Let's Understand Bharti Periwal.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Today was an emotionally power-packed episode and so far the most elaborate one when it comes to the thoughts, dilemma, worries, nature of each character.

There were many things in today's episode which cleared many doubts.

Why does Bharti hates Rahul?

Bharti is a dutiful daughter in law who manages her work as well as her house. we often see her laying the table at dinner time, telling her kids that she l only cook the food, preparing for her lectures for the next day college and taking care of her house too. She is well read, well educated then why does she behaves badly with Rahul?

Today some of her statements really touched me and they were actually true-- something we all must have experienced or our friends must have experienced.

The FB scene of school photo where the photographer tells Madhav to change seat and asks Rahul to come right in the focus because madhav doesnt have good looks would make any mother feel bad for her child.

I m not justifying Bharti but simply trying to understand her. like the school pic many more incidents must have happened leading to Bharti's hatered or dislike for Rahul

The crux of her attitude lies in last few lines spoken by her:

"Mera beta sirf surat me hi peche rhe gya hai
par baki her cheez me vo sabse agge hai sabse behtar hai

Kyu mere bete ko log uski shakal surat se hi pehchante hai?" 😭

These lines clearly show that she doesnt hate Rahul on purpose but she wants people to look beyond looks too...!!

Many of such incidents have occured with us too. most common example being "the guy u have a crush on likes a different girl or may be ur best friend. why? because she has a body to die for" and u are left thinking "really does ONLY a good body matters? what about a person's nature?"

This show is an attempt to bring about some changes in our thought process

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Posted: 12 years ago
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rahul was born with that face, and every time he is given preference but he doesnt want it
i dont understand bharti because she is not a dutiful daughter in law, she is so rude to her own mother in law
she suppressed madhav inside the web of insecurity
she could boost him up if she wanted
"kitna gora" always worked for rahul but he doesnt boost about it
he could have been much worse given his looks
he owns a whole radio station he doesnt need to stick around for bharti's rudeness but he does it for madhav
being educated is okay, but this woman lacks understanding skills
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Neha its perfect. Any mother will feel bad and they care more for the child who has an issue. I am not sure it is happening now or not but some time back when marriage proposal comes, mother used to ask her good looking other girls not to come in front of the guests so that the focus will be on the girl for whom the proposal is sought.

When own mother can do these kind of things, Bharati being a strict and aggressive woman, her talks are justified. But after so many incidents like this, she formed prejudice and a stereotype view on Rahul and she is not seeing things with an objectivity any more.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: ApoorvaFan

Neha its perfect. Any mother will feel bad and they care more for the child who has an issue. I am not sure it is happening now or not but some time back when marriage proposal comes, mother used to ask her good looking other girls not to come in front of the guests so that the focus will be on the girl for whom the proposal is sought.


When own mother can do these kind of things, Bharati being a strict and aggressive woman, her talks are justified. But after so many incidents like this, she formed prejudice and a stereotype view on Rahul and she is not seeing things with an objectivity any more.


lovely example!! such things happen even now. and the soul reason is so that the child with not so good looks should not feel let down... Here Bharti is not Rahul's biological mother so little dislike is expected of her
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: ilovedhanjanird

rahul was born with that face, and every time he is given preference but he doesnt want it

i dont understand bharti because she is not a dutiful daughter in law, she is so rude to her own mother in law
she suppressed madhav inside the web of insecurity
she could boost him up if she wanted
"kitna gora" always worked for rahul but he doesnt boost about it
he could have been much worse given his looks
he owns a whole radio station he doesnt need to stick around for bharti's rudeness but he does it for madhav
being educated is okay, but this woman lacks understanding skills


NO she didnt suppressed Madhav. madhav himself have been a wittness to many incidents where he had to feel let down because of his looks.

Where as there have many scenes where Bharti tells madhav to be bold and confident as he has all the talent. like before the press conference she insisted madhav to give the interview so his caliber is known to all and he too gains confidence...

Madhav's thoughts are what he has build up on his own. he could be confident like pallavi but he is totally opposite.

Rahul owns a whole radio station...but have u seen him working?? all i have seen him is coming and going to the gym or sitting on the office couch with legs up eating an apple where madhav is always on the laptop.

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