husband expectations ok but wife's expectations? - Page 2

Originally posted by: _charu_

exactly ! and honestly, if husband wives are completely honest to each other, the soap factory will shut down, bec. then there will be no misunderstandings 😆 how will the heroines carry on with their social misadventures going against their own family?

RK was wrong in using Madhu, he cud have gone ahead with whatever he planned, without Madhu's interference/help/suggestion.

Madhu is wrong in supporting Sultan and not reprimanding him for doing what he did..if the matter can be solved peacefully, as Madhu claimed, why didn't Sultan listen to her and get out from RK mansion ? certainly, someone needs to tell Sultan that this is not the right way to get whatever he wants...earlier , Meera got violent hearing MK's name and he brought her to MK land? 🤢

Originally posted by: Mikolingam

Sometimes a wife should just keep her mouth shut and support the husband and trust and believe in him. Not all problems can be solved using the straight way , sometimes it should be settled the hard way , that is what RK is doing with a person like Sultan a gangster who just barge into their life's . So Madhu just be with RK and give him the courage and don't fight him at this moment when he needs you the most. You still have. Soft spot for Sultan is it?

Act like a wife and not a judge pls.

Originally posted by: cardio21

I think what RK said was not wrong. He implied that if he used her that was for a reason and she should try to understand it. I would only take it as a sexist statement if Madhu was also street smart n shrewd like RK. But here clearly, RK is the sharp one.

He never implied that she is supposed to listen to him because she is the wife. And u have to admit, that if Madhu's family runs into a problem, RK will always side with Madhu n actually solve it for her.

Madhu was not wrong in being offended by RK lying to her, she was hurt! But had she known, she wouldn't let RK go ahead with the plan. And I know about gangster's golden heart, Madhu knows about the golden heart, but RK doesn't.

So he will fail as a husband and as a man, if he trusts the golden heart and doesn't do anything concrete.

Originally posted by: dramacrazy12

Everything in a marriage is not idealistic...nor can every action be measured in absolutes. There are ample grey areas in marriage and there are times when compromises in belief system are necessary for the sake of practicality. In the end it is all about faith and priorities.

I agree that RK lied to her but did she even give a single thought why her husband had to resort to lying or what is at stake here from his perspective.

How would she feel if she was in RK''s shoes? She keeps asking RK to be calm but how calm was she when RK had insulted her mother? (the photo incident)...Did she ask for explanations and say that this is all a big misunderstanding...she resorted to blackmailing him...her only thought was to get an apology from RK whatever it takes...whatever happened to her ideals then and the situation then was not as dire as it is now nor was the insult as big as what Sultan is implying.

I am not pointing a finger at Madhu...all I am saying is it is easier to judge. Also Madhu might not realize but she is prejudiced towards Sultan. Do you think she would have reacted the same way if Bhujang had done the same thing? I can bet you... she would be waving a gun at the guy and killing him with her nonstop bhashans on decorum.

Originally posted by: .MeriAashiqui..

sharp one and intellegent by using ur wife in the next day of morning what about those marriage vows which they took 🥱