Rutu - you here? 🤗 Me too - generally just a stalker but had to come out for this one.
You used Myers'-Briggs on Asad-Zoya!?! 🤣 🤣🤣
<Wiping tears of laughter> Didn't know you were a psych student - me too - a psych grad. High-five!
Just read the Introvert-extrovert update - spot on. Good going my friend.
I may be back to edit after reading the others...if work does not hijack me away from here...
Edited (and hopefully i can finish before i do really have to leave for work):
Rutu - i think you were spot-on for all 4 traits. Zoya is obvious and easy to do. Asad is way more difficult but easier to see if you put the whole together: Introvert - Intuitive - Thinking - Judging. The traits hang together, and Asad is a study-book case in point.
I think you were struggling the most with intuitive vs sensing. Well, like you said, we all have both, its just a question of which one is more dominant. And the flip side is, and what psych books conveniently neglect to tell us: the dominance changes, the dominance can be due to circumstances/upbringing/inherent personality (and hence the reason for it "changing").
Take the example of Asad going after Zoya to stop her from leaving. On the face of it, he didn't believe her and let her go. Then why did he find it so very easy to believe that she was innocent? And what was the proof? A video of her chatting with his brother. Ummm - sorry, that would not count as proof for a thinking and judging person you know (the video could be doctored, so what if she said all that - she could still have had another motive, etc etc etc). He believed - because he intuitively knew her to be innocent and just wanted an external excuse to hang on as a reason.
This would turn into a fascinating convo but real life is calling and i gotta run 😭.
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