When she made Jagiya marry gowri, she did feel bad for Anandi because she lost her memory saving agiya life, but still she did not want her grandson to suffer she did that out of love and she never thought that it is going to end like this.
when she made gehna marry her son who was double the age of gehna it was because of her love for her son, she feels she helped gehna's parents by giving money.
when she said Anandi to not to study because of her love for her grandson
she always has love in her heart for her family she can do anything that is what she did even today after her change she did not hesitate to talk bad about Shiv or Ashima just because she decided to change Anandi life because now she loves Anandi and want to correct her galthi.
She is widowed women with two children who earn so much in her life and she brought up her co-sisters son as her own son and never showed any difference between both of them and she was the one who supported the girl next door (i don't remember her name, who loved bhairon in the past), and now ganga she is the one who will be first to help poor,...she never let her DIL talk or gave more freedom, but she always gave them good food and clothes, unlike most of the other bad MIL who would not even give them that...these are the positive sides of her and now when she is changed only her thinking is bit matured, but her character is not changed good or bad she always wanted what she wants and she could go to any extent for that.
Singh's, anandi and Shiv and now shekar's should stop supporting her by saying what ever she did was just because of her love and she is mahan. will bhairo and sumitra or shiv and anandi would behave the same not feel bad and support them if anyone goes and talks the truth about jagiya's past no need to manipulate for jagiya, will shiv feel the same if anyone say lapundari to his sister just like what DS said to Ashima, because now even his sister is close to jagiya and going to haveli for him, might be shiv not feel bad because it looks like in his life he is more worried about his wife and his in-laws happiness and secondly his job.