The Gangster's Daily Adda ~ DDT ~ 16\7

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*IT'S MY TURN TODAY TO UPDATE AND MAKE THE DDT THREAD , AS SRUSHTI AND I DECIDED , SO YEAH 😛*




This is an open thread! So all welcome to Discuss the Episode😛

But ofcourse with great power comes great responsibility and also as we know our dear Gangster is a very law abiding citizen😛...Never goes on a ride without the seat belt😳
We also cannot start this thread without some basic rules, can we?


Some bullet points😛

  • This is a Discussion Thread and we can analyze, describe, critcize (Constructively) the episode over here...but NO bashing ...either the members or the actors...
  • Since the thread is open, let everybody vent their opinions...Every opinion as long it is not degrading or in violative of the rules of IF, is most welcome...
  • Masti is FULLLTOOO permitted😳 but spamming is illegal in all countries😛
  • Keep the quoting to the minimum...better to reply with @ so that the thread is not very heavy...
  • The thread will be put up on daily basis by me or Koeli😳 Any problem with the thread, do pm either of us😳
  • The thread will be put before the Episode Telecast time...If someone wants to put an LU (Live update) they may reserve on the first page ...and if they can provide pics also most welcome!

So come and join us!!!!


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Posted: 12 years ago
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Raghu : Jo tab Bachaa Naa Sakaa...


"...woh ab bachaana chahtaa hoon."
It is difficult to ever comprehend what Raghu wants , what Raghu plans to achieve and for what. Did engineering a plan in going to the hospital , meeting a professional psychiatric doctor and fixing a treatment for Antu's mom in a span of less than 24 hours only and only have an objective of stopping Antara? I think not. Because if having a battle within himself for a girl who came as a distinctive gust of wind , emotionally throttling yourself and your anguish for the girl by punching walls and expressing, venting out all your emotions through a mouth organ is the only reason , then what Raghu feels can never come even near love. Therefore , the step he took in stopping Antara I believe cannot be emotional blackmail in restraining her for staying back , cause what he said to Antara when she asked his intentions cleared a hell lot of things through one dialogue. "Jo tab bachaa naa sakaa , woh ab bachaana chahtaa hoon." Thank the lord for the dialogue writer not being Hedge and team , and having Ravindra Gautam instead. We have always seen Raghu getting reminded of his dark days in childhood and his helplessness and anguish for not being able to save his dying mom by a frightened teenager , only through the angle of Antara's family . Previously when Antara questioned him of locking their door and not having it in him to understand how it feels when ones mom is screaming for you and you cannot do anything , the layering of Raghu's family happened only through the mean of Antara's family angle. A beautiful way of writing technique in order to bind the two characters. And again today we see , the need of setting a treatment for Geeta is in order to mentally forgive himself in not being able to save his mom when she needed him the most , by fixing Antara's mom's health. So already , unconsciously , he considers both him and Antu as one. 😉

Antara : In jaiso ki wajah se mein ek parivaar kho chooki hoon..

"doobara kho nahi sakti mein."

She did not want to be someone rebelling against a stranger's wrong doings cause she had her music , her guitar and her complete family with her.She never knew that one day the situation of her hometown will make the 19-20 year old girl in her witness her father's burnt body , tattered. I won't ever forget what she said in that episode previously. "Apni Papa ki jali hui shareer dekha tha maine" .She never knew that society's wrong doers will one day steal everything that was her life and give her a mentally ill mother with her dad killed by a bomb with his body burnt alive like that in front of her. She never thought that gundas , gangsters , and terrorists ever had the strength to steal her soul away from her till it didn't happen. And once it did , she realized how every boon , bane , corruption and domination of society affects everyone's life and one cannot just avoid it through blissful ignorance. That's what Antara did before in Kashmir , have a blissful ignorance from the tensions and violence of Kashmir and what did she get? A broken heart , a broken life and a broken faith. Raghu is a constant reminder to her of all the violent agents of society who stole her father away from her forever. Who do their dominating violence, use and exploit their power by harming others and rule everyone's free will by creating fear in people's hearts. Her dad till his last minute died a man with a fearless spirit and heart. How can Antu ever forget that? Exactly. She can't. And that is why after this , the next place she goes , she becomes a promise of what her Father believed in - of rebelling against the wrong doings of gundaas and terrorists. She lost an entire family because of such people for the reason she kept on standing against Raghu because she was determined to never lose her newly formed family again for such people.And for that , she can go to any lengths. Explains a hell lot about why she will never be able to accept his position and identity in the basti no matter how much he does for her today or tomorrow , even if she falls in love with him. Makes a whole lot of sense actually. That is why today you see her struggling to trust the human in Raghu , leaving all the developing pink sentiments inside , aside in a corner. She can't take the fact that because of wrong doers like Raghu who made her lose her dad and life previously can be the very reason all of a sudden in rebuilding the pieces remained in her family , by helping her ill mom. It's not easy at all , and that is why it will take her longer time to accept him and her latter feelings for him in the future.


Ps - A lot of their scenes have reminded me of Abhiya scenes. Raghu's turmoil regarding Antara was almost a rip off of the scene in which Abhay's anguish, turmoil and a battle within him develops when Piya is about to leave Dheradhun. Like Antara , Piya said the ditto same line to Abhay despite the whole world spitting at her - "Tum yeh hi chate the naa ke mein chali jaaon?Iss college se chali jaao , Dheradhun chod doon? Jaa rahi hoon mein.Iss college se aur tumse humesha ke liye door." Piya had guys all over the college calling her basically nothing but a w**** , telling her to spend nights with them in front of the entire college and all her friends spitting and bitching about her just cause she was accused of something. And yet , the only thing that mattered to her despite her world turning into a mess was leaving Abhay. It is very similar I think of yesterday's scene. Very similar actually. And today , The pulling the girl against you when logs and branches are about to fall on her because of the heroine's stuborness despite the hero's warnings is again a pretty much copy off of another Abhiya scene where the ditto thing happened. 😊 Just saying. 😆

Edited by Escape.My.Love. - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Mein aa gai Partner😛
REs


Well First of all Koel,,.What a brilliant write up yesterday...True...the moment we see Raghu glaring and staring at Antara, we think he has fallen, we do not give credence to that big deep hole you so perfectly described...and after that if he behaves a bit harshly we are all shouting...this is not fair!!!
But then why bind the free spirit into a definition...he is still trying to unravel the mysterious fashion his heart is working these days...and you have to give it to him..he doesnot go soft and mushy..he just reacts!!!




And you could see that when he actually is justifying himself...by telling her that he has been doing this repairing of Basti every year..and that since half of the work was yet to be done, he will complete it today...
It is so absolute the way he is contradicting himself..on one hand he is pretty open in front of everyone...telling her that he is not going to let he go!!!
I was like Oh my!! The guy is declaring his stance in front of the whole world...That he has told her not to go...and the very next moment he justified his actions by saying that he does the repairing work ...
It is that which binds him to her...something which he lacks and she fulfills...Her conviction to stand and support her family...which probably he could not do ...which probably he failed to do so at that point of time...and that is what keeps him coming back to her...


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Posted: 12 years ago
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Today's fun facts!
Who thought that Macchu had a clear idea what is going on with his boss??
Especially since when he asked her about the earring "De ke aau kya😛?' I was like Macchu...tujhe tera boss ek de de dega tight!!!😆


The public display of angsty romance😆...First that scene at the jeeep...and then in the house...especially the pakda pakdi with the hand😳...Kya public romance chal rahha hai and nobody bothers to object...bhai ye kya hai...ghar mein chhota bacha hai...

Whoo loved how Raghu, turn by turn implored everyone to explain Antara...first Mama and Mami and then Ishaan...As if trying to evade the moment when he would have to show the reason and to what lenghts he had gone for her and her mother...

The thank you scene...Absolutely loved his crispy retort when Antara told him that she had already said thank you and did he expect her to touch his feet..and he is "teri shraddha ki baat hai"...haahha he is actually reinforcing her earlier belief that he is God😆
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Posted: 12 years ago
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@ Srushti - I swear I had the exact same feeling when Machmach said that . Yes he is very much aware of what Raghu is processing himself through. 😉😆


Edited by Escape.My.Love. - 12 years ago
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"It is that which binds him to her...something which he lacks and she fulfills...Her conviction to stand and support her family...which probably he could not do ...which probably he failed to do so at that point of time...and that is what keeps him coming back to her..."

👏 👏Brilliantly said , Srush .Exactly what I was trying to say.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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hey shrus hey koel...lovely post...loved today's eps...but eagerly waiting for tomorrow...what a beautiful line antara's mom stated..."pyar atma hain.."...yes,love is actually like a soul,it is in each and every being...even in a lifeless being...we just have to found that...and when we can understand love we touch the devine souls... ..
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Ifians- I seriously loved what Geeta said as well. Love is a soul , kab kisi se kahaan ho jaaye , neither do we have the strength to dictate it or stop it. Pyaar in itself is an individual soul. So truly said. 👏
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Escape.My.Love.

Ifians- I seriously loved what Geeta said as well. Love is a soul , kab kisi se kahaan ho jaaye , neither do we have the strength to dictate it or stop it. Pyaar in itself is an individual soul. So truly said. 👏

loved that dialouge so much...never heared such a meaningfull defination of love before...
btw call me ria..😊
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Ria - Hai naa? You know I have seen this , jo normal log samaj nahi paatey woh mentally ill log kitni asaani se bol detey hai , it really happens in real life I have seen.
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