Jodha Akbar 37: Shahi Shaadi 3 - Wedding blues

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Eureka! I have finally achieved my heart's desire, of an episode during this Shahi Shaadi Saptah which is long on spectacle and short on substance. The first two were anything but short on substance, but today, things were better, though not as much as I would have preferred. So here goes with all the bits and pieces.

The Wedding: It was appropriately rich is tone and texture throughout, even though the venue was restricted and the rasams were far fewer than I would have liked. In fact, leaving aside the wedding proper, there were only the ceremonies at the entrance of the groom at the beginning, and the jootiyan churana at the end. It would have been far better to have included a few more Rajasthani customs, instead of wasting time and footage on Sujamal skulking around in the most improbable fashion, attempting to masquerade as a waiter right under the noses of not just Sharifuddin but the Amer royals, and worse, the even more improbable Mahaam Anga and Adham Khan shouting match.

It boggled the mind to see the astute Mahaam Anga slapping her criminal dolt of a son (for such a short woman, she sure has a solid forearm action, for the huge Adham reels sideways every time she has a go at him!) and yelling at him, barely 20 feet away from the wedding havan kund. And this not only for eyeing the maids but also for having hatched the plot to assassinate Jalal! She might as well have shouted all this out in the town square. Why on earth would she not wait till they were alone in their khema that night?

The one point of note here is Mahaam's apparent devotion to Jalal and to protecting him, for all that she will not expose her son for the murder attempt, or indeed do anything more than warn him not to be such a fool that he would take them both down thru his idiocies. Not that he will heed any of her warnings, whether about the maids (it was side-splitting that his fancy alights on Motibai, who is very far from being attractive. It is clear that he is going to fall foul of Jodha very soon by making passes at her) or about Jalal.

Sight of the day: Jalal's bewilderment when faced with a kneeling saas-to-be with two matkas on her head! And again when she is apparently measuring him from toe to top with a red cord, and brushing him around the head with a branch of neem leaves to ward off the evil eye. By now, Mynavati seems far more at home with her javaisa, and Jalal the Jallad seems to have faded away.

And yes, I forgot the startling spectacle of Adham Khan doing an aarti of the bride, after his technique was suitably corrected by the pandit! The most noteworthy point here was Sharifuddin's obvious jealousy when Jalal asked Adham, his foster brother, to stand in for his father. However, he soon realized that it was a public place, and rearranged his face to make it look passably pleasant.

The jootiyan churana episode ended on a very charming note, with Jalal picking up his littlest saali, showering them all with gifts, and triumphantly looking back at Jodha when one of the girls declares, in ringing tones, that jeejaji is not just bahut achche,but also gore chitte! This last gave rise to a momentous development, the first glance, as distinct from glare, exchanged between Jodha, who seemed taken aback by this unexpected side of her patidev's persona, and Jalal.

But the initial anger displayed, when Jalal's jootis go missing, by both Sharifuddin ( who digs up the infamous foot chopping episode; this was obviously meant by the CVs to further stoke Jodha's revulsion against Jalal) , and by Jalal himself (in a kind of throwback to the first two episodes), was excessive and uncalled for. Jalal's Amer inlaws seemed paralysed with shock and dismay at this explosion of wrath, and no wonder.

Equally curious and inappropriate was young Mansingh admonishing the Shahenshah for what he takes, quite wrongly, to be Jalal ridiculing this custom. As Jodha swallows in nervous tension, Jalal reacts with surprising gentleness and patience. He does have a soft corner of the kid, and his nazrana for Mansingh might well be to take him to Agra with him.

The costumes of the bridal pair were suitably gorgeous, especially Jodha's , in glowing yellows, with an identical zari applique of mango patterns on both the lehenga and the chunari. As you would have seen from my last post, I was sharply critical of her burning the Dacca mulmul shaadi ka joda, but that regrettable act too had a silver lining, it seems. The yellow and gold outfit she eventually wore suited her far better than the Dacca muslin would ever have done!

Wedding rites: I am not au fait with the details of Rajasthani wedding customs, but in the traditional saat phere, the groom goes first for the first four pheras, and then the bride takes the lead for the next three, as she intends to confront Yama himself, were he to turn up,and protect her husband's life like Savitri did for Satyavan. But here, Jodha went first for 4 pheras, and then Jalal for the last three. And in the saptapadi, the man usually takes each of the 7 steps first, and the bride follows him,but here it was the opposite. Then again, there was no mangalsutra, which is almost universal in the rest of India, and the maang bharna was taken as the final seal of the marriage.

I have also never heard of the bride taking any vows, though I dare say they might have dug this custom up from somewhere. The point obviously was to get Jodha to voice her gratification at having him for her dev! Jodha had by then got over the reluctance that made her pull her hand away from Jalal's earlier, and she spoke her vows fairly firmly, despite being acutely conscious of Jalal''s amused attentiveness.

As for the hand angle, once Jodha's hand had been firmly placed is his by Mynavati, the mischievous Jalal rammed the point home by imprisoning it for a little while between both of his, in order to enjoy her discomfiture. This apart, he seemed to be enjoying himself thoroughly right thru, and he was relaxed throughout, not reacting even when Jodha pulled her hand away. He did nothing, and simply waited till Mynavati sorted it out for him.

Jalal, when confirning to his entourage that this wedding would be entirely according to Hindu customs, assures them that the Mughal ceremonies would be held at Agra - he cannot afford to give them the impression that he has caved in to all of Bharmal's requests. Despite this, Mahaam Anga, who is constantly riled by Jalal permitting these Hindu rites, jumps in to add a Muslim one by tying a taveez on Jodha's arm, statedly to ward off any problems that might face her. As Mahaam intoned these words, I was thinking Par sabse badi takleef to aap hi hain! Jodha too seems to be decidedly skeptical as she peers up at Mahaam Anga as the latter is tying the taveez.

The assassination plot: This seemed far too pat and amateurish to be credible, and if there had been even a halfway effective investigation, Adham Khan would have been exposed at once. Jalal sounded naive when not just excusing but actually commending Adham Khan for killing that Aslam Khan on the spot before he could be forced to identify his employer.

But what stayed with me was the supreme self confidence with which Jalal asserts that even if he had been sleeping in the room, nothing would have happened to him. It reminded me of his telling Abdul, before they leave for the Amer adventure, that death itself fears and avoids him. This tremendous self belief, and faith in his manifest destiny , are the true marks of a great ruler, and no wonder Jalal became Akbar, or The Great!

Fate's soldier: During the sentimental reminiscing in the beginning, Myanavati gives Jodha a very sound, and indeed inspired piece of advice. Destiny, she asserts, chooses its soldiers, those who will not run away from their fate but accept it and build on it. She tells Jodha to accept this marriage as a ruling of fate, do her best to make it work, and also fufil her duties (karm) in her sasural. This advice will definitely have a major bearing on Jodha's future relationship with Jalal, by helping to smooth out its roughest edges.

Already, the shrewd Mahaam Anga, spotting, even from behind his sehra, the way in which Jalal watches Jodha unceasingly, has begun to suspect that for him, she is no run of the mill begum. Knowing Jalal inside out as she does, she senses that there is something different this time. Something disturbing. Something unsettling. One can be sure that she will try her best to nip this in the bud, and to trip Jodha up in Agra, probably by recruiting Ruqaiya too for this task.

The precap: It is unintentionally comic, implying, as it does, that Jodha hoped to hold off a warrior like Jalal with that gift khanjar. The only question now is whether he has cut his hand. As for the rest, there is no room for any doubt, for Jalal would never force himself on any woman, not even one he wants to tame. It remains to be seen how this plays out. I hope they handle it with finesse.

Shyamala B.Cowsik

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Shyamala when are u going to stop writing these amazing updates? I keep on waiting for ur posts. The wedding truly was beautiful. It was better than my expectation. I would like ekta and the CVs for this. Now coming back to the post, the precap was amazing. It was although silly of Jodha trying to act Jalal becauz he is a soldier. But she just wanted to get rid of him.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Ah, I was actually staying up late, waiting for your update. And it was worth the wait, as always. I completely agree about the unnecessary assassination track. It was quite pointless. I have started to like Adham Khan as a villain though, he makes a very convincing one. And what a bundle of contrasts is Maham Anga. Jalal's jutiya chori scene ended on a heartwarming note. And also, I should add that even though Jalal was angry because of the stolen shoes, he did not seem like the old Jalal to me anymore. It's more of a reflex reaction than anything, I felt. Because he is, after all, still the guy who does not like sharing.

I continue to be impressed with Mainawati. Her heart-to-heart with Jodha was wonderful, and very practical. And about the precap, I am certian Jodha does not really believe she can keep away Jalal with a dagger. It was more of a symbolic gesture than anything. And her reaction to the close proximity of Jalal, did not seem the reaction of a disbelieving, disgruntled girl to me. She was more resigned, and seemed quite aware of her feeble attempts.

P.S I was quite happy with the wedding rituals. The wedding was lavish and beautiful, and not all about rituals. Which I liked. There will also be a nikah. Two weddings are more than enough for me. 😆😆
Edited by Stargirl06 - 12 years ago
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Lovely update- I don't know much about Rapjut rituals, so there were no quibbles about the wedding from me, but your sharp eye could hardly miss anything!
I enjoyed the entire episode, with the exception of the CV's showing Jalal's obsessive affection for his shoes- the man is constantly baying about cutting off feet! Clearly in order to capture Adham Khan's bumbling attempts to off Jalal, the CV's should have the man steal the Shehehshah's shoes- game over!😆
MM remains a shrewd player as you said- I enjoyed the subtle confusion and derision she showed over the Hindu rituals, as well as her menacing tone when she blessed Jodha- the girl was clearly not fooled! Adham Khan's aarti was also unintentionally funny- I will confess I was a little disappointed when his attention went to Motibai instead of Jodha, only because I thought his yen for having everything Jalal does would extend to her as well- also, as you have noted, Motibai is not that fair to look upon.
Shrif continues to chafe under the impression that Jalal does not respect him as he should- and yet so far he remains loyal. How and when and why that changes will be interesting to see, but will surely have something to do with AK and MM. I also found it funny that he was the only one who suspected something about the server- is everyone else too mired in misery to see Sujamal who is making little attempt to hide himself?
The precap- Jodha uses the dagger, well tries. Let's see what Jalal's response will be- in any case, with that menacing look, I'm sure he'll feature in some of her nightmares.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Shyamala di, your post is amazing as always, I hope you're not getting irked by my fangurling over you. 😉
Also you single handedly bring out the writers of this forum from their literary slumber n put their brains to work n hands to type. 😉 N we get some amazing discussions on each n every episode ! 😃
Coming to today's episode I'd totally agree that today was a episode to savior n shall I say, to gush n mush over , n not to ponder over. It was a pure visual treat.
Agree totally that despite it being lavish n rich, the actual wedding process was too short for my liking. Ye dil mange more. 😉 But whatever was shown was done very nicely, with the up shots taking my breath away as always. Both Jalal n Jodha looked more breath taking than ever. I found the scene of Jalal looking at himself in a almost narcissistic way in the mirror before going for the wedding very cute n some how reflective of his own high appreciation of himself. 😉
Btw, I found the Sharifyuddin -Sujamal scenes quite funny , but they were unrealistic , how come no body noticed that it was Sujamal n only Sharifuddin didn't miss the very obvious disguise ( ? , what disguise ?? The guy just missed out a few days shaving , that's all ! 😕 ) , n MA slapping Adham Khan was completely hilarious n unnecessary. Come on, for once , Adham wasn't doing any thing that could've drawn much attention to him , he was not like winking at them , or doing any public indecency . Far more scene was created by that slapping , n all that yelling, n it didn't look like AK has paid heed to a single word uttered by his ammi , because the very next thing he did was to ask a servant who those girls were !!! 😲😆
Even Sharifuddin was shaking his head at AK's words today. 😆 The guy is being too obvious for our enjoyment. I think there's some serious lack of beauties in mughal harem for Adham to consider Moti Bai as beautiful, but of course the cvs has brought this angle because Moti bai is very close to Jodha n I can see a future molest attempt on Moti bai by him , n Jodha saving her. 🤢 Too predictable !

As for the Akdha part, * happy sigh * I'm too pleased to complain other than just asking for more n more . Jalal- Maina vati equation has changed radically n this time it was very pleasant to see her smiling all the time while welcoming Jalal n all the rituals . But it's not that deep down she doesn't resent the marriage very much even now as was evident from her conversation later with Dadisa.
I enjoyed the Jodha-Maina vati scene very much , it was beautiful, heart touching n I can relate to it n it's interesting how different , seemingly non-valuable n ordinary gifts were given to her as a symbol of presence of every family member n we got some nice scenes of Jodha with her family n once again we realise what a beautiful carefree innocent she has been privilaged with till now , how protected n happy she'd always been , it helps us to understand why Jodha is the way she is.😳

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Hello everyone

Thanks again shyamala aunty for the post , i had been waiting for it impatiently ... you seem to have settled into my daily routine/life ... and can't sleep without a read ... even though iam not in the best of my health...

I too noticed that MA never left jala's gaze and was probably the only one who was watching and deciphering all tht was going on between jalal's and jodha eyes... the shrewd wretch wants every piece of jalal's life ... she suspects something different this time and is concentrating well on untangling it .

Besides , this i also believe that there are two versions of the jalal-Man singh story ...

One that jalal is impressed by Man- singh ... his courage , valour and mannerism ... and wants to help him but i suspect he also wants someone from jodha's family ... to be with them in Agra...

the second guess that is running through my mind is that is jalal is planning to pin jodha and black mail her using man singh as a bait ... and keep jodha in check when she runs havoc with her tantrums in agra... because he did seem a lil sarcastic when he said that he would give him his NEG later...
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I was let down also by them not showing more rituals, they seem to be in haste of finishing of the wedding. Not that I am not looking forward to real akdha moments in Agra, but still wish there were more shown. I am marwari, in our marriages the first 4 are taken by bride, followed by groom. There is also a groom nose pulling ceremony done my MIL, would have loved to see Jalal's reaction on that one.
Maan singh and Jalal, so much respect - you are right they will have a great relationship as we all know from history.

So true about MA being suspicious about how Jalal is different around Jodha. She can sense it and is already insecured. We might see more of MA/Jodha clashes than Akdha clashes. I am ready for it as long as Jalal is there to protect Jodha..

Thanks for your awesome views, totally enjoy reading every word of it.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Aunty though Adham khan was not commendable for his act by Jalal but your post is always commendable👏.. I also found it too amateurish that Jalal did not interrogate adham for his foolish act..
Though he set up a investigation team to find out the man behind this attack but unfortunately made MA the head that's why he did not get to reach to the culprit ever.. As per the traditions well I also knew that the groom takes the 4pheras after that the bride take the rests, but here the reverse happened and I don't know but may be the mangalsutra ritual was not in those days,may be it was added later.. I don't know also,..😊..
Basically in today's episode the tolerance of Jalal towards other rituals,other religions and the intolerance and an intense dislike of MA towards other customs depicted very well..she was getting irritated later by the rituals..And how can I forget the fool Adham Khan..poor chap..whenever comes in the scene gets a tight slap from his mother..😆..such a lecherous and disgusting guy.I fail to digest how a intelligent lady like MA can give birth to such a dimwitted one.I doubt sometime he might have been switched with sharifuddin.😉..Jokes apart! but seriously this guy annoy me a hell lot..
The Mainawati Jodha scene was indeed a heart melting,emotional one..As a mother she really said some golden words to her daughter, I really liked the line when she said that we can make our fate by our works..there is nothing consistent..😊..except the assassination track,last episode was quite interesting although..
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Okay. About Jalal's naivete about Adham Khan's behavior, well, yes, it was a bit odd. But we need to remember that the guy is getting married in a matter of few hours. And no matter how much he claims about this wedding being just another nikah, it is so delightfully obvious that it's not. Just another nikah, that is. Even when he sort of praised Adham for his faithfulness or whatever, he seemed very blah, or casual about it. Something like , yeah yeah, good job, now get the hell out, so I can go marry. I would like to defend Jalal by saying that he had bigger and better concerns in mind, than dealing with Adham. And the way he confidently replied to Adham that even if he was in the khema, nothing would have happened to him, clearly shows how little he is threatened by Adham.
Also, the rituals tonight beautifully portrayed Jalal's tolerance for other religions. No other Mughal king would have done that. No other Mughal king would have followed through with all the rituals. That was nicely done.
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Continuing... 😉

Loved the contrast between Jalal enjoying the marriage fully ( couldn't take his eyes of the girl for a moment n couldn't or wouldn't hide his cheshire cat grin) n Jodha sunken is a deep gloom , thoroughly resigned n frustratingly obedient most of the time .
To flinch away from Jalal's touch is inherent repulsion of rajput woman for Mughal men n it can't be washed away so easily n quickly , it's like her bodies natural reaction , but glad that this time Maina vati took no chance n hurried to rectify the situation ( phew ! ). Felt sad when Jodha hung her head as MA proclaimed loudly the superiority of Jalal's lineage n Jalal rubbed the point with a staring down look at his bride. That bit of rudeness was uncalled for. I liked how Jalal loses no chance to drive the pint home to Jodha that she's now his property n he owns her completely .
Felt really bad for Sujamal in today's episode , despite his follies , did he deserve this place , that of a servant, in his sister's wedding ? He must've had so many dreams of this day n what his would be.
I find the maang fillingpart very beautiful simply because of the time alloted to the scene n the interplay of Jodha's flash back n realisation of inevitability of fate n how her eyes filled with tears.. n how softly but firmly Jalal hold her head during it again with a sense of possession.
Jalal n his obsession with his eyes , as irritating as Jodha's obsession with Jalal's head. But thank god the scene ended so beautifully. Very pleasant to see every one smiling for a change even Sharifuddin n MA. Maan Singh has decided not to let go of one chance to parade his courage ( I'd say foolishly though ) in front of Akbar, but I forgive him because he's just too young only 13 or so..
Precap- Well, I don't think Jodha thought it'll remotely be possible for her to hold off Jalal if he makes an advance but that no way should mean it's not natural that she wouldn't make an attempt.
When rape victims or accused are brought to our FMT dpt for examination n report , we always look for signs of struggle which are very very important points in proving it a case of rape in court. Mere intercourse doesn't qualify as valid proof , unless the girl is a child or very young virgin.
What I mean to say, it's taken as standard fact, that a girl will struggle n try to to ward off her attacker by any means possible if she wasn't knocked first, n while doing so she of course knows in most cases that her attempts to protect herself will be futile, but that doesn't mean she'll not struggle . Every girl has the right to struggle where she doesn't consent, it's their reflex action.
Here also Jodha is doing the same , she is acting on reflex despite knowing the possibilities.

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