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Im a bit of a silent reader when it comes to this forum but today I decided to make a post as I was a little confused. I'm deeming it hard to understand why is everyone so against Asad in this forum.
I have been watching qubool hai from the very first epi and since its my fav show I practically remember all the details of the show. It is hard to understand why Asad is not just confessing his love for Zoya but we also know that Asad is a bit of a puzzle, there are so many layers to his feelings that we should not just accept everything for face value
I think that to say Asad is in denial or is hurting Zoya is an unfair accusation
He has accepted that he loves Zoya. He knows that from all his past actions.
Coming back from Mangalpur he was in denial but after Tanveers entrance you can practically see him giving into his feelings (through the smiles). He is not in denial but not responding to these feelings for 4 reasons:
- He is scared that he will end up hurting the woman he loves the most like his father did (if u watched Qubool hai from the beginning you would know thats the primary reason he was against marriage. Discussions about marriage with his mum.
- He is wounded by his past and feels he has nothing to offer Zoya apart from pain. He doesnt want to give Zoya any high expectation from him as he knows he would never live up to it. To hide this reason he uses the cover up reason of Zoya being too modern for his liking.
- Him and Zoya are too different. He loves Zoya but he might not be able to see a happy future together due to the differing opinions they have about tameez and traditions, values and principles. They might not be able to live in an amicable manner in the future together and might not want Zoya to change for him, or he change for her.
- He doesnt think Zoya feels that strongly for him yet he cant let her go completely. Makes sense as he has shown time and time again his care for Zoya. Not just mangalpur but he has also verbalised that if something happened to her he would go crazy. He put himself out there and told her indirectly that he wished for her not to go but cant say it to her face. His tears hearing about her past, his support for her and so on have all been a display of his affection Apart from Zoyas petty jealousy Asad has never really seen her love for him. She has never said anything to him but expects him to make the first move. Zoya knows Asad loves her but Asad is still unsure. Understandable in my opinion as Zoya acts indifferent to him as well sometimes.
About Ayaan and Zoya and being sacrificed. If it does come to that I dont think it will be in a way in which everyone expects it to be. Asad loves little brother so sacrifice Zoya for him.
It wont work like that for sure. Asad would do anything for his brother but not against someones wishes. If he knows for 100% that Zoya loves him and him only than the sacrificing track will not come into the equation first place.
However, sacrficing for Zoyas happiness is a different matter. It would follow the concept that true love is able to see their love with another for the sake for her happiness. If he sees Ayaan and Zoya happy and jovial together than Asad would back away. He would not push Zoya into Ayaans arms nor try to separate them but be indifferent. For this to happen there will be alot of misapprehensions, confusion and misunderstandings between the two (so nothing new there). As they say, sometimes true love will forces us to put a person that we truly loves own well being before our own.
True love is in giving, not in getting; in losing; not in gaining; in realizing, not in possessing. 😃
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