Gauhar - Logical ? Tanisha - Facade ? - Page 6

Originally posted by: superchild

Gauhar really represents how people are today. She really speaks logically. I've never heard her speaking to someone in a loud tone either and she speaks the truth. It's sad that no one stood up for her when Armaan was being so rude to her.

Weird that no one in the BB house seems to notice Armaan's anger management issues and are too focussed towards Gauhar.

The girl seems educated and smart- but I guess to survive the BB house you need the opposite of brains! LOL

Originally posted by: digitalcamera

I am on hell side. I like that side so far.

I think Gauhar is genuinely nice, but she is quite misunderstood. I would vote for her as one of the most misunderstood person in the house. I don't agree with her stand that she was standing up for her side, because instead of rationalizing and reaching a common conclusion that we can ALL cut down on this much food over the couple of days she started the whole we sacrificed blah, blah, blah. That didn't help at all. If you have someone like Armaan there is no point dealing with such a man. The last thing you should do is tell him anything, because some people don't get in their head and he is one of them. Like Sangram I don't think he is such a bad person he is short tempered and has a tendency to say foolish things such people can't be dealt with logic or even "tameez" it falls on deaf ears.

The best thing to do was opt for unity in a situation like this suggest that everyone can do this together and if Armaan doesn't listen then he would be secluded because sooner or later everyone would see to his unreasonable behavior. The part I found wrong was when Shilpa, Tanisha and everyone backed Gauhar's point then suddenly backed out when the situation got worse.

Originally posted by: Shelly1026

@first bold part - When the whole discussion started, the heaven-mates were trying to be all nice and sweet and doing all "hum sab family he" talk instead of getting to the matter. They were saying let's bring the food out here and see what we have.. really? Is that really necessary? Would the hell-mates have doubted the heaven-mates if they say that "itna food baki he"?

When Gauhar started talking, some might think that she shouldn't have said all that she did, but she was trying to explain that they can't get all riled up with emotions and waste food as then none would be left for other days. She was trying to let them know that the heaven-mates were cutting down on food as they were feeling that the hell-mates deserved more food coz of the wheel matter. Her point was that they need to be careful as food is rationed and can't just demand food like they were doing earlier (especially the way Armaan was demanding food). If she would have also shouted and gotten angry, she might not have received the treatment she did. But she was trying to explain the matter calmly and when Armaan started lashing out as he was the one who abused the food, all the other heaven-mates backed-off and Gauhar was cut off by her own side! That was wrong. Armaan should have been told that he should be careful with food as it is rationed and that is what Gauhar did! Hats off to her for standing up for what she believed in and not getting scared of a man shouting at her and about her!

Another thing thing that was ridiculous was that when Armaan was shouting at her and saying "me larki ko maaronga" or something like that, no one took Gauhar's side outside! If a man is screaming at a girl like that, someone should take her side and not alienate her like that!

If she wouldn't have said all that, the hell-mates wouldn't know that the "atta" was not bharpoor as they were told and they can't keep on having as many rotis as they want.

@second bold part - bang on! If Gauhar would have spoken in an aggressive and loud manner (which she didn't) no one would have dared to speak in front of her or tell her to stay quiet (like the other heaven-mates did). All of them agreed in the kitchen earlier that food was being excessively used and abused and then when Gauhar spoke out, they all backed off! Glad she's out of their group now!