Balika Vadhu Written Update 16/9/2013 All misunderstandings cleared! - Page 3

😆😆 thank u rdjha , i was so bugged to see Sumitra crying as if sumone has died in the precap😆

Happy Onam Anita!! 🤗
Thank you for written update. What are your thoughts on today's episode?

Anita - Tahnks for the WU.

Originally posted by: aparnauma

Anita - Tahnks for the WU.

Who is Anandi trying to convince?Is she trying to convince herself or Jagya?

Why is it so difficult to accept the truth that is staring at her face?How much more does she need to see and hear before she is convinced that Sanchi was wearing a mask all along????

The mask has slipped so many times.She has seen the way she behaves towards her family even in her changed avatar.She doesn't give a damn about her own family when it comes to what she wants.How did all that escape her notice?

She thinks Sanchi loves Jagya but then she also believed that Gauri loved Jagya.Did she not see what Gauri did in her love for Jagya?Why can't she see that Sanchi is Gauri part 2???

Why can't she see that in this triangle Sanchi is no Anandi and Ganga is no Gauri???

Why can't she realise that Sanchi and Jagya relationship despite having parental approval Sanchi's love is not the kind of love that binds people and families??????

It is good that she shared all her reasons for believing that Sanchi has changed and also shared the fact that she was never for that Rishta and she did her bit for opposing that rishta.

Jagya can do what he thinks is right.Since the biggest obstacle preventing him from walking out of the rishta has been removed.

If she wants to talk with Shiv and take him to confidence before doing anything it's fine since it concerns his sister.

But this refusal to see the truth that is staring at her is just not acceptable.

Support for a character is not unconditional or blind.

Thanks Anita for the written update.

Originally posted by: redapple1

Happy Onam Anita!! 🤗
Thank you for written update. What are your thoughts on today's episode?

Hey Shubha thanks for the wishes and thanks guys for the wishes.🤗

Well my thoughts on the episode: I am happy and disappointed at the same time. Frankly this whole track itself is useless and senseless so, I fail to understand what logic should I make from it.

Disappointed with A big time. Since i am in general a very patient person, I will give A the benefit of doubt for being shocked at what she witnessed today. I will give her one more episode to gather her thoughts and see what is anyway shinning crystal clear before her. If she still harps on the family's happiness, she has totally lost it in my view too. Having said this, I cannot imagine a smart and mature person like her acting so unreasonable after seeing Sachi's true colors with her own eyes. She always stood for what is right and its disappointing to see her ask J to still consider the relationship for the family's happiness. Does she think J and the family will be happy in the long run if Sachi is married off there? Sachi has only started her drama recently where in she has witnessed a few lapses in Sachi's drama which she recollects as well. So aren't those and what she saw today pointers of what Sachi represents? She ought to think from the broader perspective. Why should J who has already faced enough in life have to bear the burden of another troubled relationship?

She has to think for the happiness of the Singhs. Sachi is going into their family so they are the ones going to bear the burnt of Sachi's torture, i.e. if she stay back in Jaitser. Why can't she think in the broader perspective and the happiness of a family who stood by her in her toughest time? She is only thinking right now from the Shekhar's perspective and if she thinks from Sachi's perspective of a girl's engagement being broken, Sachi dug her own grave. Abt Ira, she needs to step up as a mother and teach her daughter some lesson rather than always covering for her. If she cannot, then she and her daughter will suffer in the long run.

All A's justifications today for Sachi were completely useless and don't make any sense.

About being happy, I am happy with the way J handled the situation. He was mature and raised important questions which were very apt. So bravo to him for that. With regard to J I am only disappointed coz, he is still asking A to tell him what he should do. J should take a stand now rather than asking someone else to make a decision for him. From the looks of the precap, I am glad he took his decision.

Lastly, I just don't want A or J to interfere in eachother's lives. They should make their independent decisions and choices. Have an amicable relationship but draw lines where needed or else things can become very mucky.

Anandi lied explicitly to Jagya when she said that the match was decided by her inlaws in her absence and then the whole family suddenly left for Jayetsar so she had no time to tell sumitra or dadisa or jagya himself.