Archana - no more expectations

I expected more from Archana...to be more understanding about the Arjun and Purvi affair not to simply hug and kiss Ovi and just tell the latter that this was her own making. So basically what she did was pick up Purvi from the streets when she was alone and now put her out onto the streets when she got her family back...In a true sense Archana didn't look after her when her family came back!
Archana is the only one who could set things right - she knew Purvi was hell-bent on getting her and Manav back together no matter what and now after her own life is now in order she is siding with Ovi who actually betrayed the father who raised her for 18 years and a mother who she never knew but was simply a deal to get the guy of her dreams inspite of the fact that the guy admitted in public that he was not willing to marry her.
I dont' understand parents like Archana and Manav - once Arjun said that he was not interested in marrying Ovi they should have made her understand that marrying a man who does not love her is USELESS!
TEJU is the best sister in all of this - she is the only one who knew exactly what was wrong and correctly interpreted everything - in fact if given a chance she might even want to actually see Purvi and Arjun get back together.
I don't think Purvi should go back to the Deshmuks or her aaji's place - she needs to stay away from them all and just tell them that now was not the time that I need you but when I did need you all back then when I was hurt with trying to get back my parents together and sacrificed the man of my dreams for your daughter Ovi I was shunned - now I don't need you all...Archana needs to feel what it means to be loved and lost...for someone who has gone thru much in life she has certainly not understood Purvi at all ...
In fact, Arjun and DK need to set the record straight for the Ds and give them a piece of their mind and if Manav tries to butt in DK needs to be firm this time and tell him YOU SHUT UP FOR ONCE COS ALL THIS TIME I HAVE BEEN LISTENING TO U. Moreover, I think that Manav's attitude to others by raising his hand to silence others is VERY RUDE! He listens only to his mother and adopted son who turned out to be the best villains on the show but was quick to forgive them when actually they had destroyed his family's life...if Soham knew what a villain of a cousin he has in Sachin he would certainly give him a piece of his mind.

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True Asha-Ashvik - Purvi needs to stay independent and look out for herself and try to find a job (NOT AT THE ONLY OFFICE IN TOWN RUN BY KIRLOSKARS) and raise little Pari and move into an apartment on her own and drop off her baby at Gauri's for the time being. Later admit her to school and see the young Pari take off - celebrate her birthday and that of Pari by giving donation at the temple and a special pooja with only Gauri's family in attendance and allow DK and Arjun if she feels its ok. Allow DK and Arjun to have a huge celebration for Pari's birthday when she turns 21 and DEFINITELY NOT INVITE the Ds and Ks to the party but all of their biz partners ...and DK can always remind Manav and Archana by going over to their house that he is interested in inviting them to the party and so would bring a piece of cake as they are the grandparents no matter what but is unable to since his son and Purvi don't want them there since the M and A are too adamant on Ovi and not understanding the daughter who was the reason for them to get back together...and then leave before Manav and Archana tries to say anything...and finally telling them on the 21st birthday date that they are welcome but only as guests not family...

i dont agree,archu wld hav reacted the same way if purvi wld b carryng sum1 else baby befre marriage.archu is angry on purvi cause she broke her trust.archu really cares for purvi and she thought purvi is safe wid onir.archu dint evn raise her hand om arjun fr wat he did,but she raised her hand on onir states a lot. wat purvi did can be defended by saying that she left arjun for armaan.no one except arvi knew abt their premaritial sex,i wont evn blame arjun here cause he dint wnted to leave purvi.it was purvi who treated him as a toy,she used him and left him.evn manav unwillingly agreed for arvi marriage.so y blame armaan now.punni was beaten publically for sleeping wid mital so y not purvi.teju ovi being brought up abroad dint cross deir limits but purvi did.

True Sherma that Purvi and Arjun did something before marriage which is wrong but wake up to the fact that this happening today in society in a much bigger way...In fact, I totally understand why Purvi and Arjun were compelled to do it but guess what none of them were ready to face Ovi's betrayal drama...Ovi is the one who has no meaning for relationships - in fact Manav should have questioned his own upbringing not just that his daughter wears oh so short outfits and flaunts her skin to no end looking all petite but for the simple reason that she used Manav and Archana's own marriage-divorce drama for her benefit just as much as Savita and Sachin did but he thrashed the latter two for that but not Ovi! In fact, silently he was happy to pack off Ovi to the Kirloskar household not realising he was hurting his own good friend DK who only HESITATINGLY gave his blessings to Ovi...why does he overlook the happiness of others for the sake of Ovi? Archana should have ideally stepped aside and told Manav you have a family that not only ruined MY family life but also is ready to ruin that of MY daughter Ovi for your selfish needs and told him that she was going home with Purvi and this time separation was because of his own follies and not that of the making of any of his other family members ...
Purvi was with the man she was to marry the next day!!!! True its wrong...but hey Archana should have told Ovi off as much for using her relationship with Manav just to marry a man who didn't love her.
I really wish DK was given a better dialogue and more time cos he needs to come out with some quality stuff ...

Originally posted by: sherma

i dont agree,archu wld hav reacted the same way if purvi wld b carryng sum1 else baby befre marriage.archu is angry on purvi cause she broke her trust.archu really cares for purvi and she thought purvi is safe wid onir.archu dint evn raise her hand om arjun fr wat he did,but she raised her hand on onir states a lot. wat purvi did can be defended by saying that she left arjun for armaan.no one except arvi knew abt their premaritial sex,i wont evn blame arjun here cause he dint wnted to leave purvi.it was purvi who treated him as a toy,she used him and left him.evn manav unwillingly agreed for arvi marriage.so y blame armaan now.punni was beaten publically for sleeping wid mital so y not purvi.teju ovi being brought up abroad dint cross deir limits but purvi did.

Also Sherma don't forget that along with Ovi and Teju even Arjun was brought up abroad and while it feels good to keep blaming Purvi for the one night stand it does take two to tango! Arjun found true love and wanted to make Purvi his own and live with her and he too got carried away that night thinking he might lose her ---- true its wrong to have premarital sex but hey not just Purvi but Arjun too is equally responsible for what happened...Archana needs to go back and understand that while her daughter maybe wrong her own Ovi is equally wrong and should have also distanced herself from this woman for ruining Purvi's life ...remember Purvi walked out of the house and lived alone went to Kolkata and lived alone, married Onir alone, came home for the sake of Ovi to Ds house but moved out once Ovi ranted that she was not happy with Purvi staying in the house and again she was ALONE - and if she didn't have Aaji then she would be out alone with Onir...and now when Onir is leaving her she is all alone again...the only person she waited for - Archana to come out of coma - abandoned her and left her alone to look after her own worries by herself...did Archana think that though Onir is the husband Arjun is the actual father and that he too must be missing his daughter as much as she missed her family for 18 years? So basically Purvi is all alone and once again when Archana slaps Onir or Shalini in front of all do you think she will tell Purvi to come home ABSOLUTELY NOT - Purvi will just go back in a rickshaw in very wet weather to Gauri's home alone with Pari and the entire family will get into their flashy vehicles and wander off to their chawl home in luxury...She is alone even if Arjun divorces since she has been told to stay away from him...So the orphan is back on the streets alone and on her own again and only hope is Pari...

Originally posted by: sdias

Also Sherma don't forget that along with Ovi and Teju even Arjun was brought up abroad and while it feels good to keep blaming Purvi for the one night stand it does take two to tango! Arjun found true love and wanted to make Purvi his own and live with her and he too got carried away that night thinking he might lose her ---- true its wrong to have premarital sex but hey not just Purvi but Arjun too is equally responsible for what happened...Archana needs to go back and understand that while her daughter maybe wrong her own Ovi is equally wrong and should have also distanced herself from this woman for ruining Purvi's life ...remember Purvi walked out of the house and lived alone went to Kolkata and lived alone, married Onir alone, came home for the sake of Ovi to Ds house but moved out once Ovi ranted that she was not happy with Purvi staying in the house and again she was ALONE - and if she didn't have Aaji then she would be out alone with Onir...and now when Onir is leaving her she is all alone again...the only person she waited for - Archana to come out of coma - abandoned her and left her alone to look after her own worries by herself...did Archana think that though Onir is the husband Arjun is the actual father and that he too must be missing his daughter as much as she missed her family for 18 years? So basically Purvi is all alone and once again when Archana slaps Onir or Shalini in front of all do you think she will tell Purvi to come home ABSOLUTELY NOT - Purvi will just go back in a rickshaw in very wet weather to Gauri's home alone with Pari and the entire family will get into their flashy vehicles and wander off to their chawl home in luxury...She is alone even if Arjun divorces since she has been told to stay away from him...So the orphan is back on the streets alone and on her own again and only hope is Pari...

u nt gettng my point i am saying archu wld hav same way wid purvi if she wld b carrying sum1 else baby premarriage.its nt abt ovi here.archu wil surely tell her to cum back to her or karjankar house