why he failed to judge his sister? Why he failed to see difficulties and pressures his wife faces? Why he failed to see Jagya's "real face"? (As he and his family claim to have judged now!)
Doesn't Shiv know law? Then what's this BS about maiyka-sasural, iski taraf-uski taraf? Why can't he tell his mother that court will see only truths and facts. Do they want Anandi to lie?!
Breaking engagement was more important case to pursue or attempt to rape case was more important?
If he feels Anandi's difficulty then why does he not express this to her? So that at least she knows she is not entirely isolated in the house?
All accuse Anandi of not "talking" earlier. But how many listened to her and gave her a chance to be heard? How much seriously was she taken? Why were her concerns laughed off or brushed aside?
- Bhairon could go against everyone and support Jagya-Ganga marriage. Why couldn't he take a stand on proposal day and at least ask Singhs to give them time or say openly that such alliance seems weird?
Why does he have to act at last moment only?
Why don't the other adults, wise, educated, experienced, trained, strong people in the show not take charge? Why only Anandi has to be blamed or questioned?
They make assumptions on ther own. Drag her name in everything on their own. And in end she is made scapegoat!
All have compulsions or tendencies whatever. Only for Anandi's behaviour there is no explanation. Right?
I wonder why aren't other characters questioned?
- DS & Sumitra used to claim Anandi changed them. Then why do they still get scared of "Anandi's sasra"? Beg? Or bear their insults silently?
Why do they insult Ganga despite Anandi and Jagya and even Bhairon trying to drive sense in them?
- Anandi's biological father Khajaan used to fly in rage and counter those who tortured or bashed Anandi or crossed limits insulting Bhago. He still defends her strongly when he is around. Then why Bhairon and DS, who are supposed to be maika now, remain silent when Ira or Sanchi openly insult Anandi?
Anandi is called thankless and mannerless and whatnot if she does not speak to defend them but apologises in private. I want to know what is their role as "parents"? Why do they tolerate this insult of their daughter for even serving water to them? What's the use of lamenting or thinking to themselves later?
Anandi at least phoned them to apologise. Did they ever call her to let her know they felt bad for her? Only Sumitra called her and that too, to rant against Ganga!
Are they all okay? Shouldn't they "go and die"? (Punning on topics made on Anandi, no abuse intended)
- Ganga's life was Mannu. Yet how come she leaves him alone readily and gets busy serving Singhs or doing something for Doctor sa? How does she silently tolerate anger and insult of the poor kid at Sumitra's hands? What kind of a mother is she? What's the use of giving love later or apologising to him later when she is free? (Didn't she scold him only to appease Sumitra after Gehna's godhbharai incident?)
How much does she think of Mannu? Why didn't she think of his and his safety when she left with him at midnight after Sumitra barked? On road also she was walking in thoughts of Singhs and doctor sa, not careful enough to notice that a truck was coming. Why? No concern for toddler who depends entirely on her?
- Ganga is strong and more clear na? Now she is educated and self reliant too. Yet why does she tolerate worst abuse and character assassination hurled at her? And her kid? Why she cries and bears curses even after she has been duly married to Jagya and has blessings of Bapusa?
- Shekhars were educated and progressive. They were against SaJa alliance initially. Why did they go ahead with it? Why did they wash off their responsibility and instead put pressure on Anandi to coach Sanchi?
Why they ignored Anandi when she expressed reservations against this alliance? Why no one heard her or consulted her?
Did they talk to her before they started blasting Jagya when he broke the alliance? Then why did they expect her to talk to Jagya to make up for Sanchi's blunder?
- Shiv is educated collector who has received psychology training na? Why he failed to judge his sister? Why he failed to see difficulties and pressures his wife faces? Why he failed to see Jagya's "real face"? (As he and his family claim to have judged now!)
Doesn't Shiv know law? Then what's this BS about maiyka-sasural, iski taraf-uski taraf? Why can't he tell his mother that court will see only truths and facts. Do they want Anandi to lie?!
Breaking engagement was more important case to pursue or attempt to rape case was more important?
If he feels Anandi's difficulty then why does he not express this to her? So that at least she knows she is not entirely isolated in the house?
All accuse Anandi of not "talking" earlier. But how many listened to her and gave her a chance to be heard? How much seriously was she taken? Why were her concerns laughed off or brushed aside?
- Bhairon could go against everyone and support Jagya-Ganga marriage. Why couldn't he take a stand on proposal day and at least ask Singhs to give them time or say openly that such alliance seems weird?
Why does he have to act at last moment only?
Why don't the other adults, wise, educated, experienced, trained, strong people in the show not take charge? Why only Anandi has to be blamed or questioned?
They make assumptions on ther own. Drag her name in everything on their own. And in end she is made scapegoat!
All have compulsions or tendencies whatever. Only for Anandi's behaviour there is no explanation. Right?
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