husband expectations ok but wife's expectations? - Page 3

Originally posted by: dramacrazy12

Everything in a marriage is not idealistic...nor can every action be measured in absolutes. There are ample grey areas in marriage and there are times when compromises in belief system are necessary for the sake of practicality. In the end it is all about faith and priorities.

I agree that RK lied to her but did she even give a single thought why her husband had to resort to lying or what is at stake here from his perspective.

How would she feel if she was in RK''s shoes? She keeps asking RK to be calm but how calm was she when RK had insulted her mother? (the photo incident)...Did she ask for explanations and say that this is all a big misunderstanding...she resorted to blackmailing him...her only thought was to get an apology from RK whatever it takes...whatever happened to her ideals then and the situation then was not as dire as it is now nor was the insult as big as what Sultan is implying.

I am not pointing a finger at Madhu...all I am saying is it is easier to judge. Also Madhu might not realize but she is prejudiced towards Sultan. Do you think she would have reacted the same way if Bhujang had done the same thing? I can bet you... she would be waving a gun at the guy and killing him with her nonstop bhashans on decorum.

though i agree with the fact that no marriage is idealistic and one has to look from each other's perspective, i find myself applying the same perspective aspect in your argument.
hadn't they come a long way from the time when Madhu used the photo fro blackmailing? And now there is love and better understanding of each other. but in a way i think it is Madhu's fault coz, RK knows Madhu wud not have approved of him using the oppurtunity provided by Madhu in her desire to bring a peaceful ending to the situation to trap Sultan. but Madhu still does not understand the workings of RK's mind which calls for anihilation of any enemy, by hook or crook. she is a fool to believe that RK can think calmly when challenged.
Madhu's 'Prejudice' towards SUltan is cemented on the fact that she has seen him to be a reasonable person and a friend. the same applies for the argument that had it been BUjang who had done this.
But i am sure we will see bujang too, drawn into the frey by RK and thus may be leading to Rishbala seperation coz BUjang like RK is another perso who will not let go of an oppurtunity to get even... He has a grudge towards MAdhu too who saved SUltan and pointed the gun at him.

understanding has to be from both side and I'm glad that Madhu told RK what she didn't like and RK told what he had expected. 🤔

Originally posted by: Amy-

what a question? in this world , MODERN world, wifs are not allowd to have expectations other than accept your husband's decision and also your in laws.
however advanced we clain the world is, when it comes to women it is regressed😡.
TO those who support RK saying that he was right and was doing it for the family, his avoidance of talking the issue proves that he knew she wudn't accept his making her a pawn in using the oppurtunity.

agreed . raised right point. MB is right in her stand. rk does not trust anyone

none can be blamed here..they are acting according to their nature..

well shudnt MB understand RK as a Human being and a GOOD CITIZEN of the country got a gangy arrested?