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Posted: 12 years ago
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according to me the true union between hearts is a Pavitra Rishta. if two hearts are not one, if a relationship is not based on love, but responsibility that relationship will soon become a burden, and one partner will resent the other. there will be nothing pavitra about it, a marriage that is forced and against someones will is never Pavitra or holy. but pure love and mutual respect is the true basis of a Pavitra Rishta and will always be. that is why Manav and Archana and Purvi and Arjun share this bond because of their true and pure love and respect for each other.
everything else is rubbish. marriage doesnt give a relationship meaning, but love in a marriage gives true meaning to that marriage.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: merrydock

according to me the true union between hearts is a Pavitra Rishta. if two hearts are not one, if a relationship is not based on love, but responsibility that relationship will soon become a burden, and one partner will resent the other. there will be nothing pavitra about it, a marriage that is forced and against someones will is never Pavitra or holy. but pure love and mutual respect is the true basis of a Pavitra Rishta and will always be. that is why Manav and Archana and Purvi and Arjun share this bond because of their true and pure love and respect for each other.

everything else is rubbish. marriage doesnt give a relationship meaning, but love in a marriage gives true meaning to that marriage.



Very well Post.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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this post, my reaction

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: merrydock

according to me the true union between hearts is a Pavitra Rishta. if two hearts are not one, if a relationship is not based on love, but responsibility that relationship will soon become a burden, and one partner will resent the other. there will be nothing pavitra about it, a marriage that is forced and against someones will is never Pavitra or holy. but pure love and mutual respect is the true basis of a Pavitra Rishta and will always be. that is why Manav and Archana and Purvi and Arjun share this bond because of their true and pure love and respect for each other.

everything else is rubbish. marriage doesnt give a relationship meaning, but love in a marriage gives true meaning to that marriage.

Completely agree with you.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: merrydock

according to me the true union between hearts is a Pavitra Rishta. if two hearts are not one, if a relationship is not based on love, but responsibility that relationship will soon become a burden, and one partner will resent the other. there will be nothing pavitra about it, a marriage that is forced and against someones will is never Pavitra or holy. but pure love and mutual respect is the true basis of a Pavitra Rishta and will always be. that is why Manav and Archana and Purvi and Arjun share this bond because of their true and pure love and respect for each other.

everything else is rubbish. marriage doesnt give a relationship meaning, but love in a marriage gives true meaning to that marriage.


Well said dear..agree with your each and every word...what is love,what is its important for mrg i totally agree with ur points still just give me one answer Arjun was forced by purvi for marriage but why purvi married to onir in past??? In my culture marriage itself is very pavitra rishta ..in my culture mostly arranges marriages are done which is working on the base of respect,mutual understanding and two people eventually fall in love...there is so many people in the world who once loved someone and due to circumtances move on wid someone else in life.. They have kids now..they have already celebrated 20 years of their marriage..so is there marriage is not pavitra rishta??... Responsibilities is there in every relationship whether its love marriage or arrange marriage...it's all up to u dat how u think for situation... Whatever the reason is, if u married to someone nd specially dat person knows how to respect everyone,how to care for everyone nd main thing if u married him by ur own wish than atlast it's ur duty to give respect nd everything to ur marriage.if u r with true life partner than marriage itself is very big relationship which is beyond ur all relations nd beyond than ur past too.marriage should not be like use and throw,
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: aathya

firstly its pavitra rishta not pabitra rishta and secondly arvi didnt break their marriage it was ovi and onir who did that... both arjun purvi tried hard to make their marriage work... and after their divorces they moved on . so stop blaming arvi for all this ...


Firstly try to understand main point of topic...no need to jump with guns...u r arvi fan dat doesn't mean no one are allowed to share their opinion.secondly arvi didn't break their marriage but they are Main reason of it atleast purvi is 100% responsible for her divorce..shameless woman ..if you can understand purvi's sacrifice than must say u should have enough understanding for onir's sacrifice nd arvi reunion too...characters k sath itna bhi attachment accha nai hota ki kuch or dekhne ki shakti he na bachi ho..All r moved on happily thats true but for divorce u can't put all the blame on Onir and ovi..it is very wrong thing... Nyways this is just reply for ur so called arvi love...nothing is related to this post.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: -sunshinegirl-

I dont think marriage is ''ALWAYS'' a ''Pavitra Rishta''..I am not talking about this show or rather any TV shows..I am talking about all marriages is general..If marriage was really a Pavitra Rishta,then there would not have been any Dowry deaths,no intoxicated husbands would have beaten up their wives n so on..So dont take this montage so seriously..My POV of course..


Marriage is pavitra rishta when ur life partner is loyal ,understanding ,giving you enough respect,caring for u and loving u.but it becomes apavitra rishta when you drag third person in between ur marriage life,when u give much more importance to third person than ur partner,it becomes apavitra rishta when u don't have ability to accept ur marriage with full heart. Marriage is pavitra rishta but people made it apavitra by their deeds and selfish motives.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: sweet_tania


Firstly try to understand main point of topic...no need to jump with guns...u r arvi fan dat doesn't mean no one are allowed to share their opinion.secondly arvi didn't break their marriage but they are Main reason of it atleast purvi is 100% responsible for her divorce..shameless woman ..if you can understand purvi's sacrifice than must say u should have enough understanding for onir's sacrifice nd arvi reunion too...characters k sath itna bhi attachment accha nai hota ki kuch or dekhne ki shakti he na bachi ho..All r moved on happily thats true but for divorce u can't put all the blame on Onir and ovi..it is very wrong thing... Nyways this is just reply for ur so called arvi love...nothing is related to this post.





very good sweet-tina...ur each and every word 100% true...but i am still confused i opened a topic here about CV and ekta here i had not told against arvi but here no one gave the answer but promote arvi...why this is happened
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: sweet_tania


Well said dear..agree with your each and every word...what is love,what is its important for mrg i totally agree with ur points still just give me one answer Arjun was forced by purvi for marriage but why purvi married to onir in past??? In my culture marriage itself is very pavitra rishta ..in my culture mostly arranges marriages are done which is working on the base of respect,mutual understanding and two people eventually fall in love...there is so many people in the world who once loved someone and due to circumtances move on wid someone else in life.. They have kids now..they have already celebrated 20 years of their marriage..so is there marriage is not pavitra rishta??... Responsibilities is there in every relationship whether its love marriage or arrange marriage...it's all up to u dat how u think for situation... Whatever the reason is, if u married to someone nd specially dat person knows how to respect everyone,how to care for everyone nd main thing if u married him by ur own wish than atlast it's ur duty to give respect nd everything to ur marriage.if u r with true life partner than marriage itself is very big relationship which is beyond ur all relations nd beyond than ur past too.marriage should not be like use and throw,



WELL POST ...our culture gave us so many pabitra relationship...u can not say love is also always pabitra rista because by the time or in practical situation ur love also disappear ( this is very practical , in modern life this is happened maximum) , love also happened after marriage if ur partner is good...

when people use the relationship for own selfish reason then it self becomes a pabitra for apabitra people... marriage is not a joke or trial and error method where u will be married and u will be tell i try to best but unable to forget my lover so when it will be better break the marriage and forward in life...if love is able to tie forever then why love marriage break... in india love marriage break easily than the arrange marriage...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: onirfans





very good sweet-tina...ur each and every word 100% true...but i am still confused i opened a topic here about CV and ekta here i had not told against arvi but here no one gave the answer but promote arvi...why this is happened

U have nt told anything regarding arvi but ur point was on the name of title pavitra rishta..some are promoted arvi becoz for them arvi is defination of love... May be they can leave their husband nd give them divorce for their ex... May be everyone have nt dat ability to forget their past nd accept their husband with full heart... May be for them love is pavitra rishta than their marriage too.its depends on person to person.

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