Why hate one and not the other? - Page 2

I think because Jai and Bani's relationship started out bad it was bound to end bad. Their love was not once given an opportunity to mature. Gradually true love builds a strong foothold so that it can withstand most obstacles. Jai and Bani's relationship was always tentative in my eyes. They never really had alone time and whenever they did someone was always interrupting. They never had the opportunity to build on what they had, yes they do love each other and although they've expressed it a million times by touch, eye contact and so on, they never really said it to each other. I think that whenever they did make ground something happened that just destroyed their fragile build-up. One thing is for sure, whatever the outcome of the current situation both Jai and Bani will never be the same.

wow! I'm actually touched by this many response already...thanx!
but anyways i see where you guys are heading and most of you do make a pretty good point i guess i'm gonna have to accept the fact that no matter what not a lot of people are 50-50 supporting both jai and bani but instead supporting one more than the other...at least one thing we all agree with is that we wouldn't want anyone else to come between them except for them. 😆 i hope that makes sense 😆
anyways at the moment they are better off w/o each other because it will make them realize their loneliness and their heartache w/o each other...i hope that makes sense 😊
anyways anything else you want to point out just let me know...
rooj

Originally posted by: putturani

Yeah MT is the only one I have seen who is about 50-50. I am about 45-55 favouring Bani.

thanx guys...i think i've realized that after reading everything silently for the past months...i guess MT really is the only one i see as well...well i for one am 50-50 of both as well...

Originally posted by: shaz81

i prefer JB together but he and she to a certain extend have failed in their marriage, both have made major blunders be it Bani wanting divorce or Jai and ONS, i just think that maybe some time apart from each other might help them realise that they are truly meant to be together also pia needs a harsh lesson in reality she is becoming more and more pshyco man 😕 ,and i hope Ekta redeems munna and munni big time!!!

sharan XXX 😕 !!!

sharan XXX,
i 100% agree with you on that, it will help them big time, plus with the upcoming track, it will be worthwhile to watch KS big time i think...as for Pia i hope Ekta send her to an asylum because that's the only way she's gonna be redeemed if there is anything of that sort to happen to her...but i rather have her in an asylum😆
oh i'm waiting for our Munna and Munni to be redeemed as well...but before its too late...
rooj😊

Originally posted by: RaviMalhotra69

Hey Rooj-i!

Well done for already making an impact on the KS forums!

You do have valid points about Jai and Bani. Although I'll admit that I'm not a JnB camper (I'm an out-and-out Ranvir fan!), I still do like the characters.

I suppose the reason why there are times where people seem to bash one of them at times is probably for the reasons that you have stated yourself - the fact that even though they are a couple, Jai and Bani often have the habit of not being 100% truthful to each other.

It is usually the case that one of them is trying to be totally honest and dedicated to the other, whilst the other is hiding something. They are hardly ever both being 100% honest to each other. That's why one is likely to be bashed certain times.

Recently Jai was hiding the truth about ONS fiasco to try and avoid Bani being hurt. In the past, when Bani came up with that crazy divorce idea she was hiding her intention to do good. Although they are usually covering up the truth to protect the other, the fact is that Jai and Bani keep on hurting each other. The simple fact is that honesty is always the best policy. 😊

Whenever one of them tries to be dishonest (for any reason - good or bad), on the forum, we tend to show our disapproval of their actions by discussing it - which sometimes leads to members bashing them. They get bashed because people don't like seeing Jai and Bani do things which they know will cause problems.

But overall, both Jai and Bani have done crazy things! If you look at things overall, then maybe they both do deserve the same amount of bashing or support. But if you look at individual phases (divorce, ons), then one is definately more to blame than the other.

God bless.

Wow! you're a ranveer fan, well in that case i bet you're happy now how they are shaping up his character. u must be pretty exciting, i know i am.😆 i'll give him👍🏼🤗 for his new avatar...just love his character and i think its for the best since he doesn't have that chemistry with the new Jigz. lolz
anyways that's what i was trying to imply and by you putting it in such a nice way, you've taken the words out of my mouth👏👏👏 i'm glad some1 understands me😳
thanx
rooj

Originally posted by: Arwind

I think because Jai and Bani's relationship started out bad it was bound to end bad. Their love was not once given an opportunity to mature. Gradually true love builds a strong foothold so that it can withstand most obstacles. Jai and Bani's relationship was always tentative in my eyes. They never really had alone time and whenever they did someone was always interrupting. They never had the opportunity to build on what they had, yes they do love each other and although they've expressed it a million times by touch, eye contact and so on, they never really said it to each other. I think that whenever they did make ground something happened that just destroyed their fragile build-up. One thing is for sure, whatever the outcome of the current situation both Jai and Bani will never be the same.

that is soo true, even i've thought of that! but oh how i wish that wouldn't be the case, but hey its ekta mayi, maybe she will have mercy on us and show us the same JnB...i'm hoping against hope on that one...😊
but you've made me see a point there...
thanx
rooj

rooj,
i think we have interacted in some other post before and i would like to say that you write really well.
u being a silent reader indeed was our loss. 😳 there is something i wanted to clear.you were confused about me mentioning Tony's name in Bani supporters list.

let me clarify. since KS is going through a worst phase that any serial dreads.
so we try to find some dark humor in it. so Tony butler is nothing but butt of joke.
we include him in any list that we come up with.

it can be Pia's love interest, Jigs exlovers or JW bashers and what not.... 😆 😆
so do not take Tony butler and party seriously. 😳 .

hope this clarify.
will reply to ur post after some time hope u dont mind.

enjoy discussing.....u are warmly welcome. 🤗 🤗 🤗

Originally posted by: himali_kokate

rooj,
i think we have interacted in some other post before and i would like to say that you write really well.
u being a silent reader indeed was our loss. 😳 there is something i wanted to clear.you were confused about me mentioning Tony's name in Bani supporters list.

let me clarify. since KS is going through a worst phase that any serial dreads.
so we try to find some dark humor in it. so Tony butler is nothing but butt of joke.
we include him in any list that we come up with.

it can be Pia's love interest, Jigs exlovers or JW bashers and what not.... 😆 😆
so do not take Tony butler and party seriously. 😳 .

hope this clarify.
will reply to ur post after some time hope u dont mind.

enjoy discussing.....u are warmly welcome. 🤗 🤗 🤗

firstly thank you soo much for the welcome!
i must say it really was my loss in joining late, but see i never knew because none of my friends here watch Kasam Se so didn't know what it would be like😭
but i guess now i feel much better in joining it...😊
thank you for telling me that i write well! but i really don't think that because i'm the worst writer in my family...lolz
well your explanations cleared pretty much everything so thank you!
now that i know about this i'll surely use it in other of my posts. lolz😆😆😆
now that you're online i wanted to thank you for entertaining us with your ffs, i must tell you i enjoyed them, i don't know if i thanked you already i lost count because i had so many people to thank on that note. i really enjoy your ffs and some of them are on my fav. list of ffs. and one is currently saved on my comp...just letting you. again wonderful.👏
thanx again
rooj

hey rooj,(would like to know ur real name if u dont mind)
no need to thank me.
i feel honored when people appreciate my FFs.
(can i expect ur comments from this time on on Seher?? 😉 )
if u are the worst writer in ur family then i must ask u if any family member of urs has won Pulitzer prize 😉 😳
keep discussing
it will be pleasure having u as a frend.

PS:dont turn into Pia supporter please

Originally posted by: himali_kokate

hey rooj,(would like to know ur real name if u dont mind)
no need to thank me.
i feel honored when people appreciate my FFs.
(can i expect ur comments from this time on on Seher?? 😉 )
if u are the worst writer in ur family then i must ask u if any family member of urs has won Pulitzer prize 😉 😳
keep discussing
it will be pleasure having u as a frend.

PS:dont turn into Pia supporter please

Aww...thanx!😳
real name is urooj, not much of a difference, but u can call me anthing you want, like isha she's already given me a nickname: rooshi. 😆
oh you'll definitely will be expecting my comments on that, it's really a wonderful love story, i'm just waiting till they both find out that they met before and are madly in love with each other as masked people. 😆 hope that makes sense. sorry i'm rambling off here.😆
anyways i love that ff, that's the one i have it saved up on my comp.😳
oh don't worry i hate Pia!😡 can't stand her, i wish Jai would've pushed her off!😆
Thank you soo much for considering me a friend... I'll let you know if my family members were the Pulitzer winners😆 but unfortunately they are not😆
anyways we're getting off topic here, u can pm me for anything you want to know.
rooj