The Million Dollar Question At Last.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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I have been reading pretty judgemental stuff hereon the forum. To tell you the truth,its all wrong- everything! The kind of stuff we are discussing here and the kind of stuff that is making us the number one forum is highly wrong stuff. I would have really preferred if we were discussing anything remotely related to QH. But we are not. * Sigh*

You know- in all this shit - i can see the brutal truth. There is no possible way that Asad loves Zoya. No way.I have thought about it for a while and its so wrong- both of them,for each other. Atleast at the moment.

Because if he does,then what exactly does he love about her?

Her childishness? No. He asks her to be more mature.

Her way of dressing? No. He doesnt even respect it,forget accepting it.

Does he trust her? No.

Does he intentionally hurt her? Yes.

Does he misjudge her? All the time.

Does he come forward when someone insults her? No. He'd rather blame her for getting insulted.

I think,more than love,its attraction. More than love,its i-dont-want-to-lose-her attitude of his. I dont think he loves her at all. He likes her.

You know,the word 'love' is so freely used these days,it has lost its true meaning.So maybe,he has the same misconception.

He hasnt really reached the stage of love. No way. Acceptance comes with love. Accepting your soulmate for what she is. Asad is nowhere close to that. But on the contrary,no matter how much she complains,Zoya has accepted him on many levels. So,till Asad arrives at the same plane,i think its foolish to even expect a confession from him because,the truth is- he wouldnt really mean it.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Yes. That's exactly my thought too.
Asad doesn't love her, but he is attracted to her because she is different.
With love comes trust, something that Asad does not seem to have on her.

This whole skirt fiasco is actually going to show that Asad doesn't love Zoya. (I personally think that skirt was ugly.) But if Asad cannot accept Zoya for who she is, then I sincerely doubt that he loves her.

I think this is actually paving the way for the separation.
Edited by Nick93 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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That is exactly what i said in a earlier post, does asad really love Zoya, what is it that he loves about her and why is it that he still think she is the wrong girl for him. As far as i am concern Asad does not know what the hell he wants.
Really i think Asad needs to Get off his high horse and realise that no one is perfect himself included. The wife he is looking for has not been born yet and never will.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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For me it alwys asya n he lv her vry mch bt pblm is he dnt wnt to shw lik ouher
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Res! Vl b bck soon! Btw i cmpltly agree wid u!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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loves is about feelings...
u can hurt ur parents too we fight with family members too...
we judge them too..
we behave carelessly...
we gets angry on them becuase we know we have all rights on them and they love us unconditionally...

does that means we dont love our own family 😲
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: --Kriti--

loves is about feelings...

u can hurt ur parents too we fight with family members too...
we judge them too..
we behave carelessly...
we gets angry on them becuase we know we have all rights on them and they love us unconditionally...

does that means we dont love our own family 😲



blood relationships are something else. It cant be compared to a spouse relationship. We take our family for granted too,which is a worse offence,
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Posted: 12 years ago
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hay guys none of us have seen the episode yet,and we are passing judgment on what has no taken place yet, we dont know under what circumstances zoya wore the mini skirt, and why asad was angry with her for wearing it.
from the sbs segment it seemed that Asad and Zoya are having an argument on not doing what the other does not like. zoya asks Asad dose he not do things that she does not like but she does not stop him from doing so. i believe she is refering to him spending time with tanveer, hugging tanveer.
i feel this track is for Zoya to tell Asad that she does not like tanveer hugging him and him alowing the hugs to happen,
we are all aware that Zoya and Asad are engaged and he goes aroung holding and hugging tanveer even in front of Zoya. so may be this extream step is taken by zoya to make Asad realise if he accepts her to stay within her tazeeb, she also accepts him to stay within his maryada and not hug another woman and maintain physical distence between himself and Tanveer. maybe this her way of getting the message across. she could flirt with another guy but there arent any around.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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thats the story..thats asad character..he will take time to overcome his prejudice slowly...already he changed sooo much
cvs building their relationship
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Posted: 12 years ago
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👏 👏 Wonderful post. I agree with your points. Though it has been shown that Asad isn't nearly as bothered with some of her habits that use to make him cringe before. The way she eats and he no longer comments on her clothes really ( not that he has accepted) with the exception of the Jashn-e- Bahar event. But still his feelings don't translate into love really. He lacks the trust, that is the basis of any relationship. It irks me when he so easily takes Tanveer's side in every situation.

Yes I'll acknowledge that Zoya had put herself in some situations earlier that caused trouble but he knows she does everything with good intentions. He said that when she had come to the sangeet in Mangalpur.

This is all adding to the growth of character for both of them mainly Asad

Edited by cclove - 12 years ago

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