Child's marriage for QH Mothers

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Posted: 12 years ago
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We have three different mothers in our show. Marriage of their child is very important for all three mothers.

1) Dilshad (Ideal mother):

I don't think anyone will disagree with me if I call her "ideal mother". She is strong woman with self-respect. She is loving, caring, forgiving, selfless woman. People humiliated her saying her son will never get married. She challenged everyone that her son will get married in 10 days, but at the same time she did not go blind with her challenge. Asad's happiness is the most important for her. She can read her son's eyes. She understood Asad loves Zoya. She knows his fear of love and marriage. She gives right advice to Asad. She chose a girl whom his son loves. She chose Zoya as her DIL.

Her Daughter-in-law (Zoya) is her pride whom she can flaunt in the society, giving tight slap on their faces who uttered bad word against her child.


2) Shirin (scared mother):

She is very insecure and scared mother. At deep down she knows she is a home wrecker and second woman in Rashid's life. She has led her entire life with her insecurities. Her son, Ayaan is getting married and she is very happy. When she cursed Dilshad and Dilshad replied back, somewhere in her heart she might have felt Dilshad is not at fault. After cursing Asad, she has fear that what if it happens with Ayaan so she wants Ayaan to get married soon. As a mother, she wants his happiness, but in doing this she had gone blind unlike Dilshad. She is not able to read her son's eyes, not able to see his helplessness. Her fear and insecurities have overtaken her completely.

Her Daughter-in-law (Humeira) is her courage. Her DIL will give her courage to face Dilshad, courage to deal with her own insecurities and fear.

3) Razia (shrewd mother):

She is an evil woman. She had done many crimes in her life. Unlike Shirin, she understands her daughter loves Ayaan. And to get her married to Ayaan she can do anything. Till now she has played many bad tricks to make this marriage happen. She did not care about honor of her daughter. Finally she blackmailed Ayaan to get married to Humeira. She thinks her daughter will be happy because she loves Ayaan , but she is unaware of the fact that forced marriage gives nothing but pain.

Her Son-in-law (Ayaan) is nothing but her pawn.

All three mothers want their child's happiness but their approaches to get that are so different. And these approaches are related to their basic personality, how they are as human being. Every mother either good human or bad human loves his child very much but their ways to handle the child are different!!

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KulfiBai thumbnail
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Posted: 12 years ago
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This is a awesome 😊 It's posts like these ones that remind me what a wonderful narrative QH has!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Beautifully written!! It's a mirror to all the parents out there that a mother can either make or break a child's life. Understanding children is more important as well as an open communication, trust and respect is a must between parents and children.

If you watch all Dilshad/Asad scenes that how much this mother knows her son. She openly confronts him, chide him, talks to him, respect him and trust him. Where as Shereen/Ayaan has love in their relationship but no communication, trust of respect from Shereen's part.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: KulfiBai

This is a awesome 😊 It's posts like these ones that remind me what a wonderful narrative QH has!



Thank you!!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: raji_b

Beautifully written!! It's a mirror to all the parents out there that a mother can either make or break a child's life. Understanding children is more important as well as an open communication, trust and respect is a must between parents and children.

If you watch all Dilshad/Asad scenes that how much this mother knows her son. She openly confronts him, chide him, talks to him, respect him and trust him. Where as Shereen/Ayaan has love in their relationship but no communication, trust of respect from Shereen's part.



Thanks!!..Exactly, all parents love their child but understanding is very important..
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Awesome post dear.. Loved it so much...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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very good post..agree with u..👍🏼
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Thank you!😊
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: cool_sri

very good post..agree with u..👍🏼


Thanks!!

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