Originally posted by: Truthseeker
Yeah on a serious note, one does not have to be like Anandi to get a guy like Shiv. Shiv is more real than anandi. He balances life well unlike Anandi who is a peoples pleaser . So we do see people like Shiv in real too. Only anandi is fictional.
Anandi's people pleaser by nature.
And it helped her make herself a home amongst strangers at a very early age.
She had to appeal to their good nature.She had to make herself appealing in order to earn their affection.Since it was her basic nature she did not have to pretend.
I doubt if Sumi would have taken to Anandi the way she did if she had behaved like a spoilt brat.
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Anandi's people pleaser mentality is what made a guy like Shiv fall for her.Shiv also likes to please people around him because that is his nature.