Here's to the different shades of a woman!

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Sometimes it's just better to smile through the pain.


We can smile even though we are hurting and we can feel happy even though we are unhappy. It's called strength.


Here's to the girls that keep a smile even though they are going through hell and can't tell anyone about it.


The ones who keep their head high, even though they'd rather bury themselves or run away.


The ones who hide their pain behind their smiles, leaving people wonder how.


The one who jokes and to you she seems happy, carefree who never looks down, saddened or lonely. And you never wondered that she might be dying inside and struggling to take a day at a time.


If she could shout, scream and throw things then maybe she would.
But she can't. Instead, she bottles it all in her head while she's crying inside and so scared not to fall, but she knows it's all spiraling out of control.


The strong yet vulnerable girl..who loves recklessly and endlessly, even if it consumes her.


"You see a duck on the water so graceful and swimming but when you look under the waters it's fighting to swim, but you don't see that, you just see its grace of looking so calm when in reality the water is choppy."


Here's to me, you, her, Roshni, Riya, Aisha, Liza, Saakshi and every woman.


So, next time you shun someone for being too jovial, look in her eyes and see the pain well hidden under the layers of smile, pranks or whatever.
See yourself. We do stuff to keep ourselves away from pain. We tend to project on only one emotion after getting hurt. Some choose Anger, and some choose happiness.


You know you do the same. 😊 And if you don't, ah well, you might be a god of some kind! 😃


*No offence meant whatsoever*
*I meant every ETF ladki log😉*


-Tahi ❤️
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Posted: 12 years ago
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great thoughts Tahi dear...
what ever we project is what we wish to show... not always what actually we are.
there is a lot hidden behind a smile, a tear or even a look.
An open mind, an ear to listen, a finger to wipe a tear, ... a smile...
more heart felt than any richness of the world...

PS: hope you still want that walk with me on the island...inspiration wala...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Well said Tahi with T..

Agree to each of your points...every woman bears a lot of pain in her but hides it with so much expertise and tries to radiate happiness in every direction possible..

They hide their tears behind a smile and spread joy to all...
Its a unique trait of a woman...Only she can do that...Thats her strength and unfortunately sometimes, a weakness too!
They say women are the weaker gender...but my POV is completely opposite...

I always feel that because of the above said trait, women become far more stronger than men...Men can never do that...they can never hide their pain and their vulnerability and give happiness to others...In that aspect, men are the weaker gender...

Absolutely no offence meant...just the truth..a fact of life I have come to know from my life's experiences so far!

So three cheers for u, me and the beautiful, daring and brilliant girls of ETF!


Edited by vidya.anand - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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nice post..
completely agree with you di...
when we mask our tears, our pain, our sorrows and insecurities, only those who do that know the difficulties.
she cant spill tears, as it may hurt others, or make people think she too vulnerable who cry at every small things.she need to stay strong, or at least show she is strong...

it takes hell of will power to mask your pain. tears threaten to spill. but once you are determined, you start smiling through your tears.
but truth to be told, no one tries to see your eyes, see what those eyes hold.
a face that wears a smile, hides a pain which is only reflected in their eyes, not in their words or actions.
when we smile when in pain, people either think we are insensitive or too tough.
who cares for what you feel?!!!!!
may be few, very few who sense what one has behind that smile...

smile... never judge people by the smile they wear on their face... it may just be a mask to to hide pain...


thanks for this post di...


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Posted: 12 years ago
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Aww... Tahi...

This was beautiful...

well said...!!!

Truly!!!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: kunchu

great thoughts Tahi dear...

what ever we project is what we wish to show... not always what actually we are.
there is a lot hidden behind a smile, a tear or even a look.
An open mind, an ear to listen, a finger to wipe a tear, ... a smile...
more heart felt than any richness of the world...

PS: hope you still want that walk with me on the island...inspiration wala...


Exactly... different shades..you never know how the person is until you look beyond the obvious 😉

yes, sometimes all you need is someone to lean to.. 😉 Life is life..and we are beautifully flawed humans!

p.s: Oh I do... I do 😉
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Its not always easy to smile but its upto you either you get angry close yourself and become a primary victim of unwanted sympathy...or you smile ...believe it or not pain never relieves ...

i know personally how it feels to be in pain but you can't word it out because you don't want others to give you the bechari feeling...emotions are just meant to be respected...

so someone said it right do not judge the book by its cover

and whoever is hurt only knows it hurts...

tahi i agree with you the strength...the pain behind those smiles only woman can survive with it...

PS. this is my personal opinion with due respect to every1 around...sorry if someone disaagree😊

Littlebrat😉



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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: vidya.anand

Well said Tahi with T..


Agree to each of your points...every woman bears a lot of pain in her but hides it with so much expertise and tries to radiate happiness in every direction possible..

They hide their tears behind a smile and spread joy to all...
Its a unique trait of a woman...Only she can do that...Thats her strength and unfortunately sometimes, a weakness too!
They say women are the weaker gender...but my POV is completely opposite...

I always feel that because of the above said trait, women become far more stronger than men...Men can never do that...they can never hide their pain and their vulnerability and give happiness to others...In that aspect, men are the weaker gender...

Absolutely no offence meant...just the truth..a fact of life I have come to know from my life's experiences so far!

So three cheers for u, me and the beautiful, daring and brilliant girls of ETF!



Agreed to infinity 👏

No wonder why women are considered the epitome of strength and every other traits. We are strong and no one even can dare to oppose it.
Man may built this world but we create one for our own. 😎
We are tough, we are ambitious, we are mothers, we are the universe. 😃

And we rock my folks! 😉
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Great Post Tahi!!!!
Life is a great mystery, the prettiest eyes have shed most tears and beautiful smile is worn to hide those tears... Smiling is the best reaction in all situation!!!!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Loved ur post and 100% agree to it. Its only women who can still smile even though she might be hiding lots of pain inside. Hats off to them for showing this other side through the character of Sakshi. this song totally suits Sakshi..
[YOUTUBE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3unptPIAdMk[/YOUTUBE]
Edited by shaleenrocks - 12 years ago

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