Close your hearts to pity

There has been a lot of sympathy for JW for what he is going through, how he's being harshly treated and disowned by one and all. But I am not bothered or disturbed by it. As far as I am concerned, I don't want JW to get any pity, any sympathy from anyone. I want JW to be left homeless, penniless, all alone without anyone to call his own (taras jayega kissi to apna kehne ke liye) without a piece of land to call his own (do gaz jameen bhi naseeb nahin hogi). I want each and every one in WM/WC- from Maasi, Dadi, Adi, Bani, Tarun, Nattu, Pooch, Sarlaben, Rano, Sahil, Jigs, Ranveer, Raashi, Anu, Rohit, Karuna, Laxmi, Tony butler, Buddha Chauhan to abuse and insult him, rain down badduas on him, do to him what Kash did to Sujal- make him rot in hell (to use a popular Forum expression).

Not because I hate him but becuase I want not sympathy or pity for him but complete and total Redemption. So that five years down the line when he is back from his purgatory, no one can say that he has not paid an adequate price for all his sins, real and imagined. The desire for vengeance against him has to be sated.

But if (as I suspect) he is innocent it is many other who may require redemption but that would not be my headache. The right to forgive has to be JW's, not for others.

Rgds,

Priyanka

I second that. He is strong enough to take whatever is thrown at him and does not need anyone's pity. I just hope he is given a chance to bring Bani out of the stupor because I feel he is the only one who can and she deserves the right to bash/abuse him and that might be the trigger she needs to get out of her current state.

He does not need pity or support.

No! Jai and Bani totally do not deserve wat both of them are going through right now! Although most of you might think that Jai totally deserves what he is getting for wat he did to Bani, i feel that Jai is really helpless too! I mean he has always been a man of virtues! Almost everyone look up to him..Imagine wat he's going through right now.. The two ppl that he love most in his life is far away from him (Bani, Massi) He should have at least one person supporting him in this time of need!

Well said, Pri...very well said 👏
I may be a Bani supporter but am also a staunch J-B camper and my heart goes out to them both. They have both made mistakes and are paying a very heavy price for it. I truly hope that Jai gets to meet Bani soon coz he's the only one that can get her out of this zombie-like state and bring her back to life 😭 😭 They need to talk to each other; far too many people have been making decisions for them.
I also hope that post leap they both rebuild their loves independently and away from their gfn relatives and when they do come together (I'm an eternal romantic 😳 ) it will be as equals in love and pain.
cheers
Simi

Naz,

(Although most of you might think that Jai totally deserves what he is getting for wat he did to Bani, i feel that Jai is really helpless too! I mean he has always been a man of virtues!)

You've got me completely wrong. I am one of his biggest supporters. But I want complete redemeption not forgiveness or support for him. And in any case, I don't he will get that support from any of the ungrateful hypocrites in WM. His support lies here on IF.

Rgds,

Pri

I just don't understand why things are so blown out of proportion. JW is in the same situation as President Clinton was in. Whatever sin he committed was against his wife, which was nobody else's business, however the whole country - House of Reps and Senate decided to punish him by impeachment. Here too the sins are committed supposedly against Bani, then why the whole clan is getting all nasty with him? If I were his friend or sister (good one and not Jigs of course) or mother, I would try to be by his side, get the whole story on how things led to the ONS and then convince Bani to forgive him. This is one messed up family, the members have no loyalty towards each other. I am really getting pissed at the family, and the Bani supporters who feel that he needs to pay a price. It is analogous to watching a man hang for a crime - this is so uncivilised!!!

Hey priyanka,

haha i get what you mean.. I want him to be fully redeemed too! but its just that i really feel bad for that at this time of need he don't even have one person/friend to support him! He has always been nice to almost everyone! (except for the time when he just got married to bani but his anger was justified at that time!)

I just feel that support from at least one person would be good as i hate to see jai like this.. all alone and helpless.. 😭

And im sure lots of us here in IF support him too :)

Cheers
Naz

Rakni,

Very well put.

(Here too the sins are committed supposedly against Bani, then why the whole clan is getting all nasty with him?)

Exactly. But the rest of the clan is doodh ki dhooli so they have a right to sit in judgement over others.

(If I were his friend or sister or mother, I would try to be by his side, get the whole story on how things led to the ONS and then convince Bani to forgive him. )

In real life, that's how things happen, if things go wrong, adultery or some other kartoot, the usual practise on both set of parents (and friends) is to patch up things and reconcile the couple. But here it is just the opposite. But I am afraid by suggetsing "convince Bani to forgive him" you have just stirred a hornet's nest. Expect Bani supporters to come after you with a belan.

But you see, if the rest of the family has set a high standards for JW, he has set even higher standards for himself. He will never truly be at peace with himself unless he is properly punished for his karnama. That's why my reco.

Rgds,

Pri

I cant help it!!! 2day I feel like cring when I saw Jai!!! He was so sad!!! I got so upset!!! Meanin he just wants to see his wife, please let him!!! Sorry about that, but it's just me!!! Feel bad 4 any1!!! Poor guy in my sayin!!!