Can we blame Purvi ? - Page 2

Originally posted by: ilovedhanjanird

Doesn't matter where she is from , but she is human
How can they treat her like she is no one
How can manjusha keep saying that and sulo and Vinod listen ?
How can Savita say that ? Who is she ? 😡

Hypocrites, hypocrites, hypocrites all of them.

Originally posted by: ilovedhanjanird

Guys sometimes I wonder if the treatment would be same towards Purvi if she was Archana's biological child
And not adopted , what if Archana for prego with her after Manav left for Canada
I have no problem if they blame Purvi , because what she did was wrong
But blaming her for everything that's going around is nonsense

I think for as long as she was outside the D clan whilst they were in Canada making their fortune she would be considered and outsider. They need Archana to come and set them straight.

Well said, Waneeka! Thats what bothers me the most! The cruelty of people who keep on reminding her that shes adopted and that shes not a part of the family. That makes her even more desperate to belong to that family and she ends up making horrible mistakes called sacrifices and ends up making a mess of everything! Archana brought her up with a lot of love but couldnt give her confidence of belonging. I guess ppl kept on reminding her that shes adopted. That happens a lot with adopted kids in India. Even if the parents accept with love, outsides and extended family never lets them forget.

We live in a cruel world and orphans are the ones who get's the most cruel treatment by this world's people.

I hope Purvi does turn out to be an heiress and Manju and Punni go a doing sashtaang to her (they have no self-respect when it comes to money).

Originally posted by: soapwatcher1

I hope Purvi does turn out to be an heiress and Manju and Punni go a doing sashtaang to her (they have no self-respect when it comes to money).

Aaji Sulo will be first in line to forgive and forget all the bhools.

I think they are all wrong. The Purvi thing always bothers me because every one tried to build a relationship between Purvi and the Deshmukhs. Purvi should've never been the same daughter to Manav as Ovi and Teju are to Manav. It makes no sense because one she is not his daughter, two because he has never known her. Someday she might have the same position in their lives as Teju and Ovi but that day is not here yet. In real life, or in more realistic tv shows even when biological parents meet their kids they do not bond right away. It takes time to know each other before you can you have an actual relationship. I do not understand why everyone expects Manav and the Deshmukhs to treat Purvi the same way as they treat Teju, Ovi or Sachin. She is only related to them through Archana. I think they have known her for less than a year considering she was gone for more than half of her pregnancy?

I agree, the way in which Purvi is being treated shows the extreme lack of intelligence of many small minded people. Orphans should be treated with greater care and love.

I pretty much agree with what u said! , Purvi thinks she owes he life to the deshmukhs and archana! ...I hate the fact that she tries to be mahaan for one person but doesnt realize that if its going to make one person happy its also going to make many sad! she does all her mahaanta and then in the end all she does is start crying! ...I MEAN HONTESLY! Who told u to be such a mahaan girl Nd present ur self as the GOD! It may not be completely her fault but she isnt a 5 year old!!