anandi cares only about sanchi - Page 5

Originally posted by: redapple1

What do you think she should have done? I am trying to understand how this could be handled better without hurting either of the families but still able to resolve it.

Originally posted by: Missesha

Nice question. From my perspective, If i were Anandi, I would have talked to my husband, about something that I had just learnt in a restaurant. I would confide into him immediately.

This issue is as important as any other issue Shiv may have at office. So disturbing him a bit is alright.

Secondly, i would bring myself out of the illusion that Sa has changed. Knowing about Pandit's bribery and over-hearing Sa in restaurant, would have given me a clear thought that SaJa is not compatible and hence based on that it's good for this alliance to break. Rather than trying to save it for 'parivar ki khushi', which was anyways going to be ruined.

I would also talked to DS of what I heard and felt and left matters in her hand.

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

So evil is that which actually harms someone . If any action does not result in actual harm it is not evil . Just bratty .

Bribing a pundit shows the intention to control someone else's free will and coerce him to do things your way without confronting him and this sort of planning does not border on evil or goes beyond bratty ? It very much does .

Bribing a pundit in a temple right under the moorti of Goddess shows a DEAD conscience ...again , an action that goes beyond bratty .

She should get a hard thappad for this ...from that very mom who has cursed the chiraag of another family . What woh sukhi nahi rahega ...did she have any shame cursing a man who never was sukhi and only had a difficult life till now . He saved ur daughter twice and came to save her again instead of dumping her after the pheras took place and kids came in the picture . Granted u can't see this all right now but how about observing some limits in grief that elders do ? Everyone knows that man was never sukhi. Yet you r cursing him to be more unhappy ? How about collecting urself , calling ur daughter from her pajama party and asking her what happened . Just as Sumitra does not trust him bcoz of his past record your daughter too has a past record of speaking thoughtlessly , hurting others recklessly , throwing tantrums . Not once has it struck u that others may not find this 'bachpana' but may take it seriously ?

The daughter had no qualms playing with many lives with her careful planning in which she was enacting the role of a sleeping crocodile and intended to show her colors after marraige . Even there , nobody was gonna get bodily hurt . Yet this diabolical planning goes beyond bratty . If Jagya has been cursed for playing with 1 life , imagine how many lives the so called brat was gonna shock and how many curses she deserves with the same logic .