Breathes a sigh of relief! - Page 6

Originally posted by: LaVita-E-Bella

From the beginning, the whole way QH has shown rape has annoyed me but I'm not even going to start on that.

When I would be in the library till 3/4 am, I would call campus security to drive me to my apartment. My brother always says, better to be safe than sorry.

Originally posted by: delena90

The West is a million times more liberal. There is a reason a lot of women from the India sub-continent relish leaving here and moving there. I know I completely hated moving back to India.

I have been in the US for almost 14 years now... I sometimes go out in my car at 12:00 a.m. to get a gallon of milk but still... I try to go to a safe walmart at a safe location. am still scared all the time, till I am back and my doors are locked. Even my brother at USC does not go out at night coz LA downtown is pretty bad. The drug dealing issues are rampant. Its not about independence.. its about safety. one of his friends was gunned down next to his apartment in 2009 just for the heck of it. Its not about Independence , its about safety and prudenceand the least common thing common sense !

Originally posted by: gossipgirlxoxo

I have been in the US for almost 14 years now... I sometimes go out in my car at 12:00 a.m. to get a gallon of milk but still... I try to go to a safe walmart at a safe location. am still scared all the time, till I am back and my doors are locked. Even my brother at USC does not go out at night coz LA downtown is pretty bad. The drug dealing issues are rampant. Its not about independence.. its about safety. one of his friends was gunned down next to his apartment in 2009 just for the heck of it. Its not about Independence , its about safety and prudenceand the least common thing common sense !

You misunderstood, I was merely pointing out that the west is liberal not that it's safer.

Downtown LA is well-known to have a mob and drug presence as is Harlem NY, downtown Chicago and Detroit.

@green -word

Originally posted by: delena90

You misunderstood, I was merely pointing out that the west is liberal not that it's safer.

Downtown LA is well-known to have a mob and drug presence as is Harlem NY, downtown Chicago and Detroit.

@green -word

I did not misunderstand you 😉. I agree to your point of view 100 % . its way more liberal no doubt about that and I am free to do wear anything (at some places not to wear anything)... coincidently I was born in Bhopal.. though not been to India in years but the last time I remember people still made a big deal about my attire as well as attitude. Those guardians of society who object to our clothing and attitude .. have lust in their eyes most of the time. Big time hypocrites ... because premarital relationship is such a taboo in Indian society though most of them do it .. even the so called protectors of societ the pandits and the maulvi's do the most heinous of crimes... Don't know how and when will things change... but I have never seen or heard of anyone pull of a zoya in real life and not have consequences...

Originally posted by: gossipgirlxoxo

I did not misunderstand you 😉. I agree to your point of view 100 % . its way more liberal no doubt about that and I am free to do wear anything (at some places not to wear anything)... coincidently I was born in Bhopal.. though not been to India in years but the last time I remember people still made a big deal about my attire as well as attitude. Those guardians of society who object to our clothing and attitude .. have lust in their eyes most of the time. Big time hypocrites ... because premarital relationship is such a taboo in Indian society though most of them do it .. even the so called protectors of societ the pandits and the maulvi's do the most heinous of crimes... Don't know how and when will things change... but I have never seen or heard of anyone pull of a zoya in real life and not have consequences...

BTW on a lighter note .. I mentioned your post here !

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/qubool-hai/3727750/main-har-fikr-ko-dhuen-main-udata-chala-gaya

Yeah when i lived in Europe there were definitely things I could and would do that I would never dream of doing in India. You can't even walk down a road here without being objectified. Bus conductors, auto drivers and sometimes even acquaintances. 🤢

@bold - the so called pandits and maulvis are the worst. They are the ones who commit heinous crimes and then invoke the name of god 😡 In real life had Zoya done what she did yesterday, she would have been found in a ditch murdered and worse.

Originally posted by: delena90

Yeah when i lived in Europe there were definitely things I could and would do that I would never dream of doing in India. You can't even walk down a road here without being objectified. Bus conductors, auto drivers and sometimes even acquaintances. 🤢

@bold - the so called pandits and maulvis are the worst. They are the ones who commit heinous crimes and then invoke the name of god 😡 In real life had Zoya done what she did yesterday, she would have been found in a ditch murdered and worse.

true that !

agree wid all u people ...its really unsafe for girls out here ...watever zoya dis dat day ...if i do dat by mistake also ...my husband wud make me dead meat ...n seriously zoya was lucky dat day to reach home in one full piece ...n i agree dat slaps ti rajveer vr gud but wat if she does same in public place ...i doubt she wud reach home back in single piece ...