Asad really loves Zoya? He DOES NOT

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trina2010

@trina2010

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Posted: 12 years ago

I understand that I might have to eat my words very soon , but really IS THIS LOVE?

I mean I understand Asad is a dark man with a dark past and he is trying his best to push Zoya away from him. We all saw his love for Zoe, he goes mad when Zoe is in danger, he tries to protect her now and then, forum 32 articles also says that Asad is a man in love, with Zoya.

But but but no matter what can someone hurt his/her love this way he is doing and stay sane and happy at the same time?

He knew Zoya did not eat but he scolded her. I get that he was angry and That BB manipulated him , but no matter what how is he tolerating Zoyas misery after all the things happened between them in the past?

I wonder😕

How is he living with himself after repeatedly hurting a sweet , caring orphan girl who wants nothing but his attention and care?

On top of that he is all mushy with his so called friend , whom he is kinda using to get rid of Zoyas influence on him.

IS THIS LOVE?

I don't think so.

Feel free to share your views too.

EDIT NOW ZOYA is not even worthy of living with any family. Who talks like that about a person who never had a family since childhood?

I don't think any woman no matter how bad she is deserves such a person as her lover. Forget Zoya. She is a GEM. Asad has to reborn 100 times to be able to even think about Soya.

Edited by trina2010 - 12 years ago

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trina2010

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Posted: 12 years ago

Please guys share your views please.

Negetive, positive whatever feel free to share.

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call me- East

@eastmeetswest

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: trina2010
I understand that I might have to eat my words very soon , but really IS THIS LOVE?
I mean I understand Asad is a dark man with a dark past and he is trying his best to push Zoya away from him. We all saw his love for Zoe, he goes mad when Zoe is in danger, he tries to protect her now and then, forum 32 articles also says that Asad is a man in love, with Zoya.
But but but no matter what can someone hurt his/her love this way he is doing and stay sane and happy at the same time?
He knew Zoya did not eat but he scolded her. I get that he was angry and That BB manipulated him , but no matter what how is he tolerating Zoyas misery after all the things happened between them in the past?
I wonder😕
How is he living with himself after repeatedly hurting a sweet , caring orphan girl who wants nothing but his attention and care?
On top of that he is all mushy with his so called friend , whom he is kinda using to get rid of Zoyas influence on him.
IS THIS LOVE?
I don't think so.
Feel free to share your views too.

agreed, i have expressed this endlessly..

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_vineeta_

@_vineeta_

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Posted: 12 years ago

I agree with you on last part specially, he knows she has no one and never could hurt anyone. How can he hurt her knowing all this

In reality a guy like him doesn't deserve even close to girl like Zoya.

I hope they dont make both characters OTT and stop this, its disturbing at this point..

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440733

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Posted: 12 years ago

This is NOT Love.

No way, form or reason can you call this love. Love means respect and trust not the way he treats her.

He likes her, the attraction is strong and that's it.

What Zoya feels is love but maybe also it is due to lonliness, dependency and need for attention ane care of a family which is why she still goes after him even after all the shit he says or does.

Edited by Rin03 - 12 years ago

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trina2010

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: eastmeetswest

agreed, i have expressed this endlessly..

yeah I know but I saw many viewers feel some of us overreacting.Now I know everyone's entitled to their own opinion but I really feel he cannot LOVE her the way we are assuming he does , or else at least he would suffer alone after hurting her.

He seems okayish being too mushy with his friend and rubbing her feet, palms whenever possible. Is this normal?

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trina2010

@trina2010

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: _vineeta_
I agree with you on last part specially, he knows she has no one and never could hurt anyone. How can he hurt her knowing all this

In reality a guy like him doesn't deserve even close to girl like Zoya.
I hope they dont make both characters OTT and stop this, its disturbing at this point..

yes it Is disturbing.

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Jayne

@Jayne

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Posted: 12 years ago

The PH specializes in showing 'love' where the male lead verbally and physically abuses (slaps, grabs, shakes, bruises, etc.) the female lead...and she is supposed be very understanding, the forgive and forget kind.
In response, the PH's excuse for what the female lead does to the male lead is simply pranks, mischief, and so called problems in his daily life/work.
But at no point is the female lead allowed to question or put down the the male lead about his:
ego
family
work ethics
personal ethics
antecedents
character
integrity, etc.

All this and more is done by the male lead to the female lead, however.
This is the so-called 'love', from the POV of the PH and its CVs.
Mind you , majority of the CVs are usually male, and you can bet they will never write such dialogues or scenes into their shows.
Show a woman is strong and can stand her ground regarding her self-respect?
Women actually displaying and acting with intelligence?
Women saying 'so long' to disrespecting men and finding guys who really love and respect them?
Nevah!
The whole cultural institution would come crashing down!😲

I have seen this with Maan in Geet, and ASR in IPKKND.

So we have Ms. Farouqui, another 'strong' girl, who will only 'question' her guy when he is 'allows' it... who will 'stay within her bounds', and always respect him no matter if he treats her like so much rubbish.
'Love' has arrived.😕

Jayne

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desiangel24

@desiangel24

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Posted: 12 years ago

I sort of agree with you.

I'll be honest with you I don't really think its love yet (hopefully it will be later) its just a mere attraction he had. I really don't feel like he loves Zoya because he criticize her for everything, but did he ever hear what she had to say... I don't really remember and please correct me if i'm wrong. (my hindi and english is not that great) When he does say mean things, Zoya has the heart to forgive him and look beyond that. He has to realize that life is not what you really plan or want it to be. Its more or less than a person had envisioned. Zoya may not be mature, responsible, or whatever like his friend but that's what make her Zoya. he can't just push her to the side or use her as a toy when he is furstated with everyone. She's a human being with feelings, emotion and desire. I was really taken back when they both had bhanng pakodas and he said how would you know about parents love or something, you don't have them. That was really mean, rude, selfish, just really upsetting to me. I affected me so much as a viewer, imagine our Zoya.

And if he follows the traditional ways, respect women and all the stuff he says then why didn't he know to keep his limit with slapping Zoya, insulting her, hugging his friend, rubbing her foot. There are boundaries when you reach a certain age. I don't know if I just feel bad for Zoya or what, but I'm really not liking Mr. Khan now.

I would like to see a small track of Zoya and Ayaan I think they complement each other well. I'm not saying they should be together, just only as friends. I think Ayaan would be a stronger support pillar for Zoya than Mr. Khan and hopefully Mr. Khan will learn or even realize.

Please i'm free for all comments, I just want to see what other people would think about it and what they feel too.

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Jayne

@Jayne

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: desiangel24
I sort of agree with you.
I was really taken back when they both had bhanng pakodas and he said how would you know about parents love or something, you don't have them. That was really mean, rude, selfish, just really upsetting to me. I affected me so much as a viewer, imagine our Zoya.
And if he follows the traditional ways, respect women and all the stuff he says then why didn't he know to keep his limit with slapping Zoya, insulting her, hugging his friend, rubbing her foot. There are boundaries when you reach a certain age. I don't know if I just feel bad for Zoya or what, but I'm really not liking Mr. Khan now.
I would like to see a small track of Zoya and Ayaan I think they complement each other well. I'm not saying they should be together, just only as friends. I think Ayaan would be a stronger support pillar for Zoya than Mr. Khan and hopefully Mr. Khan will learn or even realize.

@bold:
Precisely.

He is treating her like a tissue, to be used then thrown, because the CVs are writing her character as such.
One never respects another until the other commands respect (or demands it), and Ms. Farouqui, by being a doormat, is not commanding any respect.

That comment about her parents was cheap, below the belt, and utterly unworthy of a human being, much less one who calles himself a man.
One does not need to be burned to know and respect fire.

I also agree that Mr. Khan's actions are contrary to his preaching. CVs need to watch this. He has been very loose with touching/hugging/falling over Ms. Farouqui, but we have all forgiven that as mutual, irresistible attraction.
Not so with Tunveer. Even if he wants to make a point with Ms. Farouqui, there are ways to ignore her and focus attention on Tunveer without touching his childhood friend.

As for the younger bro, I think he will be an excellent friend and support for Ms. Farouqui. He has actually stayed true to character...a flirt, but a harmless one; never crossing his boundaries, no matter what opportunities have been thrown his way.

It would certainly be a welcome scene to watch if this were to commence.

BTW, is it not a wonder that all these tracks are so tedious and utterly predictable to us?
The CVs for most of the shows are the same group and they keep churning out the same ol', same ol' year after year.
No creativity left.
They ought to change their designation to Garbage Recyclers.

Jayne

Edited by Jayne - 12 years ago

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