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aparnauma

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Posted: 12 years ago

There are a lot of people who feel that Anandi should not keep quiet in this present scenario.

I seem to be in a minority here.

Anandi should keep quiet because this entire situation does not involve her.She is only a pssive observer.Her opinions in this matter will not be of importance to the people concerned.

Shiv could not convince his sister to come back with them and that's the reason he asked his wife to stay back with his sister - to keep an eye on her and minimise the damage that her sister is likely to cause.That is pacify Singhs and all the other people who are at the receiving end of Sanchi's behaviour.

When Sanchi wanted to stay back till Jagya got better the thought that Sanchi might be interested in him has not occured to both the husband and wife.Only later Anandi suspected the real reason behind Sanchi's wish to stay back.This conclusion she has come to after observing Sanchi's behaviour with Jagya and Ganga.

No one else in BH has come to the same conclusion looking at Sanchi because they don't really know Sanchi as well as Anandi.

From the phone conversation between Anandi and Shiv it is obvious that to Shiv the thought that hsi sister might be interested in Jagya has not occured to him at all.He was only relieved to know that his sister has not caused major damage with her behaviour.

I don't think it would be right on Anandi's part at this point to share her fears with him.That would put thoughts in his mind and may cloud his judgement when he sees Sanchi.

And it would not be right on Anandi's part to tell him about her fears and expect him to act on those fears.

It is better if Shiv sees the whole thing for himself and then they sit down and discuss about it because both have all the facts that are needed to discuss and come to conclusion.

I don't think there is any point in telling Ira also.It will make the situation only worse.

As for telling CM also is not a good idea at this point because even she has not seen what she has seen.

It is better for Anandi to keep quite for the time being.If she spoke up now when none has seen what she has seen it will be like she is expecting them to take her word on act on it.

I think everybody should see for themselves with unbiased view and come to their own conclusion in this scenario.

As for scolding Sanchi or telling her off for being rude to Ganga - I hope she tells her off for that.

How Sanchi reacts to that reprimand is not of any consequence because Sanchi anyways known for not seeing sense.But scolding Sanchi for her rude behaviour is her duty.

I do hope Anandi keeps quiet and let everybody come to their own conclusion instead of airing her opinion and expecting them to act on it.

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JuhiR

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Posted: 12 years ago

I do not watch this Psycho Saanchi track regularly, as I cannot tolerate Saanchi on the screen. It is pure torture for me to watch her nonsense. However, from the few episodes that I have seen, I feel that Anandi will be blamed by Ira either way - whether she stays quiet or not.

I agree with you that it is no point revealing her suspicions to Shekhars or Singhs as they will blame her for exaggerating matters and badmouthing Saanchi without proof;

but I disagree with you that she should keep her suspicions away from Shiv. In my opinion, if she hides this from Shiv, she will commit a grave mistake. Where husband and wife have a good understanding, it is expected that they share their thoughts and apprehensions with each other. If Shiv is not appraised of the situation, she will be blamed by Ira and humiliated in the future, as Saanchi will surely leave no stone unturned to make false stories and demean Anandi in front of her mother and family. Having Shiv's support is really crucial in this matter, not only because he is her husband and Saanchi's brother, but also a mature, level-headed and well-grounded person.

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aparnauma

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: JuhiRockz
I do not watch this Psycho Saanchi track regularly, as I cannot tolerate Saanchi on the screen. It is pure torture for me to watch her nonsense. However, from the few episodes that I have seen, I feel that Anandi will be blamed by Ira either way - whether she stays quiet or not.

I agree with you that it is no point revealing her suspicions to Shekhars or Singhs as they will blame her for exaggerating matters and badmouthing Saanchi without proof;

but I disagree with you that she should keep her suspicions away from Shiv. In my opinion, if she hides this from Shiv, she will commit a grave mistake. Where husband and wife have a good understanding, it is expected that they share their thoughts and apprehensions with each other. If Shiv is not appraised of the situation, she will be blamed by Ira and humiliated in the future, as Saanchi will surely leave no stone unturned to make false stories and demean Anandi in front of her mother and family. Having Shiv's support is really crucial in this matter, not only because he is her husband and Saanchi's brother, but also a mature, level-headed and well-grounded person.

I am not saying she should hide her suspicions from Shiv.My point is that Shiv also should get to see this entire scenario before she reveals her fears about Sanchi.Ideal thing showuld be that She should aske Shiv to pick them up and then let Shiv see how Sanchi is behaving and then shere her fears with him.

There is no point discussing this with anybody other than Shiv.That too will be useless if he doesn't get actually to see what is happening with his own eyes.

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dixie123

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Posted: 12 years ago

Appy: I disagree but although I do think Anandi will not say anything and will keep quiet. That is what is going to happen but I don't want it to happen.

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Why would Shiv's judgement get clouded ? If he does not think his sister is not doing any wrong he can very well tell Anandi that she was wrong about Sanchi. Atleast he could observe Sanchi's behavior and decide on his own. But, being in Udaipur how is he going to understand the situation if somebody does not give him a clue ?

Anandi is a DIL to the Shekhars. Sanchi however bad she is to Anandi is a family member. After realizing that both Ganga and Sanchi might be in love with Jagya, Anandi was worried that this could lead to problems between the two households. When she thinks there could be a problem why not share it with someone instead of keeping quiet. Who better than her husband to share it with ? If a husband and wife can't or don't share each others fears/worries then what is the point in being life partners ?

From the phone convo, it was not obvious to Shiv because Anandi lied to him saying all is well when she very well knows that all is not well.

There is no point in sharing her concerns with anybody other than Shiv. She needs to tell Shiv of her doubts.

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aparnauma

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Posted: 12 years ago

Nivi - Like I said in my previous post in response to Juhi's .

There is no point discussing this with anybody other than Shiv.

When Shiv and Anandi discuss this thing about Sanchi they both should have all the facts in hand.Let him get his own perspective before they discuss.

Let him see for himself and come to the conclusion then agree or disagree with his wife.

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libsrocks

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: aparnauma
Nivi - Like I said in my previous post in response to Juhi's .
There is no point discussing this with anybody other than Shiv.

When Shiv and Anandi discuss this thing about Sanchi they both should have all the facts in hand.Let him get his own perspective before they discuss.
Let him see for himself and come to the conclusion then agree or disagree with his wife.

Shiv has left it upon Anandi to decide when she wants to come back with Saanchi and your idea is something which can never come in Anandi's mind because it needs planning...Anandi can never plan out thing whether for her or others good...Shiv is more practical and will never misjudge anyone without seeing things with his own eyes...if you remember Shiv once told Anandi that he never makes his conceptions on someone's talking so his judgment will never get clouded with Anandi's words but it will definitely make him keep an eye on his sister...Shiv knows how to practically handle situation...he knows his sister and will immediately realize that something wrong is going on and knowing how well planned Shiv is he will himself come to Jaitsar in order to take Anandi and Saanchi and see it himself how to proceed in such matter further

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aparnauma

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Posted: 12 years ago

He only told her to tell him when she is ready to leave.When she tells him that she is ready to leave she is going to tell him to come and pick them up.When he comes to pick her up it will be impossible for him not to see what Anandi is seeing.He knows Sanchi and he knows Jagya.

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libsrocks

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: aparnauma
He only told her to tell him when she is ready to leave.When she tells him that she is ready to leave she is going to tell him to come and pick them up.When he comes to pick her up it will be impossible for him not to see what Anandi is seeing.He knows Sanchi and he knows Jagya.

Anandi had told him that she wants to come back soon(means she is ready to leave any moment from there) but Saanchi is not ready and then she told she will make Saanchi understand and then come back...neither did in phone convo Shiv mentioned that he will come to pick her up and neither did Anandi say to him to do so even though Shiv had himself told before that he will pick them up after 2-3 days

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aparnauma

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Posted: 12 years ago

This is in continuation from my initial post on this topic.

There is no point telling Sanchi that Jagya is wrong for her.

There is no point discussing this with Shekhars because all except Shivraj Shekhar are doing Jagya jaap in fact they sounds like major fans of Jagya so they will not see her point.

Now the Singhs are falling in love with Sanchi they will not see the point either.

Jagya will not say anything because he left it to her.

That leaves out only Shiv and when she talked over with Shiv trying to give him hints about Sanchi's growing affection for J he did not pick up those hints and instead he was only relieved that Sanchi is not being rude to Singhs.He has not gone into the reasons behind his sister's uncharacteristic behaviour.

The only thing that she can do is to make Shiv see the situation for himself that is by facilitating his visit to BH.Asking him to come and pick them up.Since anyways he told her to let him know once she is ready to leave.Unless Shiv sees the situation with his own eyes he is not going to get the point.

So it is important that Shiv sees Sanchi before Anandi brings up this issue with him.

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anaamica

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Anandi should keep quiet when it comes to Sanchi's attempts at gaining Jagya's attention. Where she has to step in is when Sanchi insults Ganga.

Ganga is a part of the family now and Sanchi is an outsider. Anandi is the link between her and the Singh family, so if anybody can ask Sanchi to shut the f* up, it has to be Anandi. She can't quietly see G being tormented and insulted by Sanchi and just not do anything.

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