The need to get Asad Jealous and More...

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Posted: 12 years ago
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I don't know what the fixation is with people to get Asad jealous in order to realize he loves Zoya. I find this to be a rather tasteless and unoriginal idea that I see proposed on every forum by members to get a guy to confess his feelings for a girl. Since I've been on india forum (since 2009), on every show I have enjoyed, this is the only story line that viewers seem to get excited about. I personally find it to be useless and uninteresting.

The fact is that a guy should fall for a girl because he sees qualities in her that he likes and not because he fears losing her because some else is taking an interest in her. So a guy takes an interest in Zoya and then what, Asad suddenly announces he loves Zoya...that is the whole storyline?😕 I would much rather Asad confess how he feels because he can no longer contain his feelings for Zoya and wants her because he is crazy about her rather than out of fear of losing her to another guy.

Another idea that I often see proposed his the idea of wanting a guy to be possessive about a girl - that's a bit disturbing to me. I see some stories and some thoughts of a guy getting upset if another guy flirts with her. In one fan fiction - which I did like - it is a shopkeeper and Asad gets jealous. A male friend said, that if a shop assistant flirted with his girl he'd sock him one not because he was jealous but because he knows his girl would not welcome that type of batameezi and especially in his presence. It would have nothing to do with his own insecurities because he knows the girl is his..and she eyes for him only.

Confidence is very appealing in a guy and a guy who is secure and confident is NEVER possessive about his girl, whom she talks to and how she dresses. If he is, there is a problem either with him or the girl. If it is the girl, she might have a history of lose behavior that would set even the most secure guy off and if that is the case, perhaps he should not be with her. But in general, a confident and secure man does not have need to be possessive or controlling - it is not romantic or sexy and often men like this do turn out to be abusive.

A more entertaining storyline would be Asad cracking up at Zoya's terrible efforts to get him jealous and him finding it rather adorable and endearing - her attempts to make him jealous.

If Asad and Zoya are going to confess, how about it happen without the need for another person making someone else jealous We've had our share with Tanveer; that's enough - we don't need another round. Even if Asad does not confess his love for Zoya right away, I hope that she continues to stay with him even after realizing who her father is and how she cannot bond with him and that her destination and home is with Asad and his family.



Edited by Laila2009 - 12 years ago

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Posted: 12 years ago
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nice update . when ll asad confess his love with zoya. i want to see only asya. not ayan and zoya. humeira only for ayan . zoya ll stay in asad home only . there is no seperation b/w asya . thats it
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Posted: 12 years ago
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You make very valid points, Laila! In reality, it is a little disturbing. But I am very cray-cray and so the thought of a jealous, possessive Asad makes me go

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Posted: 12 years ago
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It's the mills and boon effect Laila. I would rather not see an insecure Asad.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I ain't saying I want to see an insecure and overly possesive Asad, I surely do not want him confessing because of some third person either. But there something entertaining in watching the leads get jealous. I know jealousy is not a good emotion or feeling, its not something that should be encouraged in any relationship but it is in a twisted way of showing love nowadays. It is like a small push towards realization and if it can push Asad a lil out of his denial then Im all for it.

Jealousy and fear of losing something precious also makes us realise how important it is for us. Its sorta a wake up call but sometimes in jealousy you tend not to look at the big picture. When I say I want a jealous Asad, its not that I want him to confess but its more like I want him to realise if he thinks she is a misfit for him then might be else out there is some guy who will think she is a complete Miss.Fit for him. He will understand that he cant expect her to run after him while he keeps pampering that one eyed chudail. He sorta takes her always being there for granted sometimes and this lil flame of jealousy will nudge him a bit towards that realisation.

Now that being said, I DO NOT want him confessing or realizing only because of jealousy. IT can be small stepping stone in that direction but nothing more. In the end I rather see him analysing, understanding and realising the depth of his love by himseld. I want him to go crazy for her due to the love he feels for her not because of some third angle.

Ok im not sure if I was explain that clearly 😆

And about the idea of Zoya trying to forcibly make him jealous, Not that keen on that because I have seen how that plays out in many shows and believe me I find it cringeworthy to see the heroine make a fool outta herself while the hero sits there and laughs, taking her emotions for granted yet again. Its even worse when the hero tries to make her jealous as pay back 🤢


@last para:
EXACTLY how I want them to realise their love.
Edited by Rin03 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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TFS :)
Bt i want some of the things not all
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Yes nice post , love the first two para's , I do not want Love ka reason to be Jealosuy oh he loves her cause he is jealous if he sees her with someone else , agrees So fat they have not done that Asad's Love is True and natural without Jealousy thing so I do not mind Jealousy Cause of Love but not crazy acts of Jealousy !

And Possesiveness , personally i like A guy who is possessive About those little things only not OTT possesiveness like punch a guys talking to me or etc .

:D

Zoya's "Jealousy" so far has bot been Sabotaging kind , I mean it was needed for her to atleast Dig out the burried feelings Asad realized it after he almost lost her to death and she did not realize it but had it in her and after the bhang night around tanveer'entry it was a reality check!

But i do not want Jealousy to be OTT and excessively used :)




And Last part : 👏
Edited by Ishaaxx - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Before I say anything, I have to confess I am one of those who wants to see a jealous Asad.

But I agree with your post or rather some aspects of the post
I definitely do not want to see Asad confessing his love to Zoya as soon as he goes jealous and insecure. As you rightly pointed out, we don't want him to confess because he is insecure. But its a universally agreed point that you realize the value of someone, especially when you take them for granted, only when you see losing them. So, jealousy track does some good in getting the feelings out

However, the reason I want jealous asad is because we have hardly seen him going behind Zoya or missing her or anything so far. It has been always the other way round - zoya used to be behind him even before Tanveer's entry. Also, it would be uber cute and hilarious just so because he is not the one to express his jealousy easily. He would do it in his own fashion which I bet is going to be super duper interesting to watch. So, I want a third angle only as a filler track just for a few episodes. So, I don't wish Ayaan to be that third angle at all.

I don't know/care about other shows. The only show I watched before is DMG which did have a jealousy track with RM initially but then AR have confessed already by then.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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I agree with you. I don't want any third party coming between for them to realise their feelings. I want him to accept his feelings by realising that he is hurting her the most by sending her further away from himself, not because of some jealousy issue. Instead of him feeling guilty, I would be happier if he accepts his feelings. Also Zoya has not realised and accepted her feelings for Asad either.

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