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Posted: 19 years ago
#91

Originally posted by: S a r a h

Okay in the other thread opened by you exclusively to bash Rakhi - I was talking about "what kind of a citizen you are to like only classy people..."
then what you've interpreted was "Oh you mean to say that I am not a good citizen, thank you 😃 "
you always take comments personally... just bcoz I used YOU there... I've already said while discussing any matter we use this pronoun as a convention which can be understood as a general way of giving "lecture"....

I am feeling very bad that I offend people's emotions with my comments - but believe me no one has a problem with my comments - nor anyone has taken so personally
in a way I thank you that you've made me realised that I hurt people - now I have a scope to correct myself but definitely not in your case again 😊

I wasnt hurt...I've crossed that stage when I used to get hurt at what people at IF say😊

A felicitous choice of words wouldnt warrant any margin of misconception..You quoted me and addressed as "YOU", ergo I'm bound to gather that it was said for me😕...It wasnt for me??Goody gumdrops😃

Please do participate with me in discussions😭 and Now that you've cleared it up,I wouldnt construe myself to be the second person when addressed as "YOU"

TRUCE!!🤗

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Posted: 19 years ago
#92

Originally posted by: Buffie

I wasnt hurt...I've crossed that stage when I used to get hurt at what people at IF say😊

A felicitous choice of words wouldnt warrant any margin of misconception..You quoted me and addressed as "YOU", ergo I'm bound to gather that it was said for me😕...It wasnt for me??Goody gumdrops😃

Please do participate with me in discussions😭 and Now that you've cleared it up,I wouldnt construe myself to be the second person when addressed as "YOU"

TRUCE!!🤗

Truce......... oh yeah, sure Anusha🤗

hey we know it wasnt that big fight or war 😉 but yeah, a misunderstanding😳😳...

actually the problem was from my side - I never realised that the person to whom I am quoting take comments personally - definitely I will not make this mistake again - this is a lesson I've learnt today 😆

and it feels very happy that you werent actually hurt 😃

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Posted: 19 years ago
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Posted: 19 years ago
#94
Alright,I'm replying to your rebuttals

Originally posted by: S a r a h





OMG... when Rupali does foot massages & Carol opens her parlour on 24x7 before Ravi's anniversary, that was a good deed... Rupali knew Ravi & Rahul for years... then I think she knew them when she was massaging as well... I guess..umm.. yea... then why didnt she think there that these are those people only not their clones.... here since Rupali is from a reputed family & speaks some sense & knows "English".. she & Carol can be forgiven... since Rakhi is from a very low class background, doesnt know how to speak & a bar girl, if she does something to make the inmates happy, its crock of shit...



Rakhi's choice of words per se isnt the reason she garners so much censure....Its her innate nature which makes me dislike her....

Yes,Rupali and Carol massaged legs,but who is alibiiing that act..I didnt!!

Rupali is well-mannered and palliates her crimes by apologizing..She apologized to Ravi and Rakhi...One doesnt need to be one anomg the glitterati to have the magnanimity to apologize!!

Carol and Rupali arent condoned only because they belong to the upper crust of the society and the intelligentsia...And no one despises Rakhi because she belongs to the hoi polloi.....As many have said,Item girls like malaika and yana Gupta are respected,because they carry themselves with dignity and poise....And trust me,dignity's got nothing to do with bank balance or upbringing,its something purely innate

Originally posted by: S a r a h

her intention was just to make them happy... she isnt a manipulative or a tactical planner who knew before hand that they'll be upset... her aim was to gift them all so that they all feel themselves near to their families... she didnt tell Amit that Neeru has escaped from Mumbai or didnt tell Ravi that his wife & children hate you now(like how Aryan contributed here), nor he went and said Carol that your mom is feeling sick seeing you suffering all these...



Reiterating,they wouldnt feel any happy when they know those gifts arent from thier homes....The balloon just went up when Rakhi gave those gifts...WHy the blazes did she have to decieve people,especially when they are so overtaxed??

How did she think they would feel nearer to their families..Everyone know what kind of gifts their parents would send them...So why should CArol trust Rakhi when she would be clearly knowing that her parents wouldnt send her that toy....What was worse was Rakhi's swearing on Jejus..Why did she have to go to those extents to please others??

Originally posted by: Sa r a h

since all are hurt, you are saying this.... I bet if everyone would've felt happier then you all must be sitting mum - not even saying a word of courtesy to Rakhi - why bcoz she is from a slum locality - cant speak properly - atleast we all can - we need to think wider - Rupali is a loyal friend of Carol - then Carol is also a good friend of Rupali then when Rupali got plenty of nasty awards - who consoled her - n who supported her - this is loyalty...



Carol did applaud Rupali's dignity....CArol being the reticent type didnt go up and vociferously express her displeasure a la Amit..That doesnt make her any less a friend..Because the same Amit later bitches about Rupali...CArol is loyal,that she didnt defend rupali at the awards isnt a yardstick which measures her loyalty!

Originally posted by: S a r a h

Till date I've heard that doing something to make someone in whichever way possible is a good thing.... but here matter is entirely different.... I fail to understand this Why was Rakhi blamed here... she hasnt done anything wrong.... if you are going and giving your inmates something like gifts & cards is not at all called a false act.... what she felt was If I give they may or may not accept them - so if I say that their family members have sent they may accept them...



It doesnt make them any happy...I for one wouldnt want to be deceived into believing that someone has sent me,by no stretch of the imagination...and on top of that,Rakhi's feigning a picture of innocence doesnt help either!!



Originally posted by: S a r a h

no matter how much bad your family background is, no one has a right to say that you are from a low class family...



Rupali was wrong,undoubtedly!!....But she apologized,didnt she??That takes the sting out of it...So thus,alll the bad blood is water under the bridge(that's what both have promised each other)..Whereas Rakhi is yet to apologize for misleading people which goes against the grain ..

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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: Buffie

Alright,I'm replying to your rebuttals

Rupali was wrong,undoubtedly!!....But she apologized,didnt she??That takes the sting out of it...So thus,alll the bad blood is water under the bridge(that's what both have promised each other)..Whereas Rakhi is yet to apologize for misleading people which goes against the grain ..



Overall, I thought you wrote very well, but this point is where I beg to differ. Apologizing soon after saying hurtful words does nothing for me. It cannot take the sting away. What comes out, is out. One apology will not erase it. I think that this is Rupali's game - lash out and then cry and apologize, which should make it okay. I think that its unfair that the other person has to listen to your poison of words and then forgive you. Rakhi is not Rudali's friend and doesn't have to forgive her. Also, I think that Rakhi talks to the camera because she has nobody else to talk to. Everybody was inside hugging and making up, and Rakhi alone was sitting outside talking to the camera. And I think she makes fun of others in the confession room because she thinks that that is what made viewers like her. She is honest about wanting to stay in there. Rudali also wants to stay in, but she blames Rakhi for wanting it and claims that she doesn't want it.

Also, it seems like Rudali really trusts Amit. And despite believing his tales about Ravi, she let the guy give her a long hug. That was quite unsettling. I think that the only reason Rudali and Amit patched up was that Baba had told Rahul and Ravi everything about what was going on. Else they would have continued to bitch.

Rudali's best friend Carol is also fed up of her, and it shows. Imagine, when her own best friend tells her, 'You have a brain and you do use it,' and expresses exasperation, one can just imagine what kind of a person Rudali really must be!
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Posted: 19 years ago
#96

Originally posted by: madhy

i feel rakhi has no guts to tell anything infront of any one .. the only thing she knows is acting infront of camera n making fun of others .. 🤢 wen ever she goes to confession room she keeps talking bad abt alomst evry one in da house.. but she pretends to be mis goody infornt of rupali nd carol & shows how much she luves them..dat was da reason rupali hasnt nominated her so far except once.. but actually she has never ever luved dem always keeps nominating both carol nd Rupali... i donnt y she is soo jeal of carol & Rupali.. may be guys r not giving much importance on her for her fake acting 😆

oh ya she is the only one in that house who has that guts but from the time she has come back she is not using it for obvious reasons that this is the thing they wnt her to do so that her image will be ruined and people will evict her.this same thing was done to her earlier by amit he again did it through rudali.

its rupali and amit who dnt have the guts to talk abt ravi and rahul in front of thm they keep discussing abt thm behind their back and hug thm in front hypocrats and big time parasites

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Posted: 19 years ago
#97
i dont think rupali is that bad after all
the only problem she has is that she cries alot
but apart from that she has enuf and more luv for all
even after being nominated every time since the 2nd week, she still is same to everyonelike she was
i dont think anyone wud be able to do so
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Originally posted by: Meena1

OH MY GOD.. NOVELS... 😆

*ahem* like you can talk 😆

aren't u the one who was quoting big big chunks yday? 😉😆

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Posted: 19 years ago
#99

Originally posted by: luvneet


*ahem* like you can talk 😆


aren't u the one who was quoting big big chunks yday? 😉😆




Are you calling me a hypocrite.. Hehehe.. 😆 😆 😆 I know.. it's soo
funny.. Buffie always has these neverending threads which is very good but
who reads em..?? LOL.. i do sometimes..

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