Unless Anandi quits Kesar Bagh, I am not watching the show

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Niharika Mishra

@NiharikaMishra

Dazzler

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Posted: 12 years ago

In the entire fiasco, the only mistake made by Jagya was his impulsiveness to marry Ganga just so that she doesn't move out of Jaitsar again.

But the lectures by DS and Sumitra and the ill-behavior of Shekhars is becoming too much to bear for me.

No other way seems our except for the fact that Anandi quits Kesar Bagh and puts the real picture before the Singhs.

And unless this happens I am taking break from the show cz I am just so sick of the abuses and blame game

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koolsadhu1000

@koolsadhu1000

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Posted: 12 years ago

I have been saying this for a long time ...that she should leave KB , not crying , but with uplifted head .

Her husband is holding her responsible for blocking his attempts to teach Jagya a good lesson ...saying had it not been YOUR maika i would have done this and that .

There saas is saying same thing .

Now husband is defended by many by saying he is being a big brother , he is blind in love for sister

where does sisterly love come in anywhere in this chauvinistic deduction and determination to make wife the punching bag ?

And why should she cry and take all that 🤬 ?

she should tell him calmly ...i am leaving u , ur mother and ur sister ...plzz don't bother to contact me . References to my past as if u redeemed poor downtrodden me , references to my closeness with my ex , holding me responsible for the inability to punish him have convinced me that

i MUST get out of ur way . So GO AHEAD and have a blast !

Edited by koolsadhu1000 - 12 years ago

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: nikkie
In the entire fiasco, the only mistake made by Jagya was his impulsiveness to marry Ganga just so that she doesn't move out of Jaitsar again.
But the lectures by DS and Sumitra and the ill-behavior of Shekhars is becoming too much to bear for me.

No other way seems our except for the fact that Anandi quits Kesar Bagh and puts the real picture before the Singhs.

And unless this happens I am taking break from the show cz I am just so sick of the abuses and blame game

She will not because she has opted for her sasraa, only I would like her to go Billaria - to her real maika and start a fresh life for her own, she can join teacherji.

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nri-tv

@nri-tv

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Posted: 12 years ago

And during the entire time, from the time Shekhars met SInghs & Sanchi started her romantic getaway, Anandi has been saying time & again that Jagiya & Sanchi together is not going to work out⭐️

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Niharika Mishra

@NiharikaMishra

Dazzler

+ 8

Posted: 12 years ago

Actually I would specifically like her to go to BH and relate how many insults got inflicted on her.

I am sick of putting my TV on and ending up doing every 5 minutes...

Where the hell did all her self-pride and respect go which she had been boasting about till now?

Pardon me for venting out my frustration but I wanna do another Shiv act now venting out my frustration on this post like he's doing on Anandi there

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642126

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Posted: 12 years ago

I want Anandi to be strong and steadfast. Stay at KB but remind them of the times when she had warned them and they had ignored her and also reminded them of all the times when she had trained Sanchi so that she could be prepared for marriage!

She should be firm in her stand and also tell them openly that if they are holding themselves back due to her maayka then she too had held herself back because they are her saasra!

She gives such bhaashans to women outside but listens to curses and accusations at her own home and only cries! Outside she can risk facing gundas, bullets and lathis but inside her home she can only cry or keep silent?

Be solid and take a stand. Stop being a doormat. Or stop sermonizing to others!

I don't want her to leave. I want her to stay and declare she has married here, she has chosen them over others, so she will live her - but not without dignity!

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Niharika Mishra

@NiharikaMishra

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: Skepblun
I want Anandi to be strong and steadfast. Stay at KB but remind them of the times when she had warned them and they had ignored her and also reminded them of all the times when she had trained Sanchi so that she could be prepared for marriage!

She should be firm in her stand and also tell them openly that if they are holding themselves back due to her maayka then she too had held herself back because they are her saasra!

She gives such bhaashans to women outside but listens to curses and accusations at her own home and only cries! Outside she can risk facing gundas, bullets and lathis but inside her home she can only cry or keep silent?

Be solid and take a stand. Stop being a doormat. Or stop sermonizing to others!

I don't want her to leave. I want her to stay and declare she has married here, she has chosen them over others, so she will live her - but not without dignity!

You do have a point here that Anandi should stay back at KB to set things right.

But things would have been hopeful if atleast someone would have taken a stand for her, even if it would have been for the reason that what fault does Anandi have in all this?

As much as this should have been detested by her in-laws to have any sort of contact with her ex-husband, they are now expecting her to be aware of what is going on in Jagya's mind (as in, WHY THE HELL???) and that she should have known about his thoughts and warned them well in advance (amazingly desperate for their DIL to be someone else's soulmate? 🤢)

All this to prove that Saanchi was not at fault?

I have a very strong gut feeling that Ira or for that matter all the Shekhars (I don't expect Shiv to be an exception) will ask or force her to leave, just to settle scores and I want her to leave before they do that!!!

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aparnauma

@GoodDoc_2105

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: nikkie
In the entire fiasco, the only mistake made by Jagya was his impulsiveness to marry Ganga just so that she doesn't move out of Jaitsar again.
But the lectures by DS and Sumitra and the ill-behavior of Shekhars is becoming too much to bear for me.

No other way seems our except for the fact that Anandi quits Kesar Bagh and puts the real picture before the Singhs.

And unless this happens I am taking break from the show cz I am just so sick of the abuses and blame game

Jagya's impulsive act has put a lot of people in trouble even if his intentions are not wrong this time.But Jagya is by nature an impulsive person and he will continue to be that way even if he has had a change of heart.So those lectures by the family are somewhat justified.After they heard the entire story not even Sumi expected him to continue with engagement.She only said that he could have done it in a better way.

Shekhars - There is no justification for them wanting Jagya to marry their daughter Sanchi.

The trouble is Jagya has painted a bad picture of himself with his impulsive way of handling things.So they are angry with him.

Anandi -Yes she should bring out the truth in front of Shekhars and Singhs.

But walking away from KB is a bad idea is like running away from an unfavourabe situation it would be better that she stays where she is and turns round the situation.

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SPuja

@SPuja

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Posted: 12 years ago

Why should Anandi quit Kesar Bagh? It is her home. If she is facing unreasonable accusations, she should defend herself. She never defended herself from the very beginning, never took action against her tormentors, if she had taken action against Jagya, she would not have to face this day. Even now she will defend Jagya instead to defend herself - that is the way they show positive women in serials.

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debbie

@Debbiee

Voyager

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Quitting in-laws house is not the solution. It would be escapism. Trust me friend most of the Indian women face even worse situations than this in in-laws' house than this. KB is lawfully her house now, even if she gets another divorce (God forbid) she would be liable to get part of it. She is a legal Bahu.

But what I find funny is that Anandi being a topper of batch, an ex-Sarpanch might have found solutions to much more complex problems. How she got into another marriage without making herself financially independent and more powerful. Has she learnt nothing from her first marriage? What kind of icon she is?

Managing brainless people like Ira and Sanchi is pretty easy. But managing someone intelligent like Choti Maa would have been much more difficult. I was really scared when Choti Maa did not approve her. Not now.

As managers we have to adapt different methodologies for conflict management i.e. Competitive, collaborative, compromising, accommodating, avoiding.

What Anandi has been doing is accommodating which is wrong as per the situation. She should go for AVOIDING for better results.

She should prepare for IAS or anything significant rather than worrying over the Sanchis, Jags, Gangs. Not that it's bad. But she can help others in distress once she herself is powerful.

And trust me girls, once she herself is powerful Ira, Sanchi, the MLA and all such evil forces would automatically shut their mouth 😛