So tell me then, what should I discuss? - Page 2

Originally posted by: Lionessxo

LOL alright.

In the post I made...

All I said was...not to make the matter go furthur. And I said that not because I did not agree with the post makers but even after the issue was done people were still arguing.. like some people went over board with it.

& The post I made did not BELITTLE anyone :\ I think whatever I said was alright .. it was not rude what so ever imo.

All I wanted was.. people to get along and continue with QH since seeing all the arugments.. people started not liking the person who'd reply and the person who they would argue with.. and all this would stop if people stopped making topics over and over again...

Like yeah everyone has their own opinions and their own way of thinking.. yea go ahead and express them, its a forum.. but some people just kept repeating what they would reply to a post and then make topics about it again...like whats the use of that ..

I would still read the topics though even if people made them and I never have been rude to them...the people that would reply to posts and then go making a topic about the same thing was annoying.. oh welll.

I just made a post about it.. people didn't even have to read it lol...

Anywaysss.. at the end of the day people do whatever they want. I was suggesting an idea which I did. People can agree or disagree, its normal :)

& MY BAD If I hurt anyones feelings unintentionally...cause I didn;t mean to at all.

Originally posted by: BlahBytes

Borderline fanatical shoving it was!

TM,

Opinions are what this forum is about as well. When someone starts saying I am right, I am right constantly, it is called incessant unbearable nagging. We do not appreciate being patronized!

You can discuss skirts until the end of this world!

Originally posted by: goingreen

Hello (: I agree with you, about the fact that some posters were a little more aggressive in their approach and were shoving their opinions down other people's throats. But it takes two to tango, while there were people shoving their opinion about how they didn't like the skirt down other people's throats, there were also people who had the exact opposite opinion also shoving their opinions down other people throats. And both sides were wrong, this is place for you to share your opinion, not shove it down people's throats.

I'm not sure if you read my post on the skirt, but I in fact did not say that the skirt was trashy or too short. You have to admit that a miniskirt is not a conservative piece of clothing. In my earlier image of Zoya, I had seen her as a modern yet conservative girl, and seeing her in a miniskirt destroyed that image of mine. And it also spoiled the image for my mom... that was really all I was saying. I did not mention a word about Islamic culture or morals. I just wanted to know if there were others who felt the same way about the characterization of Zoya.

Yet, I garnered comments with people telling me to get over it. This post was actually to highlight that, not sure if it came across correctly!

Originally posted by: delena90

@bold - I am sure they were but it doesn't mean it's right.

I highlighted what I said about that. Different moral compasses which includes everyone - not just the anti-skirts or the pro-skirts.

@brown - I admit to no such thing. I believe in somebody's freedom to do and wear as they please. I wear what I want, when I want and where I want and no I don't give two hoots what people think about it. But that's my stand and you are welcome to yours.

In general with this forum opinions are not shared. People tend to believe they are right and hang what anyone else thinks about anything. At the end of the day there will be many who agree with you and many who may agree that skirt was fine but neither side gets to generalize and say that it was or wasn't.

Originally posted by: goingreen

Yes I also did admit that it wasn't right, look at what I highlighted in red. Alright, sorry for generalizing the not conservative thing, I take it back. It's my personal opinion that it wasn't conservative and not what I had imagined Zoya wearing. But I think we can just come to the consensus that it's kind of sad that a lot of the posts don't share but shove. I wish it'd stop.

Originally posted by: delena90

This I agree with!

Originally posted by: ..-AsYa-..

I would love it if u update ur ff.😆😉

Originally posted by: goingreen

Hello (: I read your post obviously haha and no, I do not think you belittled anyone. However, some of the replies from other members in that thread were belittling, and this post was meant to address that, that's all. In fact, it was your opinion that people should stop making posts about it, and you're entitled to your opinion of course, and I respect that (:




haha! thanks :) & no worries at all! & YEaa some replies were off...

take care :)