Sumitra! Kya bolti tu?

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Posted: 12 years ago
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How long will Sumitra keep blackmailing Jagya and other Singhs in name of "Anandi ka sasra"?

Did they think of Anandi ka sasra when they'd keep calling AnSh or keep inviting them over to solve their "problems" every other day, that too at odd hours? Did they think when they asked Anandi to take care of Jagya during his amnesia drama? Did they think when they kept mum for days and did not talk or try to clarify or ask for forgiveness from Shekhars after DS' lies and slandering of Shiv were exposed?

Khud toh apni marzi se jab chahe sochte hain aur jab chahe nahi sochte hain Anandi ke saasre ke baare mein! So why hang the sword only on Jagya's head?

And line of the day was when Sumitra said, "Ab iss ghar meing saare faisle Jagya ki marzi se honge kya?" (something like that)

Hello! What ghar ka faisla was taken due to Jagya's marzi? He was too young to understand anything when he was married to Anandi. His marriage to little Gauri was forced. He had to pull all stops to let Singhs take education in subject and college of his choice. They just came down like a ton of bricks on him when he married Gauri (at that time both loved each other). No one ever did anything with his marzi! They waited for him to return for years but ONLY when it suited them. When they changed their own marzi, they got Anandi married to someone else.

What was done in Singh household with marzi of Jagya? Rather he felt stifled at home, this is why he rebelled, got in bad company and even ran away from home.

When it suited Singhs they kept spoiling him rotten. But when he turned out "wrong way" then they washed their hands off him, slapped and disowned him and accused others of brainwashing him, instead of realising their own faulty upbringing and trying to mend their own wrongs?

They've only given "sharan" to Ganga due to Jagya. Was that some huge ghar ka faisla?

What ghar ke faisle happen with Jagya's marzi?

Kuch bhi bolti hai Sumitra!

Her dialogues these days are baffling to say the least and so unlike her character! 😲

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Sumitra gloated "Hum bade hain iss ghar ke". I want to know what role did she play as a ghar ki badi! Has she wondered how her kids turned out? Daughter became an unwed mother and son's messed life is known to all. Sumitra did nothing when Gehna would come abused and battered by Basant, with all those bruises on her body. She did nothing for Anandi except crying or sweet talking to her.

And if she's so badi then why can't she see games Sanchi's playing? Why can't she use tact in handling her family in Ganga issue?

Arre! She herself could never do anything to take a stand when her own brother would be humiliated in family functions by DS!

As a parent she was clueless whether her son was in bad company, whether he was forced into a second child marriage and whether her daughter was painting the whole village red with Pratap before gauna!

Badi hai yeh! 😔

She was clueless in Kanchan case. So called ghar ki badi!

All these years she has done nothing except look on with wide eyes and shocked face, or cry or swallow all wrongs or curse others in helplessness. She has no stand of her own. She is easily dominated or manipulated. She has no tact, no foresight, no sense of sound judgement. She can't sense what her kids or husband need.

She is "badi" only in age. But no way in thinking, conduct or experience (that experience is useless that teaches you nothing!).

I'd love to know if she would tolerate Sanchi after marriage and after seeing her true colours for sake of Anandi's sasra? 😔 What face will she show to Anandi's sasra if Sanchi and Jagya don't get along after marriage? Will she tolerate everything? Or will she drop all "caution" for "Anandi's sasra"?

Anandi is just an excuse for her to drive away Ganga and grab a young, virgin and urban/rich bride from big family for Jagya! 🤢

How is Jagya responsible for anything that Anandi's sasra does to her? It will be fault of her sasra if they bash her in case Jagya refuses Sanchi or his marriage with her doesn't work!

This is utterly regressive to show that families must bear anything once they've given away their girl in marriage! Hadh hai! 😔
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Posted: 12 years ago
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well I have nothing more to add to what you've said...but I felt really bad seeing Jagya begging his family & Sumitra "haath jod ke" and saying "mera saath aisa mat karein..." that should've been an eyeopener for Sumitra and it should be a matter of shame for Singhs that their grown up son has been reduced to begging and then when he's not listened to, he has no choice but to storm off...it's so sad...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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She gone mad:(:(she totally lost it:(:(hate her
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Skepblun

How long will Sumitra keep blackmailing Jagya and other Singhs in name of "Anandi ka sasra"?

i think at this rate... forever... 🄱

Did they think of Anandi ka sasra when they'd keep calling AnSh or keep inviting them over to solve their "problems" every other day, that too at odd hours? Did they think when they asked Anandi to take care of Jagya during his amnesia drama? Did they think when they kept mum for days and did not talk or try to clarify or ask for forgiveness from Shekhars after DS' lies and slandering of Shiv were exposed?
no, they always think... whenever it is convenient... otherwise.. they wudnt give a damn abt anandi's saasra.. and this was done to make anandi mahaan and keep her title as sarpanch of jaitser intact..

Khud toh apni marzi se jab chahe sochte hain aur jab chahe nahi sochte hain Anandi ke saasre ke baare mein! So why hang the sword only on Jagya's head?
so that the cvs get to draaag a nonsensical track... 🄱 imagine a nanad marrying her bhabi's ex... when they r already brother in law and sister in law...

And line of the day was when Sumitra said, "Ab iss ghar meing saare faisle Jagya ki marzi se honge kya?" (something like that)
i skipped this.. part.. so.. wudnt be able to give an honest opinion.. 😊

Hello! What ghar ka faisla was taken due to Jagya's marzi? He was too young to understand anything when he was married to Anandi. His marriage to little Gauri was forced. He had to pull all stops to let Singhs take education in subject and college of his choice. They just came down like a ton of bricks on him when he married Gauri (at that time both loved each other). No one ever did anything with his marzi! They waited for him to return for years but ONLY when it suited them. When they changed their own marzi, they got Anandi married to someone else.


What was done in Singh household with marzi of Jagya? Rather he felt stifled at home, this is why he rebelled, got in bad company and even ran away from home.
i felt ki for once, jagya used his brain here... kudos my lad.. šŸ˜‰

When it suited Singhs they kept spoiling him rotten. But when he turned out "wrong way" then they washed their hands off him, slapped and disowned him and accused others of brainwashing him, instead of realising their own faulty upbringing and trying to mend their own wrongs?
well, it is very difficult to get some people to admit they r wrong.. they rather wash their hands off.. kumbh mele mein jaao.. aur ganga mein dubki lagaao.. is it a coincidence.. that 'ganga' has come to the singhs' house??

They've only given "sharan" to Ganga due to Jagya. Was that some huge ghar ka faisla?
actually,this was DS's faisla... which she thoppoed on the others...

What ghar ke faisle happen with Jagya's marzi?
zilch, nada, shunya..

Kuch bhi bolti hai Sumitra!
ya... and this is an added trait of hers.. along with constipated expressions... 🤔

Her dialogues these days are baffling to say the least and so unlike her character! 😲
she is basically a weak character... now made silly.. atleast i thought she had a heart.. but now looks like she has completely switched off her brain..


sorry for quoting you like this... but i was completely frustrated with the epi.. 😳
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Posted: 12 years ago
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She has completely lost her marbles🤔...I cant understand whether her behavior is PTSD or OCD or just plain stupidity.🤪

And the Singhs have become so dumb & helpless that they cant control Sumitra nor figure out Sanchi.šŸ˜•
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Sumitra is so consumed by hatred towards Ganga that she slowly seems to be sinking into madness. This was so apparent in that scene of her outburst today that Basant and Bhairon actually stared at her shocked and were wondering if this is the same Sumi they all know.
So determined she is to keep her son and family away from Ganga that she will resort to any tactic to have her way. Even her continuous use of "Anandi ka sasra" is nothing but a ploy to get Jagya to agree. This was also the tactic she used to emotionally blackmail her son into this ristha in the 1st place. If she was really that concerned about Anandi she would have been the 1st person to oppose such an alliance.
The way she was saying that do they have to make decisions according to Jagya made it sound as if till now all the major decisions in the Singh family were taken on his behest!
At this point she doesn't seem that different from Sanchi. Only difference is so far she was shown as a very positive character so her sudden about-turn comes across as strange and completely out of character.
What I'm extremely surprised (and even disappointed) about is the normally strong and sharp Ds is completely silent and just going alongwith her bahu's nonsensical whims and even encouraging Jagya and Bhairon to see things from Sumi's point of view 😲. I would have expected her to knock some sense into Sumi or at least go as far as to put her fears and worries to rest.
Edited by zephyr29 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Very good post skep. šŸ‘
This woman Sumitra is too much. She has become a chudale. She does not care for her son.
Idiot sumitra, ofcourse when it pertains to Jagia's engagement and life partner "jagia ke marzi se hi
Hone chahiye" .shithead sumitra, dont you get it? All your life you have been playing Jagia like your
Toy. You did not think he is a human being with his own aspirations and feelings. Now i dont blame Jagia for anything in the past except his amnesia and trying to get back Anandi.
I wish Jagia reads thru the mind of his mother and Sanchi and delivers a knock out punch after
The engagement. It would have been nice if he did it in style after showing up for engagement and
At the time of exchanging the ring he says" i dont want this marriage with a self centered person
Like sanchi. I am in love with Ganga"
That would make Sanchi and Sumitra fall flat on the ground.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Either way her reasoning is wrong

If each time she expects Jagya to take decisions by keeping in mind Anandi's happiness , she is looking out for Anandi NOT for him...this expectation itself is so biased and selfish and unbecoming for a mother ...it proves she does not give a damn for the son . Anandi is sukhi today it is time for Sumitra to think of Jagya's sukh . Anandi is a strong woman she can handle very well if a sasural member is miffed for some days . Ira was miffed during the lady revealing lies of Shiv's proposal phase and Saanchi has always been rude to Anandi . Yet Anandi ignored and stayed put . She is too mature and too strong to let these things upset her , i mean she handles far worse ...irate domestic abusers ! These snobbish rich women and their passing tantrums mean nothing to her .


If she is using the Anandi argument to make him buckle each time as she is playing on his guilty conscience and knows this argument has the power to make the strong headed son listen , she is being plain manipulative and cunning .

As for 'ab kya saare faisle Jagya hi karega' ...why not ? He is NOT doing that , but its time to think of retirement and at least allow him to make his OWN LIFE decisions ? WHO he should marry Sumitra will decide , WHEN he should get engaged Sumitra will decide ...son is a grown up divorcee man who is a doctor and makes life saving pressurizing decisions all day ...cannot he make his own decisions ? What is this annoying argument with Bhairon that 'Ab woh itna bada ho gaya hai ki apne faisle khud leta hai ' ? So he should not grow up and stay tied to mommy's pallu the whole day and be incapable of any decision making without her ?

I dunno how Bhairon does not blast the woman .
Edited by koolsadhu1000 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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very good post @Skepblun 😊.

yes, am disappointed in sumitra..she got her son back after great difficulty...and he has gone thru a lot ...good or bad...she should be doubly cautious about making any decisions on his behalf...his happiness and peace of mind should be sumitra's primary concern.

cant she see how disturbed he is...not once did she ask him till date...if he really wants to marry sanchi šŸ˜•...didn't have a heart to heart convo with him...to check whats going on in his mind ...thats strange.

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