Sumitra! Kya bolti tu? - Page 6

Originally posted by: sectoreight

lovesunshine,

In general, about your friend, I think one needs to carefully assess what the parents concerns are. If it is just "what will society say" or something like that ... then they may not be great arguments.

But if there are arguments for issues of compatibility etc. which relate to interpersonal issues, then fine okay, listen to parents.

yes exactly the 'what will society say was one part of it' but the other was..he was not educated (ssc failed, for me it does not matter if he is willing to work hard), he was working in a shop (again it does not matter to me if he is hardworking and is earning his wages honestly),

the main things were that the parents did a background research for this guy and found out that his habits are not good,, heavy drinking, smoking, tobacco, gambling habit, arrogance and angry brawls (like salman khan) in public places were reported..so they felt that in the future it may affect their daughter's life..so they tried desperately to stop their daughter but all in vain..

n now all this what they had feared is coming up in her life like tv serial episodes..well what can we do or say..she has to take the step ..we can only help her think clearly..

well in such a case, she herself should have realized all this even without her parents advice 😕.

Originally posted by: sectoreight

well in such a case, she herself should have realized all this even without her parents advice 😕.

So many negative points, I will also run far far away from this guy. If he has an angry temperament it is only a matter of time before he turns his anger on me, and his outside brawls become domestic brawls.

you knw we all grow up watching bollywood movies and the slogan 'love will conquer all' made her blind.. she though he will be alright after marriage and her love will pacify him and make him sober.. which we all knw never happens..

there are certain things she already knew abt him and she lied to us all and her parents too...and now she told me...

thats why i connect it to this tv show...similar as gauri jagya relationship..