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JuhiR

@JuhiR

Voyager

Posted: 11 years ago

Tired of watching this regressive track full of superstitions and wrong doings.

What message are you giving CVs to these TRP Aunties? To bully a young girl? Just because someone ate lunch, that person cannot offer Puja? Sandy did not do this intentiionally. Who made these rules? God did not make them for sure. Yes, some people like to fast and believe in fast. But there are lot of women who do not fast for health reason or whatever. Does that mean they do not love their husbands? what trash are you preaching? making Bhabo behave like a ten-year old girl...oh she did not bring her doll to play with us...we won't take her in our group. What rubbish from 60-year old woman. Sorry! She has no motherly quality. On top of it she is grossly WRONG! She is a bully! she does not deserve anybody's love or respect.

And CVs listen up!

I am losing respect for all women and men of Pushkar and Rajasthan and this community. At least Dilipji's mom could have said that this is not a big deal. She seems to be a sensible woman. Someone should have told Bhabo that santosh it does not matter, Sandhya can do Puja. Why is Bhabasa silent? I am not from Rajasthan, but Please if any of you in this Forum is from Rajasthan please tell me if the men and women of your community are like this. I have great respect for the state of Rajasthan. But watching Bhabo, Bhabasa, Meena, Chhavi and others, i am losing respect for the people of this community. And I hate to do that. CVs are just pushing me towards hating the people of a state I love and respect. There is not a single character other than Suraj and Sandhya who deserve respect in this serial. They are all narrow-minded superstitious liars and cheats.

Please someone tell me in real life if people of Pushkar and Rajasthan and the community Rathis belong are like this!😭

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..Anusha..

@..Anusha..

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Posted: 11 years ago

Juhi, if I may say, it's not worth getting upset about a show. I'm sure the real people of Pushkar have no time to stand around doing inane drama all day. People have to work and earn a living and do much more important stuff.

In the real world, Sandhya in her current avatar would not exist. If she did, she would be in a mental health care facility. In the fake world she exists, so people like Bhabo play their games.

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JuhiR

@JuhiR

Voyager

Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: PadBear
Juhi, if I may say, it's not worth getting upset about a show. I'm sure the real people of Pushkar has no time to stand around doing inane drama all day. People have to work and earn a living and do much more important stuff.
In the real world, Sandhya in her current avatar would not exist. If she did, she would be in a mental health care facility. In the fake world she exists, so people like Bhabo play their games.

Paddy thanks for consoling me. Yes, i do agree and understand what you say. But it is very painful to watch all these meaningless superstitions, and sad to know that ladies in india are enjoying these stories and giving it high TRP.

I feel like a fool supporting Sandy sometimes. Such a waste of time. why do i even watch? I don't know. I hate myself now for watching this crap.😡

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HalleNJ

@HalleNJ

Sparkler

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Posted: 11 years ago

Juhirockz, I agree with you...people from HG are shown heartless...but more than that i'm more disappointed with the characterization of Emily & Emily's mother...Emily's identity is fully gone and IR marriage message went down to the drain...I'm not comfortable discussing religious issues in the forum so I'm not going further...

Just one thing, I dont think anyone enjoys watching stories of meaningless superstitions or taunting or humiliation episodes...I believe people still watch DABH because of habit or waiting to see good triumphing over evil...I agree the episode was a torture except for the last 5 minutes...

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..Anusha..

@..Anusha..

Sparkler

Posted: 11 years ago

Agree with you Niru ^ .

Nobody enjoys watching what we saw these past few days. Many of us skip a lot of episodes. I do. But right now, I watch because Sandy has this great combination of a steel magnolia. Yesterday she may have shed some tears, but there was a determination to do what was right. End of the day, the woman has no fear and that's something to admire.

Also agree with Niru about Emily. Yesterday she sank to a low. Now it's no longer necessary for me to acknowledge her existence. Because she is another fictional character who makes no sense.

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JuhiR

@JuhiR

Voyager

Posted: 11 years ago

Niru and Paddy,

I too was hopeful of Emily. I hoped when she entered RM she would be like a breath of fresh air; will be supportive of Sandy. But instead she became a cause of Sandy's misery. now she is a doormat and a liar. i cannot tolerate when she tries to make an innocent face with teary eyes.

All I am telling CVs is please do not paint such a bad picture of a community. They are showing each and every character bad, except Suraj, Sandy, Chhotu and Chaturi. The people should protest sometimes even though it is a work of fiction.

I always hear Rajputs protesting against Jodhaa Akbar because some feel their pride is hurt by wrong depiction of the community. But in this case, i hear no protest despite such a blatant disrespectful portrayal of all characters of this community.

The sad part is now these CVs will show Sandy bending backwards to please that unethical superstitious selfish woman called Bhabo, who is a shame for every mother in this world! Why in the world Sandy has to please her?

Sandy forgot about teej not because of her other chores; she forgot because day and night she thinks about Bhabo.

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Sonali_11

@Sonali_11

Dazzler

Posted: 11 years ago

Juhi I can't say much about real people from Rajasthan as I have never been there, but its a very conservative place and I guess almost everyone in India especially the old ladies or middle aged ones give alot of importance to Teej and other festivals..
If someone has health issue then It might not be a big deal if the women doesnt fast , But if its not being done intentionally or unintentionally then it becomes a cause of superstition too.In yesterday's episode Sandhya made this mistake and was fearless enough to accept it , unlike Emily who knows only lying.This time she was being accused because she actually did something unlike previous situations where she did nothing but was still accused.

I also think DABH has been following the same pattern till now, Surya are usually surrounded by so many problems,Sandhya has to sacrifice sometimes, has to prove herself right and Suraj is always there to support her, at the end of every track they turn out to be winners while Bhabo is defeated..

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JuhiR

@JuhiR

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: Sonali_11
Juhi I can't say much about real people from Rajasthan as I have never been there, but its a very conservative place and I guess almost everyone in India especially the old ladies or middle aged ones give alot of importance to Teej and other festivals..
If someone has health issue then It might not be a big deal if the women doesnt fast , But if its not being done intentionally or unintentionally then it becomes a cause of superstition too.In yesterday's episode Sandhya made this mistake and was fearless enough to accept it , unlike Emily who knows only lying.This time she was being accused because she actually did something unlike previous situations where she did nothing but was still accused.

I also think DABH has been following the same pattern till now, Surya are usually surrounded by so many problems,Sandhya has to sacrifice sometimes, has to prove herself right and Suraj is always there to support her, at the end of every track they turn out to be winners while Bhabo is defeated..

Sonali, thanks for explaining. Okay i understand Teej is important and they are a conservative community, so Sandy made a mistake - does that mean they have to be so unkind, unforgiving and cruel all the time? Why can't Bhabo say that it was my mistake too, I did not remind her, so this year I will also stay away with Sandya Beendni. Why are all characters in DABH like that? Okay she made a mistake, but don't we all know that to err is human to forgive is divine? In every other serial there is a friend or an elderly lady or uncle or dad who is kind and loving. But In this show, SurYa are like orphans (Sandy truly is)...always begging for love from people who are unkind untruthful mean and selfish. And frankly speaking even among conservative families, there are lot of kind and loving people. But this family and their neighbors all are unkind rude and gossipmongers.

CVs should not portray a community like that. No community can be like this, where each and every woman is fake and bad, all the Rathi women and their friends such as daisa, Meena's mom, sister, other women in the neighborhood, everybody is mean and narrow-minded.

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Mariaa Ali Khan

@Mariaaly

Voyager

Posted: 11 years ago

Sandy... why you always cry?? Cv's give all tensions, all boo boo faces to her. why? kal wo itni achi lag rahi thi but once shez not smile 😡 why dont they give cry and tension faces to meena, chavi and emily ?? This is full torture!
All the limlight took by Bhabo & Meenakshi.. They are the real heroines of DABH :////

Dear Cv's, I've no interest in bhabo's and meena's life & in their shitty faces.. Please after this 15 days track.. show somthing sensible, watchable bcoz you all enough torture us!

All we wanted to see Sandhya's training track, more surya scenes.. their journey! Jis pe ye pura drama hai. But for that they have to leave aagan ofcourse, and they cant leave aagan cuz bhabo and meena live their.. their heroines..

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Deebz

@Deebz

Dazzler

Posted: 11 years ago

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@Juhi, Yes. This track has been the most ill conceived. There is no nayi soch from any angle except for Suraj supporting Sandhya. This type of mindset is more suited to rural areas - not to mid size towns like Pushkar where everyone goes to college. The way they are glorifying evil and putting it on pedestal is sending the wrong message to TRP aunties who may think this is the way to behave. If they are anything like Bhabho, they are feeling very good about themselves right now.

SurYa have won many challenges but has anything so far opened Bhabho's eyes? Even now, SurYa will be shown doing whatever it takes to keep her on her high horse so that the tortures can continue even after they move back in.

I don't know about current Rajasthani culture. They are shown as traditional in the media but the land of historically brave, fearless and magnanimous people can't be this mean spirited in my opinion.

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