Balika Vadhu Written Update 16/9/2013 All misunderstandings cleared!

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Jan50

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Posted: 12 years ago

#41

Withholding key information and telling half truths is even worse than blatant lies. It is not like A knew something about the next door neighbour where one could stay out of their affairs. This involves

The marriage of some one in the family "dear to her" which she encouraged.

Anandi would make an excellent defense lawyer for a criminal since she knows how to distort the truth

In favour of the client.

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sectoreight

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Posted: 12 years ago

#42

Originally posted by: Jan50
It is not like A knew something about the next door neighbour where one could stay out of their affairs. This involves
The marriage of some one in the family "dear to her" which she encouraged.

Exactly!! These people (the singhs and shekhars) actually all look up to anandi and value her opinion, (in varying degrees) and therefore she needs to treat it with more seriousness than the next door neighbour who never asked for her unsolicited opinions.

But quite frankly, even in the case of next door neighbours, I would still let them know whatever information I had ... especially if it was a case of marriage or some serious long term commitment -- financial or otherwise. I wouldn't interfere ... but definitely would call on them and let them know ONCE in a clear concise fashion what information I had... and leave them to make their own decisions. After that I would withdraw completely.

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dolly

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Posted: 12 years ago

#43

@anita Happy Onam To U And thanx 4 update!!👏

ystrday's epi was gud in terms of pol khol of snchi in front of BOTH jagya & anandi odewise A must'd hidden it also.

i always see intentions in prsn's actions & i believe that even if u don't luv a prsn whom u marry but doing 4 ur family's or sum1 dear one's happiness u can work on mrg & make the luvless mrg not just work but create luv in it also.but here sanchi is devoid of any such logic.shes pretending & thats so clear.

jagya was marrying sanchi 4 the sake of his family's happiness but sanchi is planning 2 take away the happiness from the same family.🥱

2day the way anandi was justifying sanchi's so-called luv??

doesn't she herself know that more than luv its compatibility & adjustments which make mrgs & mrd life successful??

she also loved jagya & vice-versa but wat happened 2 their mrg??it broke . why?? bcoz both were/r not comaptible.similarly jagya luved gauri & vice-versa but again bcoz of lack of compatibility they broke off.

i m happy jagya is not breaking off this mrg just bcoz he doesn't luv sanchi & luv sum1else but bcoz he thinks the reason 4 which hes marrying her i.e family's happiness will still not b achieved & neither they r compatible.

pre-cap i wish it happens ASAP.

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redapple1

@redapple1

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Posted: 12 years ago

#44

Interesting and healthy discussions. 👏 Please keep it like this.
Last year during this time Jagya was shown doing blunder after blunder, I guess this year it is Anandi's turn. Hopefully she will ponder over what has happened so far, talk to Shiv or text him and let him know what is happening. It is better not to advice anyone when it comes to marriage. Saying It is your life, you do what you think is best for you" is better. I for one don't want to hear "because of you I married this person, now look how this person is"...
On a side note I am so happy Miss America 2014 is from Indian origin. Nina is beauty with brains, so proud of this girl. I do hope this helps darker skin tones become more acceptable in India and helps bury the Fair & Lovely market segment soon.

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Jan50

@Jan50

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Posted: 12 years ago

#45

Well said sector. Anandi is a manipulator. She is manipulating for a "good cause" as perceived by her.

I can only say Jagia has been too naive to realize Anandi's vested interests. If A believes she is

Doing all this for evetybody's welfare, then she is totally stupid and limited in her thinking.

Jagia is too naive to trust that A is very smart and do the best.

But I am glad J is coming out his naivity and decided to take control of his marriage. This is an

Important social message. Dont enter marriage just for the happiness of your family.

If A gets into trouble because of J calling off marriage, She will deserve it. From now on at least

Make herself scarce regarding thevaffairs of J. Mind your own business like Suguna does.

Hope jagia also does that. Even if he gets back with Ganga,keep A out of heir affairs.dont let her

Interfere in the guise of spokesperson for Singhs.

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Jan50

@Jan50

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Posted: 12 years ago

#46

Marriage is a big thing . It just does not involve a person and his parents alone. Anandi failed to

Understand this fact, came and lectured Jagia and bullied him calling him selfish for not

Making his parents happy by marrying. How can the act of not marrying because his heart is not in it

Can be called selfish. Does it only involve parents? What about the 3rd person if your heart is mot in the marriage? Every body can blame Jagia for it forgetting the authoritative Anandi in this .

Having done this much how can she with hold so much info from J that will affect his life so much?

In india many people marry for just the happiness of their parents( at least they say so) , whether they

Can afford a family or not. If people thought seriusly about their financial status before marriage,

Lot of kids will not be languishing in poverty. In western nations they think thru these facts before

Marrying or having kids.