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Posted: 19 years ago
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Why Girls?

  1. Why girls are forced to marry at such a young age. Some parents force their child to be like this and that and if you don't they won't like you and all? Why girls don't have open choice like boys? I mean when boys are old and fat; their parents don't say anything and spend the life as they want. I agree in today's world, situation like this are very few to be found but if you look more close in middle east and middle class families, they face such situation why? Is that a way of implying that their daughter is burden on them?
  2. Employment discrimination. Even in today's' such issues are commonly found. Moth sexes doing the same job with same working hours are paid differently? Why? Women/Girls are paid lower why? Is it because women are not considered that smart than men? I agree woman have duties to mother their child. In fact I think Woman do a lot of work compared to men. Again these depend of some. Furthermore the chance of getting man a job is more compared to woman if they both are good qualified with good work experience.
  3. If girls get pregnant before marriage? They carry all the blame and bad wordings of society? Why the boy also plays equal part in making the girl pregnant. They aren't in such situation as girls are.
  4. Ekta's soap all portray the main lead role having pregnant before marriage and carry the blame? What is she trying to prove? I think she certainly is giving bad name to girls and woman in front of the society? Marriages are more than one!

And there are more. Please mention if you have. I will also but right that's what I can think of?

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Posted: 19 years ago
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Why Why Why ??????????

Point 1: All girls are not married off at young age!

Point 2: I don't know which job you are talking about.This point U mentioned is applied in construction work,I say in that field men work more,so more pay.

Point 3:Not bothered about those girls who are irresponsible

Point 4:Ekta big fool and we who watch her serials are superfools. Don't you know " Unmarried Pregnant heroines " and "Brainless Buisiness Tycoon heroes" are Ekta's lucky Mascots!!!!!!!!!

Cheers,

Mythili

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Posted: 19 years ago
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~ marriage yes, it happens but only some people's views...

~ as far as jobs go i dont agree with that....my mom makes more money than my dad, even in her industry she is one of the highest paid, men/women included....times are changing...

~ and ekta's dramas...well its tv....they are shows and are meant to be shows....they arent meant to be real life nor are they portrayed that way....so take them as shows.....

but i know what ur point it....certain things women are discriminated against but its people's thinking.....but times are indeed changing and women are given due credit....

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Posted: 19 years ago
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I think it is all society based. In asian countries, girls do not have any choice...pressure from parents, and stuff like that. Whereas, in america or england, it is the opposite. 😡
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Posted: 19 years ago
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it tottaly depends on where ure from
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Posted: 19 years ago
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It all depends on your background.

I really can't relate to these situations because there has been very little discrimination in my case. My father always wanted a girl while the rest of the family was happy to have a baby in the family regardless of gender. While some people did want me to be a boy that was only because they had seen some very unhappy and supressed girls and wanted their baby to be happy.

But yes, I agree, my mother tells me to work harder and learn more chores so that I can be happy after marriage. I always argue with her on this point as it seems rather sexist. But she has a reason - she has seen it with her own eyes so I don't blame her. But over all, I have always been given equal or higher status than a boy.

Employment discrimination: I don't which countries practise this but in a country of India it is equal pay for equal work.

Children out of wedlock: Our stupid society 😡

Ekta: Man's mind in a women's body. 😡 She has never married and probably never understood the delicate nature of relationships.
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Posted: 19 years ago
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There is just a double standard in today's society for men and women, and there is nothing we can do about it except maybe create a new world on the moon or something, but then there will always be something else that people will discriminate against. It is human nature to pick out certain things that don't make much of a difference and make it an important part of our daily lives.

But it still makes me sick to hear about it! 🤢
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Posted: 19 years ago
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i am so agreeing with u !!!U R RITE....EKTA JSUT DOESNOT HAVE SENSE and the marriage part.....Y DO THE GIRLS HAVE TO MARRY WEN THEIR PARENTS SAY....AND GUYS GET TO GET MARRIED WEN THEY WANT.....I REALLLY HATE THT TOOOO 😳 😳 😳



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Posted: 19 years ago
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abt marriage.. it deepends in what society u r brought up, like me i m not forced into any marriage, yes i knw ma parents are worried abt ma future but thy wont force me to marry unless n untill i m ready n i tell thm so tht i wont to get married to this guy.

work place: over here we are paid equal to the mans or sometimes higher.

Pregnant before marriage: blaming girls alone is not right but sometimes we girls ourselve are at faults thts y some of them comes in the talks of the boys who just wants to bed them n sometimes no fault of girls but unfortunately our society likes to blame girls for this...

Ekta: i hae stoped watching her serials as its beyound reality.. if there was a bit of reality thn i would have kept on watching..
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Posted: 19 years ago
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i agree still now in some places all this discrimination is going on but not in all places. it is getting better

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