Can we blame Purvi ?

Winzy

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Purvi has done many , many mistakes
But can we really blame her given her psyche ?
She thinks she owes her life to archu and the deshmukhs
Idk why she thinks she owes her life to deshmukhs
But in every instance some member or the other reminds her how she is from the streets , she is an orphan
So she is an orphan , that's why she is not human ?
We can blame Purvi all we want
But I think she is only responsible for 50% of the wrong she has done
Rest is everyone who reminded her whee she is from , and the life she has if not for them

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sonycs001

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Posted: 12 years ago

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what you said is true

everyone remains her as a orphan

now a days even sulochana also sees her as a orphan

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ParinConnects

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Posted: 12 years ago

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waneeka agree with your post...we cant blame purvi totally...because every now and then everyone reminds her that she is an orphan...it would be better she had her own family...

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Ume Salma Kakal

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Posted: 12 years ago

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True Purvi is at fault but not entirely.

All her life she has been reminded that she has been picked up from the streets by Archana.

This has screwed with her mentality big time. She did her part and now she owns nothing to the K's or D's families.

she should start concentrating on her own life and forget those ungrateful people.

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Winzy

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Guys sometimes I wonder if the treatment would be same towards Purvi if she was Archana's biological child
And not adopted , what if Archana for prego with her after Manav left for Canada
I have no problem if they blame Purvi , because what she did was wrong
But blaming her for everything that's going around is nonsense

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Sakhile

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Purvi portratys the fate of every orphan everywhere in the world where they are adopted into small minded families who can neever see past the blood running in their veins.

Purvi like every other person has her faults, which has little to do with the fact that she is an orphan. She however, has a great need to be accepted and loved. This need is never completely filled by either the Ds or the Ks. When she eventually finds someone who loves her for her, he is stolen by a member of the D. She willingly gives him up, because she believes she owes them an eternal debt. This is her biggest fault and causes her the biggest amount of grief. It's time for her to realise that she owes the Ds and Ks nothing. She has repaid them multifold. She must now get out of this group and build a life of her own where she is loved for being her nto for the happiness she brings others.

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nelum

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Umm...actually Purvi is not from the streets. When her parent's died, she was in the CAR with them during the accidents. Her parents might be rich than the Karanjkar, who can't even afford a car. I don't even know if the Deshmukh's have a car, they always walk around on the streets. So Sulochona, Savita and Manav should talk to Purvi with respect, at least her parents are literate.

One question, How the hell did Manav become a successful business man? He only studied until 8th grade. I know why because of DK, and now Manav is ruling DK's world like his own. Ashna is probably cursing the D clan and the Karanjkar clan from her grave.

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Winzy

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Posted: 12 years ago

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I don't think any adopted child in the world owes anyone anything
Because they fulfill an emptiness in their parents' or families' lives with just their mere presence
I hope she realizes the fact , she owes nothing to anyone
And moves on , and doesn't look back
She needs to stop thinking about Ovi and the deshmukhs
She is not their responsibility

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Winzy

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: arshi_arvi
Umm...actually Purvi is not from the streets. When her parent's died, she was in the CAR with them during the accidents. Her parents might be rich other than the Karanjkar, who can't even afford a car. I don't even know if the Deshmukh's have a car, they always walk around on the streets.

Doesn't matter where she is from , but she is human
How can they treat her like she is no one
How can manjusha keep saying that and sulo and Vinod listen ?
How can Savita say that ? Who is she ? 😡

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Sakhile

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: ilovedhanjanird
I don't think any adopted child in the world owes anyone anything
Because they fulfill an emptiness in their parents' or families' lives with just their mere presence
I hope she realizes the fact , she owes nothing to anyone
And moves on , and doesn't look back
She needs to stop thinking about Ovi and the deshmukhs
She is not their responsibility

I agree she must now just give them up as lost causes just as they have discarded her. She must accept that she is not their responsibility and they are not her responsibility.

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