Why hate one and not the other?

Hello everyone!
I know something like this is already been posted, i can't find the first one that someone recently posted, so sorry to that person for stealing his/her idea!😭
I just wanted to share my thoughts so bare with me...

First off I'm totally confused about something...i mean there are both Jai and Bani supporters, who supports them no matter what, which is actually a good thing but the confusing part is when that they sometimes bash the other one and then support them, it just doesn't make sense. no offense anyone! the point that i'm trying to make is that instead of support/bash only one and not the other, why not support/bash them both?
i mean to say is that both Jai and Bani are at fault somewhere for their own success or destruction. I'm a solid a JnB camper😊 so i cried and laugh for both JnB together!😊
ok take Bani for example, if she wasn't trying to be an Amma/Jasoos and Bani the Great and would've used her mind to work out the problems i'm sure she wouldn't be in this situation now! she is at fault here big time, if she would've told the truth from the beginning then it would've been better, because you all say what happened after the whole PR fiasco and the divorce, it was just a big joke in the end.😡 Then there's her hypocrisy of not hurting Jai, I mean she thought that exposing the truth to him about Jigz and Ranveer she would hurt, when the biggest pain she was causing him herself and she was well aware of that fact...😡 that women really needs to decide on everything before she does anything...
Then there's Jai, i don't know where to begin, ok i know. 😆 When he heard about the miscarriage, which he thought was an abortion, didn't he have enough faith in Bani just like he claimed it to be when she was acting all cold around him during the divorce proceedings. then there's the aftermath when he listened to Jigz, since when does he listen to her?!😡 Then there's his realization of Pia's intentions, y couldn't he see it in Dubai?😡 but his actions are logical in this part because emotions take over every sense of someone's mind...so that's forgiven. But he's definitely not forgiven for what he did after ONS because he could've set the record straight with Pia from day one and not given into any demands...He should've just told Bani the truth and dealt with the consequences which i'm sure would've been that bad as it is right now...
Now back to there support, well what can i say, only that they both are there biggest support to each other, if not in person then definitely in soul and heart they will be healing each other in the future...
In the past 4 days i've been mourning for both Jai and Bani and did cry when Bani was at the beach and cried when Massi did all that to Jai...what i'm trying to say is that instead of supporting/bashing one and not the other, why not do it to both of them, its much better that way because then everyone would agree...but hey that's what my opinion.😆
Now Massi i don't know what to say about, when there's need for her to talk, she doesn't say a word and when there's no need she goes all out...she is at fault here as well and more than Jai and Bani...😡 I don't have anything to describe her😡
Pia is just🤢. this is what i think of her😡. not saying a word on her because you all know what she is, in my opinion she's a t-rex!

well these were my opinions and views...
now i want to see yours and your more than welcome to share yours and correct me anywhere i'm wrong!😊
rooj

PS: sorry if i offended anyone. and sorry if i said more than i should have. sorry for my mistakes! sorry if i say too many sorry's...😆

Rooj,

Actually a huge majority of us are J-B campers. And irrespective of whether we lean more towards JW (the Munna camp) or Bani (Bani Brigade), we want only the two of them together.

We do recognise that both of them have made some funny karnamas some of us attribute more blame to Bani, others to Jai. That's about it.

Rgds,

Pri

Originally posted by: majumdar

Rooj,

Actually a huge majority of us are J-B campers. And irrespective of whether we lean more towards JW (the Munna camp) or Bani (Bani Brigade), we want only the two of them together.

We do recognise that both of them have made some funny karnamas some of us attribute more blame to Bani, others to Jai. That's about it.

Rgds,

Pri

Pri,
I know majority of us are JnB campers but it's the other campers i'm regarding to because i've seen or more over noticed that at some point they support their person but at the same time they sympathize with the other and then bash them...that just confuses me😕. i hope you understand what i'm saying...😊
rooj
PS: by the way i loved your ffs, wanted to thank you for entertaining me among the fiascos, i totally enjoyed them, i just got chance because i joined the forum yesterday. one of it is among my fav. list of ffs and saved on comp.😳
👏 wonderful!!!

I'm all for Jai and Bani together. Yeah, they have their faults and shortcomings but isn't that what makes them human? I guess JB campers bash because if we were in either person's position we would have done things differently, differently meaning we would have done whatever to make them still be together or atleast end up together at the end of it all. Love is always a love/hate relationship, its kinda like the relationship we have with Jai and Bani as fans.

(Hope this makes sense)

Originally posted by: Arwind

I'm all for Jai and Bani together. Yeah, they have their faults and shortcomings but isn't that what makes them human? I guess JB campers bash because if we were in either person's position we would have done things differently, differently meaning we would have done whatever to make them still be together or atleast end up together at the end of it all. Love is always a love/hate relationship, its kinda like the relationship we have with Jai and Bani as fans.

(Hope this makes sense)

well said!
especially the love/hate part...there is a saying that the more fights you have with someone, the more you love them, i hope you got my point...other than that yea it makes sense...

Rooj,

Let me explain, there are no 50-50 J-B campers except maybe MT, our chronicler and muse. The other J-B campers are either more into JW (the JW camp), others more into Bani (the Bani brigade). And although JW campers would often bash Bani, they would want no one but Bani with JW and the vice versa.

Rgds,

Pri

You're right aobut the love/hate relationship. Although I am slightly inclined towards the Bani Brigade I support Jai also. Mostly, I am a JB camper.

Originally posted by: majumdar

Rooj,

Let me explain, there are no 50-50 J-B campers except maybe MT, our chronicler and muse. The other J-B campers are either more into JW (the JW camp), others more into Bani (the Bani brigade). And although JW campers would often bash Bani, they would want no one but Bani with JW and the vice versa.

Rgds,

Pri

Yeah MT is the only one I have seen who is about 50-50. I am about 45-55 favouring Bani.

i prefer JB together but he and she to a certain extend have failed in their marriage, both have made major blunders be it Bani wanting divorce or Jai and ONS, i just think that maybe some time apart from each other might help them realise that they are truly meant to be together also pia needs a harsh lesson in reality she is becoming more and more pshyco man 😕 ,and i hope Ekta redeems munna and munni big time!!!

sharan XXX 😕 !!!

Hey Rooj-i!

Well done for already making an impact on the KS forums!

You do have valid points about Jai and Bani. Although I'll admit that I'm not a JnB camper (I'm an out-and-out Ranvir fan!), I still do like the characters.

I suppose the reason why there are times where people seem to bash one of them at times is probably for the reasons that you have stated yourself - the fact that even though they are a couple, Jai and Bani often have the habit of not being 100% truthful to each other.

It is usually the case that one of them is trying to be totally honest and dedicated to the other, whilst the other is hiding something. They are hardly ever both being 100% honest to each other. That's why one is likely to be bashed certain times.

Recently Jai was hiding the truth about ONS fiasco to try and avoid Bani being hurt. In the past, when Bani came up with that crazy divorce idea she was hiding her intention to do good. Although they are usually covering up the truth to protect the other, the fact is that Jai and Bani keep on hurting each other. The simple fact is that honesty is always the best policy. 😊

Whenever one of them tries to be dishonest (for any reason - good or bad), on the forum, we tend to show our disapproval of their actions by discussing it - which sometimes leads to members bashing them. They get bashed because people don't like seeing Jai and Bani do things which they know will cause problems.

But overall, both Jai and Bani have done crazy things! If you look at things overall, then maybe they both do deserve the same amount of bashing or support. But if you look at individual phases (divorce, ons), then one is definately more to blame than the other.

God bless.