Astitva, Losing its uniqueness?

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Posted: 20 years ago
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The recent posts and reactions to the show seems to point that Astitva is losing its uniqueness!!

The reason so many people loved this serial was that though fictitious, viewers could still relate to the characters of the show. It had a very logical storyline unlike most of the hindi shows and movies. Though most of the things happening in the show do not happen in real life, they were not extremely far fetched.

In reality, most of us would fall in the gray category. Very few people in this world are pure white or pure black. (white being perfect human and black being evil). But recently, the main characters are either too good to be true or too bad to be true!!

Also, there are few things that are so illogical that viewers are obviously getting frustrated. As someone had suggested Poonam should be the main person defending Simran and explaining things to Astha but she is nowhere to be seen!!!

One thing is certain that you cannot protect your loved one from the adversities of life by lying or decieving. One becomes stronger by facing problems. you can only teach your child to face problems bravely, instill right values so that they can use their judgement to make better choices in life and then trust them.

In India we still like to paint a rosy picture of a bad scenario, assuming that the other person will not be able to face it very well. I have heard a number of incidents when a terminally sick person is not confided of the situation. Do you think it is fair that just because the relatives underestimate the person's ability to face the fact, he/she is robbed of the opportunity to plan the final days of his/her life? Sometimes it is the other way as shown in movies like "Waqt", "Kuch kuch hota hai" etc. I can understand young kids but even adults are not told the truth!!!

I know this is a little off topic but it just wanted to share it.
Edited by trupti286 - 20 years ago

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Posted: 20 years ago
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Nice topic ! 😊
I agree with you...there are some realities and values of life which you can't teach a person at the very last moment. Parents should raise their kids by showing,explaining and discussing the facts and realities of life even if its a bitter one.we should'nt underestimate a normal person's ability of taking different circumstances.A person's mind and nature can be groomed nicely and maturely by the parents. Personally I am never in the favour of hiding truths inside the family just to save someone from hurt feelings because I know when you come to know the truth later,it will hurt you more.
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Posted: 20 years ago
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trupti286
great posting....certainly not off-topic....we actually welcome such discussions...good stuff 👏
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Posted: 20 years ago
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Hey Trupti,
Excellent post!Thanks for sharing your thoughts.Didn't seem off-topic,infact it's been the topic for a while now.

Scorpio...well said! I agree with you.

Cheers
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Posted: 20 years ago
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I agree with u, scorp!! 😊
Family shud NEVER have any secrets untold!!

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Posted: 20 years ago
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Couldn't agree with you more trupti286 and scorpio_pk. When family members underestimate the other's ability to deal with a truth, it results it deeper pain not just for the person but for everyone as the persons reaction will be felt by all. He/she will lose trust in the others and feel like an outsider, esp if everyone else knows even outside the family and this is what happened with Aastha.

Personally, I do not support her current behaviour I believe she has gone way too far, yet, if she was informed earler in a calm manner and told the whole story as Sis was told, they would not be experiencing all this. Even after her initial reaction they were still hiding the facts from her which to me didn't make sense at all.
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Posted: 20 years ago
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Is that what Sinha is trying to teach us "Don't underestimate your kids...confide in them,trust them,give them a chance to show they are responsible, don't make sacrifices to the extent that the kids feel it is the parent's duty to do so,etc etc". 😕 ❓

Well,Sinhaji,the message is loud and clear and firmly imprinted on our minds,so please move on and show us what happens if parents take your advice.

Cheers 😊
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