Originally posted by: BarunDiwani
Originally posted by ArshiHameshaOriginally posted by BarunDiwaniHi guys, Thanks to a comment ArshiH made on my 100 got me to explain something about the hug that i didnt bother to include in the analysis. According to me its interesting and want to know other points of views.
While Khushi was pouring her heart out to Arnav, was she expecting a hug in return? IMO, I may be the only one to feel this way but i feel like she wasn't even thinking about a returned embrace from him in her state of mind, she just needed to let it out, she just needed his shoulder to cry on. Then she finally came to her right mind, and looked up at him, and he looked down at her, there was a communication made b/w them that really scared her and that is why she stepped back suddenly. I feel like it was just fear of her own feeling, and resentment at her self for needing him (much the same way she yelled at herself after telling him EVERYTHING after the "sorry" scene). Arnav was def feeling bad that he couldn't comfort her but i don't think she was mad at him for not putting his arms around her. I feel him putting his arms around her would've snapped her out of her state of mind faster and caused her to take her head off of his shoulder sooner. just my POV, what do you guys think?
MY PONDERING THOUGHTS:I am not saying she was mad at her but she was baffled about this whole thing and yes I do see a hint of expectation which she did not get but she knows her position and she knows his too , as this whole thing was happened unconsciously and the momet he raised his hands to hug her and does not do it she opened her eyes and then first his expressions were painful towards feeling her pain and her tears and then he has a hint of question why did she move away as he was embracing her his way 😆 but then there is a hint of realization what just happened and he did not give her what she was expecting and then she stepped back when he called her"Khushi" by expressing his regret and nodding his head and she just does not want that public scene along with her fears so she turned and ran away
His regret couldn't let him stay calm as back and forth walk and then same thing in his head "may be she wanted me to say something and why I couldn't put my hand on her-----" and then Anjali made this regret more strong "Yehi to mein use de nahin paya jab use iss ki sab se ziyada zaroorat thi-------Sab theek ho gyega"
When she is alone why did I need his shoulder to cry why did I cry infront of him as she does not want to show him her weakness as she was so vulnerable but her ego and self respect does not allow her to do so the same way she did after sorry why did I run away from there why did I share all those as that shows her vulnerability and just like him she is a little ASR does not want to share or show her weaknesses but she does and only him "expectation and dependence" is right there the same way her reflection in the car viewing mirror when he asks her to take the money and go to your home by yourself and again she did not take money and gets down but her dependence which is totally unconsciously is there right seeing him leaving there with pain just like in this scene.She wasn't expecting hug or what ever but her expectation want him to embrace her with warm words of comfort which could be proven her strength as that's what she was looking for and all this happen unconsciously as he will do the same during Diwali kiss before Aman will do the damage to our hearts
Thanks so much Arshi for elaborating! 😊. So in the blue the first paragraph, i think we both are just interpreting the scene differently.
The way i looked at the scene, she just kept talking and he took it all in, she had no idea what was going through his head, in her state of mind, here was his shoulder and she cried away. It was only after she finished all her crying that she lifted her head as she slowly came back to reality...completely oblivious to Arnav's whole conflict, she looked up and he looked down, even with out the embrace, the look in his eye gave her ever reason to believe that he felt her pain, they were so close looking at each other, imo saw each other's souls (the gust of wind in the beginning suggest to me that it was their souls meeting). this scared her and she stepped back. and when he said Khushi again, yes he wanted her back in his arms, seeing her tears i think he wanted to embrace her but by that time it was too late, she wasn't in that state anymore... and as far as his pacing back and forth in his room later thinking that she wanted him to say those things but when she's alone we never hear her say "why didn't he hug me back?" it was more of why did i need him? similarly to her question herself after the " sorry" scene "why did i have to tell him everything?"
and what you say in purple i see what you're saying. But i feel the way he called out to her and how her pain transferred to his face (she noticed), how he stood there, didn't push her away (as ASR is very capable to being so mean) and how tenderly he looked in her eyes when she looked up at him are all attest to his being there because he cared. in fact i think its what she saw in tender look is precisely what scared her in addition to the realization that she crossed her limits.
I hope my points are coming through , great discussion! it's probably down to just how we are looking at one scene differently😊
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