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nolla

@nolla

Rocker

Posted: 12 years ago

Please Guys This War Between Us Is Going Too Far!!!!!!

Why don't we concentrate on what to do so that we can all appreciate the show, the Forum, each one's view,...

All we do is fight, we get others posts wrong, we misunderstand or misinterpret. We are one and in the same boat, all we need is to fix our direction and destination.

With this, am not asking those who are fighting to bring back PRATS not to do so!! In fact I encourage them to do so. If they go through then that's a victory for many.

My request is, respect each other, learn to live together even with our differences, that's what makes the world go round otherwise what would the world be????

Also, for those who have moved on with the change, try and understand those who are still moaning, we all have different ways of dealing with situations, so please bear with everyone and each other.

PLEASE GUYS THIS IS NOT A WAR ZONE ALL I WANT IS PEACE, AND A WAY TO COMMUNICATE WITHOUT VIOLENCE OR FIGHTING. BUT IF YOU THINK THAT AM ASKING TOO MUCH PLEASE FORGIVE ME, I LL TRY BETTER NEXT TIME.

I LOVE YOU ALL, RESPECT ALL OF YOU AND YOUR POINT OF VIEWS

nolla

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Rkalpana

@Rkalpana

Explorer

Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: nolla
PLEASE GUYS THIS WAR BETWEEN US IS GOING TOO FAR!!!!!!

WHY DON'T WE CONCENTRATE ON WHAT TO DO SO THAT WE CAN ALL APPRECIATE THE SHOW, THE FORUM, EACH ONE'S VIEW,...

ALL WE DO IS FIGHT, WE GET OTHERS POSTS WRONG, WE MISUNDERSTAND OR MISINTERPRET. WE ARE ONE AND IN THE SAME BOAT, ALL WE NEED IS TO FIX OUR DIRECTION.

WITH THIS, AM ASKING THOSE WHO ARE FIGHTING TO BRING BACK PRATS NOT TO DO SO!! IN FACT I ENCOURAGE THEM TO DO SO. IF THEY GO THROUGH THEN THATS A VICTORY FOR MANY.

MY REQUEST RESPECT EACH OTHER, LEARN TO LIVE TOGETHER EVEN WITH OUR DIFFERENCES, THATS WHAT MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND OTHERWISE WHAT WOULD THE WORLD BE????

ALSO, FOR THOSE WHO HAVE MOVED ON WITH THE CHANGE, UNDERSTAND THOSE WHO ARE STILL MOANING. WE ALL HAVE DIFFERENT WAYS OF DEALING WITH SITUATIONS, SO PLEASE BEAR WITH EVERYONE AND EACH OTHER.

@bold - all we have to do is this only. I used to read posts of this forum long before I joined IF. There were always sensible discussions in this forum. All that changed just because change of one lead actress. The people are cursing the show, enjoying the fall in TRP and finding faults in replacement.. As regard red above, I understand the frustration of those people. And I also appeal all members to try to give a thought to blue above.

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divine_ram

@divine_ram

Sparkler

Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: Rkalpana
@bold - all we have to do is this only. I used to read posts of this forum long before I joined IF. There were always sensible discussions in this forum. All that changed just because change of one lead actress. The people are cursing the show, enjoying the fall in TRP and finding faults in replacement.. As regard red above, I understand the frustration of those people. And I also appeal all members to try to give a thought to blue above.

Any bashing is fine till u show respect to the show which entertained u from these many years. But cursing the show to shut down is just like bashing any actor on looks.

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anamika84

@anamika84

Beginner

Posted: 12 years ago

Well said Nola.. I agree each one has a different mechanism to deal with situations.. And we should try to respect that..

While a lot of us are yet to accept the replacement, some of us have already done so readily.. So if comments on Toral's acting/looks are considered as bashing, praising her incessantly is also irritating..

I feel what can be done is allow members to speak their minds.. Just simply don't visit or comment on the thread that you donot like and let those who think alike discuss.. On major threads like WU or episode discussion, everybody should have the freedom to express their views without being brash.. After all this is our forum, where we've made a lot of friends!!

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Nandita / Tina

@5cents

Rocker

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: anamika84
Well said Nola.. I agree each one has a different mechanism to deal with situations.. And we should try to respect that..

While a lot of us are yet to accept the replacement, some of us have already done so readily.. So if comments on Toral's acting/looks are considered as bashing, praising her incessantly is also irritating..

I feel what can be done is allow members to speak their minds.. Just simply don't visit or comment on the thread that you donot like and let those who think alike discuss.. On major threads like WU or episode discussion, everybody should have the freedom to express their views without being brash.. After all this is our forum, where we've made a lot of friends!!

Anamika, I'm so with you on this one. The part in bold completely agree. Yes, people shd be allowed to express their displeasure in written updates and episode discussions threads.

It always takes 2 to fight. Mostly (I hope ) we are all adults so why can't we live & let live. Even I get irritated with this. If folks would do elimination of nonessential according to them this place will be wonderful. You know what is happening btw P & T fans ...some folks who are neither fans nor follow BV regularly are just simply here to fan the flames and we the real BV followers are feeling the heat of the flame of the actors FANS!

Before the replacement also sometimes some random Jagia & Aji reunion thread will erupt and there will be full blown war here. I'm sure many wanted JaAn to get back together as they were original Baalak vaar& vadhu. But the writers had a different vision & we the new comers loved his vision and fell for his trump card CS Shiv Raj Shekahr and stared watching it the show😳. Like in real world we think & speak (most of the time😉) we shd choose and reply here. What is meant for entertainment shd remain that. If it is bothering us then it sure cannot be entertainment.

When we were kids we were taught...If you want to conquer the devil, arm yourself with humility.😆 Just in jest *PEACE*

@ Nolla, posting in caps is considered shouting in net so if you could please change the fonts😳 . Thanks

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nolla

@nolla

Rocker

Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: anamika84
Well said Nola.. I agree each one has a different mechanism to deal with situations.. And we should try to respect that..

While a lot of us are yet to accept the replacement, some of us have already done so readily.. So if comments on Toral's acting/looks are considered as bashing, praising her incessantly is also irritating..

I feel what can be done is allow members to speak their minds.. Just simply don't visit or comment on the thread that you donot like and let those who think alike discuss.. On major threads like WU or episode discussion, everybody should have the freedom to express their views without being brash.. After all this is our forum, where we've made a lot of friends!!

Exactly my dear, you even out stood my TM with your POV, I wish that many can do the same.

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Yash Pal Dhavan

@Yash.Pal

Voyager

Posted: 12 years ago

@Nolla, super post, really summarises what a lot of us feel. From now on wet or dry scene, new smile or old smile, hot versus cold, white flag it is guys . . .

Peace, Shaniti

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nolla

@nolla

Rocker

Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: Yash.Pal
@Nolla, super post, really summarises what a lot of us feel. From now on wet or dry scene, new smile or old smile, hot versus cold, white flag it is guys . . .

Peace, Shaniti

I wish everyone thinks the same. Am sure we would be living in heaven.

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nolla

@nolla

Rocker

Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: 5cents

Anamika, I'm so with you on this one. The part in bold completely agree. Yes, people shd be allowed to express their displeasure in written updates and episode discussions threads.
It always takes 2 to fight. Mostly (I hope ) we are all adults so why can't we live & let live. Even I get irritated with this. If folks would do elimination of nonessential according to them this place will be wonderful. You know what is happening btw P & T fans ...some folks who are neither fans nor follow BV regularly are just simply here to fan the flames and we the real BV followers are feeling the heat of the flame of the actors FANS!

Before the replacement also sometimes some random Jagia & Aji reunion thread will erupt and there will be full blown war here. I'm sure many wanted JaAn to get back together as they were original Baalak vaar& vadhu. But the writers had a different vision & we the new comers loved his vision and fell for his trump card CS Shiv Raj Shekahr and stared watching it the show😳. Like in real world we think & speak (most of the time😉) we shd choose and reply here. What is meant for entertainment shd remain that. If it is bothering us then it sure cannot be entertainment.

When we were kids we were taught...If you want to conquer the devil, arm yourself with humility.😆 Just in jest *PEACE*

@ Nolla, posting in caps is considered shouting in net so if you could please change the fonts😳 . Thanks

Will do that now. Thanx But b4 i start, wanted to tell you that you have given me a big job here😆😆

Edited by nolla - 12 years ago