The very question i had..should parents of a beti?

wow Sunara fabulous post. Hats off to u

agree wid you . . . But if d gal iz stubburn and strong enough she wil give a tit 4 tat treatment n't rudely but being a meethi churi . . . :)

Not making a separate post today, because your post basically said everything I wanted to say ...

I really enjoyed the Sarabhai family scenes ... very realistic and true to life, and very thought-provoking.
This was something I had spoken about earlier too ... how does a family make this decision or even support their child's decison? A choice between knowingly sending her into the lion's den ... or breaking her relationship, and also her heart. Such a heartache for any family, especially when the daughter is a pampered and much-loved child, and they are not in any hurry to get her married ... their only concern is her happiness.

And as usual Sanaya rocks in the emotional scenes ... her bewilderment at Uma Ben's venom-filled lecture turning to disbelieving shock as she finally puts the pieces together and realises that Uma Ben is Manav's mother ... her complete shocked silence after that as UB continues her tirade ... Simple and Ashika, the friends were good too ... so were the entire Sarabhai family, all united in their anger against Uma Ben and their worry for Chhanchhan ...
Loved the last Daadi-Chhanchhan scene ... CC's worry is centred around Manav's stand in the entire matter ... and very rightly so ... his support makes the entire difference to her decision. And as Dadi says, even if she has his support, will it be enough? For her whole life? After all, he won't be standing around 24/7 to protect her ... she will be at the mercy of her MIL, especially as the Borisagar family is not the type to allow their DIL's to go out and work and thus get away from the house either.

Again ... with FK being the weak actor he is, I still say ... Run, Chhanchhan, run for your life! He's not worth it! 😆 But oh well ... phir serial kaise chalega? 😛
But even speaking seriously, as a mother of a daughter, I would be very doubtful about letting her marry into a family where the mother-in-law is so vindictive. As CC's father said ... UB behaves as though she is the keeper of morals of her society, but in reality, her thought and mentality is narrow and vindictive in the extreme.

From the precap it seems that Manav dikra retains his spine for some more time though ...

Your post is so true- if I had a daughter who found herself in this situation, I would NEVER allow it. As Mr Sarabhai said , how can one let a beloved daughter enter a lion's den. UmaBen is one very ugly woman, and this family has seen her ugliness first hand. Manav , I feel , is not strong enough to support her , even if he was , he can't stay around 24/7. Apart from that, he's not the type of guy to go into a confrontation head on, esp where his mum is concerned, or he would have said something to her today. And eloping and living separately isn;t the answer either- that'll just give Uma more ammo against ChhanChhan- the usual mere bhole bhale bete ko phusla ke le gayi. UGH.

Nope, the best solution is as Diya mentioned in her post, Run Baby Run😆 while you can. UB was literally spewing venom., imagine banging your head on a wall like that every freaking hour!? That's what it will be like for CC, and Manav will be watching behind one of those pillars at the Borisagar house and we'll be left scratching our heads, unable to decide if, he is actually planning to do something or actually processing things in his head😆🤔

Originally posted by: princessunara

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but think.. every waking moment if your life is a battlefield...if a person who is going to be in your life 24/7 is going to be consumed with black hate towards you...are u going to live battling all life long?
she has a marriage life..but the black shadow of hate blemishing it...no...as i said it isn't how educated the girl is or her personality... irrespective of it...it is not going to be a bed of roses..

and CC is young and may think their love may conquer the world, but in this society where we hear of daughters dying in in-laws houses even in instances where she was welcomed with open arms at the marriage.. would parents send their precious child knowing she will burn?
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love can conquore hate, but parent can sent their daughter to dat house if dey are sure with d life partner, at least 4 me ma parents wil do so and i'm yet sure a gal wid courage and wit can win over d cunning saas . . . Why fear wen ma ka dikra iz der to support

Originally posted by: spirit

Nope, the best solution is as Diya mentioned in her post, Run Baby Run😆 while you can. UB was literally spewing venom., imagine banging your head on a wall like that every freaking hour!? That's what it will be like for CC, and Manav will be watching behind one of those pillars at the Borisagar house and we'll be left scratching our heads, unable to decide if, he is actually planning to do something or actually processing things in his head😆🤔

@bold ... that is my fear ... after marriage, that is all Manav will do ... hide behind pillars and let CC and UB battle it out ...
On second thoughts, that may not be such a bad idea after all 😛 ... less screen space the better!

I doubt he will do anything much. He didn't even interrupt the CC-UB confrontation today ... he apparently just went back home ... what a brave soldier he is 😆 . Apparently needs a lot of time to process things in his head ...


I think the main show is shaping up now ... let's forget about Manav .. it's all about UB and CC ...

I hope those two get into an accident and let Manav face the most problems with face damage and take the story the Yeh Vaada Raha way it will be interesting actually atleast we would get a decent Manav & ChanChan love story.