Why the heck was Gauri crying up a storm?

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Posted: 18 years ago
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I don't get it. Why did Gauri cry and act as though she was betrayed by someone who loved her? Didn't she say on more than one occasion that she wouldn't come in between Shiv's first love? Didn't she know that Shiv didn't love her?

She was being inconsistent to her supposed nature.

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Posted: 18 years ago
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bez she is kind of used to crying as her reaction to everything.

didn't mean to offend 😆
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Posted: 18 years ago
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No matter what u say or do.. U're after all a human being with a heart!! & when the heart breaks, there's bound to be repercussions... U know, we all say a lot of things but "it is easier said than done".

Sana~
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: smartc

No matter what u say or do.. U're after all a human being with a heart!! & when the heart breaks, there's bound to be repercussions... U know, we all say a lot of things but "it is easier said than done".

Sana~

well said sana dii👏👏 i agree with u

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Posted: 18 years ago
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i agree with you sana...

yeah its true every human being will react the same as gauri..shiv is her husband and that means a lot to her as she believe in this sacred institution and above all trust him though there is no love between them but there exist a friendship relationship..even if your friend ditch you you will feel hurt and pain or even cry buckets...same with gauri coz at that time her heart did break listening to all this and when heart breaks your tears flow naturally...
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Posted: 18 years ago
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U are absolutely right.. Aur kuch nahi, dosti hi sahi.. It will hurt u when u come to know that your friend for whom u can give your own life has been deceiving you all along!!

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: pippa

I don't get it. Why did Gauri cry and act as though she was betrayed by someone who loved her? Didn't she say on more than one occasion that she wouldn't come in between Shiv's first love? Didn't she know that Shiv didn't love her?

She was being inconsistent to her supposed nature.

I agree with you Pippa Ji!

Agreed the woman was in love with Shiv, but despite several chances, she was the one who did not want to hear the complete , which she could have easily demanded, but instead all she saw was her happiness... She is a at the end of the day a selfish woman, one who wants to see Shiv happy, coz that makes her happy...She is no saint as many coin her to be... She is human, its jus that her happiness lies with Shiv...

As I see, she has willingly stayed away from the truth when she had a chance to demand the entire truth.. she came back to him out of her own will, ready to give up her life...

She seemed quite sure of her wanting to spend her life.. with Shiv... even after all that happened and that bhaashan about Yakeen and he epitomizing it for her....

So what right does that give her to cry and blame him...

She wants to cry, she can cry bucket loads, but blaming shiv for her present situation is totally uncalled for and he did not break her bhram... it was she who gathered those damn shatttered pieces and recreated her stupid bhram... after he shattered it more than once..

This time it is her own doing.. and my sympathies are not with her anymore....

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: sareeta

I agree with you Pippa Ji!

Agreed the woman was in love with Shiv, but despite several chances, she was the one who did not want to hear the complete , which she could have easily demanded, but instead all she saw was her happiness... She is a at the end of the day a selfish woman, one who wants to see Shiv happy, coz that makes her happy...She is no saint as many coin her to be... She is human, its jus that her happiness lies with Shiv...

As I see, she has willingly stayed away from the truth when she had a chance to demand the entire truth.. she came back to him out of her own will, ready to give up her life...

She seemed quite sure of her wanting to spend her life.. with Shiv... even after all that happened and that bhaashan about Yakeen and he epitomizing it for her....

So what right does that give her to cry and blame him...

She wants to cry, she can cry bucket loads, but blaming shiv for her present situation is totally uncalled for and he did not break her bhram... it was she who gathered those damn shatttered pieces and recreated her stupid bhram... after he shattered it more than once..

This time it is her own doing.. and my sympathies are not with her anymore....



Hey Sareetaaaa... Long time no talk dammit!! Well, I agree with the "blaming Shiv part" but as for crying.. I have already stated earlier that a human being is bound to express emotions when something hits him hard.. So I don't blame her for crying at all.. But I do say in Shiv's defense that he did tell her to have no hopes from him.. But kya karain.. How many times as a kid we were being told to not do something or stay away from candies cuz they'd cause cavities.. But so many of us don't listen to what we are told and do what we desire.. I know, bad analogy.. But just pointing out that "insaan ko tu ek pet se bhi pyaar ho jaata hai saath rahtey huay.. Ye tu phir Shiv ji they.." 😆

Nehow, hope things are going good with ya.. See ya laterz 😳.

Sana~
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Posted: 18 years ago
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sareeta nice point of views ..

reading your point of views i thought yeah its true gauri has no right to blame shiv and cry..

but still looking back esp after the park scene when gauri confessed her love for shiv and the bedroom scene where he told gauri looking at the pic that he doesnot know wat the meaning of true love and so many girls has come in his life and so on..there many scenes where shiv has always let gauri believe that the pic is someone he met 16 yrs ago and is past..

now she is in his life as his wife though there is no love between them but still for her shiv is her happiness and wants him to stay with her as she has very little time to share her happiness and stay with shiv..when she came back, gauri said she wants to see him happy with someone else after she died..no insecurities as she knows shiv is with her and is hers for the little time remaining before she dies.. thats all she wants from shiv to be hers just for that short time.. yesterday that affair thing did hurt her..

her trust on shiv and the respect he has for women and how he fought for daksh affair and shiv doing the same did give her a blow..

love or no love shiv is hers and i think her crying is all natural to feel betrayed by someone she trusts above all and the good human being she saw in him and fell in love .

i agree shiv has given her so many chances to know that he doesnot love her but as i said gauri's love for shiv is too intense and that is making her weak even to see the truth..again i will repeat for her shiv is her happiness and nothing can shatter that trust she has for him..so for a moment with this confession she saw her illusion world she has created shatter and her crying and blaming him for her pain...

in the end both r to be blamed ..shiv for not telling her the truth and he got the chance when the guy exposed him but he remained quiet and instead go to the hotel and showering his love for ipshy..if he so wanted gauri out of his life be brave and reveal everything but here too ipshy is making him weak and his love has become his junoon now..yesterday is a great proof he ran immediately to the haveli..

gauri has become shiv ki deewani and this is making her weak and nothing can shatter her trust...i'm sure the hugging scene will have no effect on her but she will thanks ipshy for saving her shiv...
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Posted: 18 years ago
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hmmmmm , i agree wid i guess all the views given, and i believe gauri did brought this on herself but still as every 1 said she is after all human and her crying is justified 😭 ...shiv did mislead her as she believes that he luvs the portrait only and not an actual human,and she is wrong coz despite shivz recurrent warnings she is still wid him! 😊 sareeta sweety nice to hear form u, we miss ya!😊
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