why don't women speak up?

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Posted: 19 years ago
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Why don't these women characters ever speak up??? if you notice in Saat Phere the only one to actually speak her mind at the RIGHT time is Kaveri...although she is evil or whatever at least she says what she has to! Saloni never shares anything with Nahar fine...Saloni is at fault...but this whole accusation thing is just not working...Saloni should just blast him off and tell him if he wants to be an untrustworthy husband than fine...I'll quit the job and not go anywhere...check everything...but after you check everything and are shown my innocence that's when you have lost your saloni..cuz you never trusted her...well that's what I would say if my husband ever suspected me...if you also notice in Kkasam se bani doesn't say anything...I mean it's not that hard to just say what's on your mind and what's the truth...the more time you take the more chances your giving others to create a misunderstanding. also if you look at Kitu in kittu sab janti hain...well if she knows sooo much why doesn't she ever speak at the right moment...in most serials the women are showed as so weak when it comes to their family..but the truth is that women are the strongest when it comes to their family and the truth...and how come in every show the husband or boyfriend never trusts the girl...and when the girl is proven innocent the girl forgives and forgets so easily!!! it just makes me angry..if you want to make shows with women as lead roles can you just put some reality into it??? in saath phere I really believe that the only person who speaks their mind at the right time is KAVERI! sorry guys I'm just upset with seeing women portrayed as this time and time again!!😡 please do share your views 😳

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Posted: 19 years ago
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Good point! however i think it can be seen from other point too. Showing women to be patient in other way its trying to show that silence speaks more than words when Nahar realizes?
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Posted: 19 years ago
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I totally agree with you. I think a lot of problems can be solved if there is mutual communication. Kaveri is the only one who speaks her mind. Jiji too. Only the evil people speak up. Others just go dumb.
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: rajbiraj

Good point! however i think it can be seen from other point too. Showing women to be patient in other way its trying to show that silence speaks more than words when Nahar realizes?

I don't agree that just by sitting silent you can send the right message, silence can very easily be misinterpreted. You have to let your voice be heard. This is what i think. If Saloni just sits silent, then yes Nahar will know the truth someday, but maybe it will be too late. So if you got to say something say it now.

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Posted: 19 years ago
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In our society(back home)that's the kind of women everybody want to see around them.
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Have you noticed that whatever the serial name is ,be it Ekta or whatever it is the silence is golden for the heroine or bechari cahracters and it's the 'I am smart,I know everything,when to make the right moves for the the vamps or villians 😈 '........we all very well know that serials are a waste of time,even the writers and directors know it so they give trash in the name of serials, i feel some wiseness and sanity is there because of this forum where we can discuss and bring some reasoning in.....or else
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: shabari

Have you noticed that whatever the serial name is ,be it Ekta or whatever it is the silence is golden for the heroine or bechari cahracters and it's the 'I am smart,I know everything,when to make the right moves for the the vamps or villians 😈 '........we all very well know that serials are a waste of time,even the writers and directors know it so they give trash in the name of serials, i feel some wiseness and sanity is there because of this forum where we can discuss and bring some reasoning in.....or else

i agree...everywhere silence is golden for the herione. Even if her husband abuses her she never says a word....like in betiyaan. Its getting on my nerves....please lady...SPEAK UP!

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Posted: 19 years ago
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i kind of agree cause in like most of the dramas they have wait for the right time and then when the right time comes thay get accused so the women should speak up
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: sumiyyakhan

i kind of agree cause in like most of the dramas they have wait for the right time and then when the right time comes thay get accused so the women should speak up

I agree😊

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Posted: 19 years ago
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I don't believe silence is the best policy...in this day and age whoever is silent is always misunderstood and usually it's not the fault of somebody misunderstanding someone..it's actually the fault of the person who is allowing himself/herself to be misunderstood! Silence DOES NOT speak more than words! those are just things that are good to hear...but if you see in the real world nothing like that happens...it's time women start speaking their minds in these serials...if these serial makers really want people to relate they should stop corrupt relationships and put in reality! 😡

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