Zoya's skirt: fiction perceived as Haram

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Zoya's mini skirt seems to have given rise to a hot debate centered around Islamic practices...

I find it quite hilarious that people (both Muslims and non-Muslims) are getting all worked up to the point of lashing insults at each other, about an episode that has not even aired yet, and that too in the name of a religion that prescribes Peace above all...

Regarding this episode, so far nobody knows the circumstances under which Zoya wore the skirt!! Whatever the case might be, it is highly unlikely that Gul Khan, the director, has any intention of disrespecting any aspect of Islam---which also happens to be the religion she ascribes to I believe.
Besides, she has made it clear, right from the beginning, that the show is centered around a Muslim family ---she never said an orthodox Muslim family for that matter- and she has so far perfectly depicted an unorthodox Muslim family based in India that fully respects and honors the Islamic values and culture, just like the majority of Muslim families in the real world. There is not one single anti-Islamic practice in the show that Assad and his family have indulged in so far!!

On the other hand, Zoya's character in the show, unlike the Khan's, realistically requires that she wears jeans; not only did she grow up in New York, but she is also supposed to be a liberal girl with a mind of her own, and a belief system that is devoid of hypocrisy, and yet a firm believer in her own right.

Anyway, it's not as if Zoya makes it a habit of wearing revealing clothes in public! In fact she is always covered from top to bottom, albeit not in traditional clothes, but she is covered.

There has to be a reason why she was asked to wear a skirt in this episode that we should find out soon, and that might render this whole (lengthy and steamy) debate irrelevant and obsolete!!

Again, that is just Zoya, the lead female character of this (fictitious) show. Had Gul not portrayed Zoya as such, the show would not have been the same QH that viewers are clearly so passionate about--- this forum in itself is proof of the passion that QH brings out in its viewers!

Again, this is just a show, and Zoya is depicting a character to whose image some Muslim girls out in the real world do indeed adhere, both in India and other parts of the world.

Either way, the director does not seem to be condoning any behavior, or dressing style whatsoever, that is considered Haram according to the Quran, as an example for all Muslim girls out there to follow.

After all, a Muslim girl with a firm Islamic foundation and good understanding of the teachings of the Quran should be capable of making wise choices out of their free will, without allowing any outside factors to influence them, in all matters Tehzeeb-related --- dress as well as speech and behavior, but mainly intention!

QH is just a show that is depicting different (realistic) Muslim characters as they do exist in real life --- juxtaposing the negatives with the positives. The viewer is free to identify with the character they want, but Gul Khan is in no way trying to adversely influence any Muslim or portray Islam in negative lights. In fact, she should be applauded for (finally) taking the initiative of coming up with a show that is centered around Muslim families, for a (refreshing to say the least) change --- in my humble opinion.

This is a show, unlike others in many respects, that has a lot to offer in terms of entertainment, as it pertains to the interplay of human characters and personalities in a humorous yet deeply significant manner, so let's just enjoy it as such without over-analyzing, and definitely without turning it into a platform for debates focused on religion, and that too, in such degrading terms---just a humble wish!

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Posted: 12 years ago
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I comply with you wholeheartedly dear!
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Totally Agree With You. . . .
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well said!!! bravo!!! 👏 totally agree with you!!
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Very well said!! I am not understanding the uproar. The actress who played the female protagonist in Gul's previous show wears many kind of outfits in real life, including short skirts, though she is a Muslim (Sanaya Irani). Many of the viewers here are ardent fans of hers, I did not see fans having any problems with what outfit she wears in real life. The same goes for numerous Muslim women professionals who wears different kind of attires in real life.

Just because someone wears a short skirt she is not a Muslim?! Being a Muslim myself, I am finding it very difficult to understand! Who am I to judge who is a real Muslim and who is not?!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: mayuri099

Very well said!! I am not understanding the uproar. The actress who played the female protagonist in Gul's previous show wears many kind of outfits in real life, including short skirts, though she is a Muslim (Sanaya Irani). Many of the viewers here are ardent fans of hers, I did not see fans having any problems with what outfit she wears in real life. The same goes for numerous Muslim women professionals who wears different kind of attires in real life.


Just because someone wears a short skirt she is not a Muslim?! Being a Muslim myself, I am finding it very difficult to understand! Who am I to judge who is a real Muslim and who is not?!



Sanity.

Religion should never have been brought up in the skirt "issue".

It grates when one person decides to speak for the entire community.

This a a forum of people with different belief and faith systems, personally no religion should be brought up at all because it could be seen as insulting to someone else.

Women should be allowed to wear what they want without someone dictating it.

My issue with the skirt is what Gul is trying to portray with it. Just like clothes do not define tehzeeb, they do not define modernity either. I would rather Zoya stand-up and fight Asad than Gul show us a skirt to make a point.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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@delena90
I guess we won't know what Gul Khan is trying to portray until we see the full episode, at which point any comment would be justified!

Honestly speaking, I am tempted to say-based on the SBS segment- that this was just an inoffensive act between two girls - Zoya and Najma- that, as usual for Zoya, turned into an unfortunate event where the Maulvi showed up at that time, which must have infuriated Assad even more.

My guess is that Assad's reaction is what led to Zoya's outburst on Assad's practice of Tehzeeb.

Anyway, these are all assumptions that only the actual viewing of the whole episode would confirm or correct.

A suivre...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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for zoya it was right .. she could wear it .. PH did not show that nazma wearing that ..



agree to you TM ..
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: AM_MA

<font face="Comic Sans MS, Times, serif">@delena90</font>

<font face="Comic Sans MS, Times, serif">I guess we won't know what Gul Khan is trying to portray until we see the full episode, at which point any comment would be justified!</font>

<font face="Comic Sans MS, Times, serif">Honestly speaking, I am tempted to say-based on the SBS segment- that this was just an inoffensive act between two girls - Zoya and Najma- that, as usual for Zoya, turned into an unfortunate event where the Maulvi showed up at that time, which must have infuriated Assad even more.</font>

<font face="Comic Sans MS, Times, serif">My guess is that Assad's reaction is what led to Zoya's outburst on Assad's practice of Tehzeeb.</font>

<font face="Comic Sans MS, Times, serif">Anyway, these are all assumptions that only the actual viewing of the whole episode would confirm or correct.</font>

<font face="Comic Sans MS, Times, serif">A suivre...</font>



Fr me Zoe wearing a skirt is not offensive at all.

But the subsequent conversation with Asad is Gul trying to ms a point which she could have done without the skirt.

Asad frankly has no room to speak. This is the same man who humiliate Zoya and doesn't think she deserves an apology.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I know, just because the show is about Muslims does not mean they have to be ideal Muslims. I mean look at Razia, why weren't we getting all work up about her misrepresentation of a Muslim woman? (or a Human for that matter)

I don't like the way the writers use clothes to make certain "points". I agree with Delena that clothes shouldn't be used to express "tehzeeb" or modernity. Just as a girl wearing shorts and a tube top can be very well mannered and girl wearing a niqaab can be very modern in her thinking.

I agree that we still don't know what the context was for Zoya wearing the skirt, but the thing that is hypocritical about this is that they WILL make an excuse. I am 100% that there is a reason for her wearing the skirt. If Gull really wanted to make some kind of "point" she should have just made Zoya wear shorts skirts and own it. The fact that their will be an excuse negates the entire purpose of the conversation.

And also, I'm so tired of this "tehzeeb" word of Asad's mouth. A guy who slaps a girl should never talk about things like "tehzeeb". Asad is just plain rude.

I would have understood Asad's issue's with Zoya choice of dress if he meant it in an Islamic context where women are indeed asked guard their honor and stay covered so usually most Muslim's don't wear mini shirts. I just don't get why he can't make his point's in a more respectful manner.

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