see one thing we have to understand is DABH is showing the mirror of society. It is showing society as it is. So its biases will be shown. I had mentioned this earlier also. To be frank it is the only soap where I see the mirror of society and unfortunately it is regressive. Yes India is regressive. Atleast when we see this things we are able to ponder over right. Whether this is right or wrong. Should I make a change as I feel biases exist in all of us as we are also part of this society.
If I am attending a wedding especially that of near and dear ones I start preparations for it from the day I know the date. Which saree, which jewellery and a visit to beauty parlor. Reason to look good and perfect for the ocasion.
Similarly for a client meeting in office the same effort is put to choose the appropriate attire and accessories so that I look smart and confident.
There is a saying in Tamil aal pathi, aada pathi. That means clothes and accessories makes up half of your personality. Also we say guys give importance to looks, dont we woman give any importance. We love to watch Madhavan, Surya, SRK, Aamir Khan on the screen. Would we run if a lesser glamorous face is on the screen.
Also when matrimonial proposal comes doesnt the photo of guy matter to us. It mattered to me atleast. So let us not say looks doesnt matter. It does matter from both sides.
Only issue in our society is a girl doesnt have a voice to say " No " to a guy if she doesnt like him. But that is changing in metros and towns where girls are saying No.