Asad really loves Zoya? He DOES NOT - Page 3

I think he is really attracted to her... He has a lot of kashish(attraction) towards her as he said when he was intoxicated... He is trying to run away from his feelings and trying to mask them but I don't think he is quite in love yet... I think when he realizes the true Zoya as in that she saved Najma and went to jail, her painful past, her burn on her arm, etc, he will start to realize his love and actually fall in love with her... Remember, he doesn't know Zoya completely yet.. Yes, he knows her past which did bring them closer, but slowly he will learn about the other sides of Zoya to truly accept her... Her past revealation made him accept some of Zoya's nature but not all of her... He still thinks ill of her on some levels which can only be fixed as he knows more about her and his attraction gets deeper.. Zoya is still a question mark for Asad on some level... He really does LIKE her to a great extent and his liking is on the verge of turning into love, but he is trying his best to seal it and cover it up... Just like he said during the drunk confession " Main apne jazbaaton mein kho nahin sakta... Sapna aur asliat mein bohot farak Hota hai... Aur asliat yeh hai ki aap mere liye bilkul misfit hai" (Translation: I can't lose myself to my feelings and inner turmoil... There is a difference between dreams and reality.. And the reality is that you are a total misfit for me..)

Originally posted by: ritatpatel

What CV's needed to do was to show another male coming into Zoya's life, but not Aayan, who would respect and treat her with dignity. He is taking her for granted, that she will understand EVERYTIME! Is this how you treat a guest in your house? Forget someone you are shown to be in love with now or later. He introduced Zoya so formally to Tanveer as a relative of a friend...and this is how you treat her. She doesn't deserve any abuse from this man, what would happen if she married him. I dislike the way they are portraying him overall, except when he apologizes...but how many times can one accept an apology!

Originally posted by: Jayne

The PH specializes in showing 'love' where the male lead verbally and physically abuses (slaps, grabs, shakes, bruises, etc.) the female lead...and she is supposed be very understanding, the forgive and forget kind.
In response, the PH's excuse for what the female lead does to the male lead is simply pranks, mischief, and so called problems in his daily life/work.
But at no point is the female lead allowed to question or put down the the male lead about his:
ego
family
work ethics
personal ethics
antecedents
character
integrity, etc.

All this and more is done by the male lead to the female lead, however.
This is the so-called 'love', from the POV of the PH and its CVs.
Mind you , majority of the CVs are usually male, and you can bet they will never write such dialogues or scenes into their shows.
Show a woman is strong and can stand her ground regarding her self-respect?
Women actually displaying and acting with intelligence?
Women saying 'so long' to disrespecting men and finding guys who really love and respect them?
Nevah!
The whole cultural institution would come crashing down!😲

I have seen this with Maan in Geet, and ASR in IPKKND.

So we have Ms. Farouqui, another 'strong' girl, who will only 'question' her guy when he is 'allows' it... who will 'stay within her bounds', and always respect him no matter if he treats her like so much rubbish.
'Love' has arrived.😕

Jayne

Hey Jayne yeah I followed IPK from start to finish and loved it. I know how ASR behaved. But at least ASR was shown to have a GF before Khushi whom he used for sometime to stay away from Khushi, but this Asad is using a woman who is merely a friend.

Originally posted by: Jayne

@bold:
Precisely.

He is treating her like a tissue, to be used then thrown, because the CVs are writing her character as such.
One never respects another until the other commands respect (or demands it), and Ms. Farouqui, by being a doormat, is not commanding any respect.

That comment about her parents was cheap, below the belt, and utterly unworthy of a human being, much less one who calles himself a man.
One does not need to be burned to know and respect fire.

I also agree that Mr. Khan's actions are contrary to his preaching. CVs need to watch this. He has been very loose with touching/hugging/falling over Ms. Farouqui, but we have all forgiven that as mutual, irresistible attraction.
Not so with Tunveer. Even if he wants to make a point with Ms. Farouqui, there are ways to ignore her and focus attention on Tunveer without touching his childhood friend.

As for the younger bro, I think he will be an excellent friend and support for Ms. Farouqui. He has actually stayed true to character...a flirt, but a harmless one; never crossing his boundaries, no matter what opportunities have been thrown his way.

It would certainly be a welcome scene to watch if this were to commence.

BTW, is it not a wonder that all these tracks are so tedious and utterly predictable to us?
The CVs for most of the shows are the same group and they keep churning out the same ol', same ol' year after year.
No creativity left.
They ought to change their designation to Garbage Recyclers.


Jayne

Bang on @ Jayne & @ desiangel24 I wonder where is his TEHZEEB now.

Originally posted by: desiangel24

I sort of agree with you.

I'll be honest with you I don't really think its love yet (hopefully it will be later) its just a mere attraction he had. I really don't feel like he loves Zoya because he criticize her for everything, but did he ever hear what she had to say... I don't really remember and please correct me if i'm wrong. (my hindi and english is not that great) When he does say mean things, Zoya has the heart to forgive him and look beyond that. He has to realize that life is not what you really plan or want it to be. Its more or less than a person had envisioned. Zoya may not be mature, responsible, or whatever like his friend but that's what make her Zoya. he can't just push her to the side or use her as a toy when he is furstated with everyone. She's a human being with feelings, emotion and desire. I was really taken back when they both had bhanng pakodas and he said how would you know about parents love or something, you don't have them. That was really mean, rude, selfish, just really upsetting to me. I affected me so much as a viewer, imagine our Zoya.

And if he follows the traditional ways, respect women and all the stuff he says then why didn't he know to keep his limit with slapping Zoya, insulting her, hugging his friend, rubbing her foot. There are boundaries when you reach a certain age. I don't know if I just feel bad for Zoya or what, but I'm really not liking Mr. Khan now.

I would like to see a small track of Zoya and Ayaan I think they complement each other well. I'm not saying they should be together, just only as friends. I think Ayaan would be a stronger support pillar for Zoya than Mr. Khan and hopefully Mr. Khan will learn or even realize.

Please i'm free for all comments, I just want to see what other people would think about it and what they feel too.

Exactly. Mr Khan is totally out of character nowadays

Originally posted by: Tanvi_124

I think he is really attracted to her... He has a lot of kashish(attraction) towards her as he said when he was intoxicated... He is trying to run away from his feelings and trying to mask them but I don't think he is quite in love yet... I think when he realizes the true Zoya as in that she saved Najma and went to jail, her painful past, her burn on her arm, etc, he will start to realize his love and actually fall in love with her... Remember, he doesn't know Zoya completely yet.. Yes, he knows her past which did bring them closer, but slowly he will learn about the other sides of Zoya to truly accept her... Her past revealation made him accept some of Zoya's nature but not all of her... He still thinks ill of her on some levels which can only be fixed as he knows more about her and his attraction gets deeper.. Zoya is still a question mark for Asad on some level... He really does LIKE her to a great extent and his liking is on the verge of turning into love, but he is trying his best to seal it and cover it up... Just like he said during the drunk confession " Main apne jazbaaton mein kho nahin sakta... Sapna aur asliat mein bohot farak Hota hai... Aur asliat yeh hai ki aap mere liye bilkul misfit hai" (Translation: I can't lose myself to my feelings and inner turmoil... There is a difference between dreams and reality.. And the reality is that you are a total misfit for me..)

Asad likes her, yes, but love??? I don't think so??? He hasn't accepted Zoya yet... The way she is, the way she dresses, the way she speaks, etc... And love means you accept someone full hearted including thee flaws... He feels that Zoya isn't fit or capable for him... He needs to first truly understand her and accept her for who she truly is before he actually loves her...

And yes, I was also very angry and upset when Asad said Zoya doesn't know the meaning of having parents because she doesn't have them... That was not only rude, arrogent, and insensitive but it was precisely wrong on so many human levels... Seriously, I really want ths to be brought up again and this time Zoya to give Jahapana Khan a ear full.. I just want to say if the CVz call this love, then my 17 years of understanding love and relationships are all wrong...and Asd needs to repent and feel remorse and have a whole track of Asad winning Zoya back... I remember 4lions's last show... This guy put the girl through so much pain and she literally suffered and he literally got her back in 3-4 episodes... WTH.. I was really pissed off at that... Since Asad is being a total ass, he better have a nice long redemption track to win Zoya back or else he really doesn't deserve her... Frankly, Zoya is too good for him... And if he doesn't acknowledge her properly, Zoya is better off alone in New York

Lol, I hope I made sense... And him calling her stupid was just another thing that broke my heart for Zoya...l

Zoya was strong , educated and independent from the beginning and I simply loved her character and decided to try the show for her only. Now I like other characters but its mainly Z for me. Now that she is acting like a doormat I am feeling cheated.

i think what zoya feels for asad and what asad feels for zoya, is not love, at least for now...

i think that zoya is just sad because she is not getting the attention that she used to get from her mr khan, and that the appearance of tanveer in the house makes her feel as if her existence in the house is not important at all...

since she used to be showered a lot of care and affection in that house, she sorts of feel as if she is not a part of their family now...

mr khan, on the other hand, seems to realize that he has more affection towards miss zoya than he imagined and he can't seem to accept that as he thinks her character is unacceptable for a muslim girl and she only brings misfortune wherever she goes...

Originally posted by: manisha1412

i think what zoya feels for asad and what asad feels for zoya, is not love, at least for now...

i think that zoya is just sad because she is not getting the attention that she used to get from her mr khan, and that the appearance of tanveer in the house makes her feel as if her existence in the house is not important at all...

since she used to be showered a lot of care and affection in that house, she sorts of feel as if she is not a part of their family now...

mr khan, on the other hand, seems to realize that he has more affection towards miss zoya than he imagined and he can't seem to accept that as he thinks her character is unacceptable for a muslim girl and she only brings misfortune wherever she goes...

well that really make sense. So Asad Ahmed Khan is a man in love (described by Forum32) is not true.
That's what I am saying all along Asad is not in love with Zoya

Asad is super boring...super annoying and super nasty character right now (my opinion...not appealing to me). I love Zoya so far except the last couple episodes...positive, refreshing young girl, having fun..

...I actually liked (edit) another character they had previously developed...who was strong, independent, leave me alone kinda guy; lived on his own, worked hard ... and arrogant, threw his weight around almost everyone around him.

Asad's character is nice to everyone around him except Zoya (and his dad which I can buy)...so the strong, silent, angry young man who keeps to himself doesnt add up. He's fine with everyone around him except this girl because she wears denim? huh...W*F. If they had established what he actually did for Zoya to fall in love with him and then made him behave like an a**hole then it would probably make sense that he's trying to push her away ...but whatever...

Hope they dont make a devdas out of him when the girl leaves...how bleugh!

Originally posted by: trina2010

I understand that I might have to eat my words very soon , but really IS THIS LOVE?

I mean I understand Asad is a dark man with a dark past and he is trying his best to push Zoya away from him. We all saw his love for Zoe, he goes mad when Zoe is in danger, he tries to protect her now and then, forum 32 articles also says that Asad is a man in love, with Zoya.

But but but no matter what can someone hurt his/her love this way he is doing and stay sane and happy at the same time?

He knew Zoya did not eat but he scolded her. I get that he was angry and That BB manipulated him , but no matter what how is he tolerating Zoyas misery after all the things happened between them in the past?

I wonder😕

How is he living with himself after repeatedly hurting a sweet , caring orphan girl who wants nothing but his attention and care?

On top of that he is all mushy with his so called friend , whom he is kinda using to get rid of Zoyas influence on him.

IS THIS LOVE?

I don't think so.

Feel free to share your views too.